No ugly women are just ugly women. Just because you're in a pageant or a model doesn't make you pretty.
Are we partly responsible for black women's self-hate issues?
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I see it all the time. they love white men.
especially college educated black feminists.
it's either women they like or white men.
nikkas get called a self hatingc oon all the time on here for liking non-black womenit's funny you have to compare "geeky, nerdy white guys" to just a black kid being dark skinned. its a complete freudian slip on your behalf, but BW definitely treat complexion like a social disorder.
Un-AmericanDreamer
Simp City
I'm not saying every black feminist is bed wenching out here, but I've encountered quite a few 20 something tumblr feminists with cac boyfriends who feel validated to talk shyt about brothers not picking sistas. I mean, there is a certain type of black woman out here like that. You know they exist. They watch adventure time, they're on that begging white people for equality shyt. Basically, these people just want to live amongst white people and be their token friends. I think ya'll ignoring the ones who do because it makes the movement look bad when she wants to bring Chad along.
They name the same 5 dudes because if they start naming dudes off the street, you wouldn't know them. Just like dudes name the same 5 dark skin or light skin chicks they like.
BangerzAOTY
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black women are always the first to hate on a black woman
Un-AmericanDreamer
Simp City
I see it all the time. they love white men.
especially college educated black feminists.
it's either women they like or white men.
Damn , you broke it down to a science. You know exactly what type of woman I'm talking about. They out here for real. I think these women want acceptance from the dominant society more than they want black empowerment, know what I mean?
iight, fine. im just tired of black women saying they love dark skinned black men, then the first nikka they bring up is idris elba
SamuraiFlamenco
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Yall just get on here and make shyt up........
Whatever you say yah dap-fishing weirdo. We all know black people clown those darker than them HARD, or anyone that seems African. To deny this just tells me you did the same shyt in school (or laughed when someone did) and don't want to admit to it because it makes you a c00n
I see it all the time. they love white men.
especially college educated black feminists.
it's either women they like or white men.
You dudes just repeat shyt you hear from tariq nasheed.
Those women aren't uglyaverage yeah,
They ugly to me. Just like some girls find Drake cute, I think he looks like a frog. Different strokes for different folks.
So even after naming a cute dark skin chick, I'm hating. You guys are funny.
I also love Lance Gross and Morris Chestnut
Although my husband for now is Cam Newton and he's brown skin, as I've learned from this thread.
You mad cuz you don't look like Idris?
Sounds like black men who always bring up kelly rowland and gabby union.
Dark skinned men constantly say they're the most desired so their self esteem is fine breh
I grew up on the east. I'm well aware that opposites tend to attract as far as light skinned and dark skinned black people. That doesn't discount my point that black women are just as colorstruck as black men. You keep trying to duck and dodge that truth and that's what makes it seem like you have an agenda. There's a whole lot of room on the spectrum between light skin and dark skin, and most blacks are somewhere in the middle. You're trying to paint it like blacks either the complexion of Alicia Keys or Wesley Snipes.
You're still confused as to what I'm saying. I'm not sayin that black women aren't attracted to dark skinned black men. I'm saying that black when are just as colorstruck and have just as many issues with colorism as black men do. Being attracted to dark skinned black men doesn't discount a black women from having issues with colorism. I've seen plenty of women with dark skinned men, shyt on their man's dark complexion when they angry or upset. Any dark skinned black person will tell you that their dark complexion is the 1st thing that other black people will point out when their trying to dis. A lot of the same women who are attracted to brothers like Elba and Chestnut, would call those cats every "black" name under the sun if they got mad enough. Colorism is deeply ingrained in both black men and women. It's counterproductive to deny that or pretend as if one gender is more colorstruck than the other.
I actually have a theory as to why dark skinned black men seemingly get more love from people than dark skinned black women, but people's self esteem aren't ready for that.