Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Just do what I’ve been doing for the past 30 years.

Make eye contact. The eyes never lie. If you make eye contact with a woman, it’s like a batter reading a pitch being thrown. In a split second you should be able to determine if she’s feeling u or not.

 

[LesterDiamond]

Call women “girls” in your mid-thirties brehs

 

[DetroitEWarren]

I'm 37 and I still shoot my shot IN PERSON every time I see a cute chick. I'm a silly nikka so it's funny and flirtatious usually, so rejection ain't even really a possibility. If I see the chick is feeling me, I keep fukkin with her. If not, I keep it moving.

I get on new women all the time and I don't use the Internet to get chicks AT ALL unless you count the chicks I went to school with that I smashed years later.

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

Let them choose...my brother...let them choose.



If you got your shyt together and put yourself in the mix you'll be aight.

 

[-DMP-]

Just talk bruh. And read the vibes, body language. Don’t be autistic.

Them chicks fart and shyt just like you

 

[The Jewnited States]

nikka that should be a layup then Hella hoes in Waikiki

I'm coming out of prison I don't have my own place yet breh

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

It's better to do so in a social environment where women are more receptive to being approached.

I have slept with a lot of women and all of them I met in a social environment or through social media

I've never just gone up to a random chick at the store and chopped it up

 

[cyndaquil]

Just talk bruh. And read the vibes, body language. Don’t be autistic.

Them chicks fart and shyt just like you

black people always acting like autistic people can just turn that shyt off

 

[The Jewnited States]

Just do what I’ve been doing for the past 30 years.

Make eye contact. The eyes never lie. If you make eye contact with a woman, it’s like a batter reading a pitch being thrown. In a split second you should be able to determine if she’s feeling u or not.

I've noticed that I get eye contact quite a bit, probably because I'm decent shape and dress pretty well. It's that split second gap between the eye contact and making an approach that I need to just go do the damn thang


Otherwise I will forever just have these coworkers on my dikk and I can't do anything about it because I try not to fukk coworkers and especially not date them just off principle

 

[cyndaquil]

I'm coming out of prison I don't have my own place yet breh

So what? That just means more rejections but at the end of the day there's still chicks who will fukk with you.

I watched a hispanic man get at a hispanic woman who worked at the Nike store yesterday. I know some Spanish and he was like "hey I like you" she was like nah no chance and walked off and breh kept it pushing and I basically forgot it happened when I went back into looking for clothes until today when I read this thread

Don't nobody give a fukk

 

[The Jewnited States]

So what? That just means more rejections but at the end of the day there's still chicks who will fukk with you.

You right breh. And I know all these things and I am self aware enough to know that I'm above average in almost all facets of life besides finances but I just don't put myself in a position to get rejected enough and I get upset with myself for caring too much about the opinions of strangers while simultaneously knowing that their opinion matters nil because only I can know the inside of me.


Vicious cycle breh. Social constructs boxing me in breh. I need to break free brehs

 

[cyndaquil]

You right breh. And I know all these things and I am self aware enough to know that I'm above average in almost all facets of life besides finances but I just don't put myself in a position to get rejected enough and I get upset with myself for caring too much about the opinions of strangers while simultaneously knowing that their opinion matters nil because only I can know the inside of me.


Vicious cycle breh. Social constructs boxing me in breh. I need to break free brehs

My advice go out with the goal of getting rejected at first. Become used to it. Try and experiment see what works and what doesn't.
You have to get over rejection and see that it ain't that bad first.
You ever been jumped? Ever had a family member or pet die? Ever been fired from a job? All that shyt hurts way more than the worst rejection a woman could give you which is probably either being ignored or "eww no i have standards you're ugly. Go away" which btw almost never happens.

This process is not fun at first. You will be shaking, your voice may quiver, you might fukk up and say dumb things but you can't pick up the controller and expect to be the best call of duty player immediately.

 

[African Peasant]

To coldly approach women or random strangers on the road, you have to have little to no fear of public reprisal and embarrassment. I value self respect and the self dignity way more to approach it that way, i refuse to contribute to the pandering of some of these toxic women's egos

I see your point.

But the probability of getting embarassed in public is in reality very low. The average woman will just tell you no thank you or, worse, ignore you.

 

[Lurking Class Hero]

Never done a cold approach in my life
Good luck out there

 

[cyndaquil]

I see your point.

But the probability of getting embarassed in public is in reality very low. The average woman will just tell you no thank you or, worse, ignore you.

And even then everyone will usually think she's a rude bytch. Laugh at you a bit in their heads or outside then move on