Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

[Capitol]

Ask them if they want to frolic in a field with you or something breh. It's not hard

 

[Canada Goose]

@Pdiddy OP is in need of your assistance

 

[Roger king]

To coldly approach women or random strangers on the road, you have to have little to no fear of public reprisal and embarrassment. I value self respect and the self dignity way more to approach it that way, i refuse to contribute to the pandering of some of these toxic women's egos

 

[Ohene]

i'm tired of men making excuses
who cares if the woman has a phone in her hand or earbuds

just fukkin say "excuse me" and talk to her. if she rejects you, apologize for bothering her and move along. she's a human being, not a fukkin lion.

Agree to disagree.

From my perspective, I don't care at all about random people in public, because I know I'm a megastar (requires a lot of discipline and earned self-esteem) and nothing will get in my way, certainly not my own perceived social constructs. If I see a woman that I think, I can't just let her walk out of my life without doing anything, I will approach. Do I strike out a lot? Yes, but so what.

I can approach without fear of embarrassment because I know whether the approach works or not I'm going to be fine with or without her.

SIMPLE

 

[hostsamurai]

To coldly approach women or random strangers on the road, you have to have little to no fear of public reprisal and embarrassment. I value self respect and the self dignity way more to approach it that way, i refuse to contribute to the pandering of some of these toxic women's egos

Agree to disagree.

From my perspective, I don't care at all about random people in public, because I know I'm a megastar (requires a lot of discipline and earned self-esteem) and nothing will get in my way, certainly not my own perceived social constructs. If I see a woman that I think, I can't just let her walk out of my life without doing anything, I will approach. Do I strike out a lot? Yes, but so what.

I can approach without fear of embarrassment because I know whether the approach works or not I'm going to be fine with or without her.

 

[Ohene]

Just say hello and don't try to get the number.

Say hello and smile and if you find yourself talking for time minutes ask to follow her on IG

fukk IG. ask for her fone number. IG is lame unless your shyt poppin like that

 

[Elim Garak]

It's best to shoot your shot on social media first and get to know them through DM. It's actually never been easier to talk to women lol. Just ask for their socials.

 

[Da King]

Agree to disagree.

From my perspective, I don't care at all about random people in public, because I know I'm a megastar (requires a lot of discipline and earned self-esteem) and nothing will get in my way, certainly not my own perceived social constructs. If I see a woman that I think, I can't just let her walk out of my life without doing anything, I will approach. Do I strike out a lot? Yes, but so what.

I can approach without fear of embarrassment because I know whether the approach works or not I'm going to be fine with or without her.

Please tell us how you “earned” this moniker

 

[cyndaquil]

To coldly approach women or random strangers on the road, you have to have little to no fear of public reprisal and embarrassment. I value self respect and the self dignity way more to approach it that way, i refuse to contribute to the pandering of some of these toxic women's egos

breh if your dignity and self respect are contigent upon what a random woman and random people think about you from a 1 minute interaction then you've got bigger issues to work on.

That being said to OP like socializing, cold approaching is a skill that you practice and get better at over time

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

do not put any attachment into the feelings and consequences of rejection

Listen

Keep it light, keep it positive and take rejection in stride. The way you handle being let down may leave the door open should you run into her again

 

[hostsamurai]

Please tell us how you “earned” this moniker

Not so much earned as much as if you repeat something enough times you start to believe it.
It helped me get through the gym one workout at a time and now I regularly go 4 times a week, helped form connections with people I wouldn't have otherwise thought and received business opportunities because I learned to set my worth high.

This is all coming from a guy that used to have crippling social anxiety.

 

[Hater Eraser]

 

[Killer Instinct]

Always open with a compliment.

"You have pretty eyes," tends to work from what I've seen.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Get at Mr Locario and get on the Bad Boy Membership

 

[Da King]

Not so much earned as much as if you repeat something enough times you start to believe it.
It helped me get through the gym one workout at a time and now I regularly go 4 times a week, helped form connections with people I wouldn't have otherwise thought and received business opportunities because I learned to set my worth high.

This is all coming from a guy that used to have crippling social anxiety.