No, you can't. Because of what the most vocal people make "pro-black" out to be, you cannot date out. It's just like a man can't really be a feminist these days. The perception of those folks is the reality. No, you can't be pro black and date out. Personally, I'm committed to a non-black lady. I conduct my business with many different types of people but I do my best to make sure that qualified black folks get shine as much as possible. I support local and black business as much as possible. I look out for youngsters in my neighborhood to at least try and influence them to stay out of the bullshyt. I don't care if you call me pro-black or not because I'm doing what I feel is right in my community. I'm not gonna break up with my girlfriend to impress a nikka dressed like an off brand power ranger or some chick that doesn't wear deodorant. In this day and age, we still arguing what even qualifies a nikka to be black. How the fukk I'm gonna be pro something that doesn't even exist?