I can't even front like I don't feel like Bow sometimes. I don't have kids, but I have a little cousin who's going into high school and is one of the only 4 or 5 black kids in the entire school. 10 years ago I was in his shoes and I remember all the slick racist shut the white boys would try to say to me to get a reaction etc. I remember thinking as a teen, that I can't do all the dumb shyt they would do after school cause I knew as the black kid, I'd get in worse trouble than they would.
But my cousin, doesn't seem to have those thoughts or concerns. I remember his pops getting upset that "he thinks it's all good with these white boys" and I remember asking him what if it is though? What if it's not like it was when I was in school. Isn't this what we want? I didn't want to "crush his reality" so to speak. I did take him aside and told him to always watch himself and taught him all the "the rules are different for us" talk etc.
Yeah and I don't have kids either but I felt her on that. I know Anthony Anderson talked about before the episode aired, in how it's difficult as a parent to know how much to tell your kids and when to tell them stuff etc because you want them to be kids and feel free to be a kid. Now grant it, I didn't have the same experience as you growing up and I'm thankful I didn't but my parents still gave me that talk once I got to a certain age. Not for school but just situations outside of school. There's the balance of wanting to be real with your kids but also not wanting them to be too cynical and too jaded before they even get a chance to experience stuff for themselves. Life is rough enough.
I know cats in the coli think it's a sin to watch scandal, but some of the realist shyt I've heard on tv was in an episode of that when Olivia's dad reminded her that he always told her she needed to be twice as good to get half of what a white person has because she's black and because she's a woman.