The Blind Man
Illuminated Attitude Adjuster
Ned didn't live long enough to miss Jon. And his whole time in King's Landing, he had a lot more to worry about than whether he gets to tell Jon who is mother is.
Exactly!
He isn't worried about Jon. So when he dreams of the tower if joy and references the "promise" multiple times who is he thinking of?
Whilst awaiting his death sentence he doesn't worry about Jon he thinks of the broken promise.
If the promise is to keep Jon a secret and only Ned knows, Ned getting killed means NO ONE will every find out. He doesn't think "well at least I kept my promise"
No he is thinking he failed, not as a father, for breaking his promise.
I have no problem with the R+L = J. I rejected this idea on this very board long but changed my opinion based on things put forward. There is evidence to support that at least one of the Stark bros is his pops more than likely Ned.
I am interested in good reasons why this couldn't be the case. So far there isn't much coming forward.