Why did I enter this thread?
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Don't get mad at me shorty, get mad at the subject in question and call him a rapist then
Nah... not in plain sight in full view. Never have I seen that and trust, I've been in all types of neighborhood environments and exposed to a lot at an early age being that I was the only girl in my fam growing up. My brothers carried guns, I can relate to all that need for protection and reasons for guns;adapting and all that. But there's a time and a place. That wasn't it. It's sexual intimidation equivalent to rape, bc of the intent to harm; even though they may not have expressed to you about feeling coerced- I'm communicating to you now, how I would feel had it been me in their place. I can accept that you take responsibility in thinking back but I have to disagree about gun on the dresser while having sex. And I'm letting you know that as if you were my real life blood relation brothers - I would say the same thing to them and I would have been vocal to them if it were disclosed they ever displayed a gun with a woman they were dating during an intimate moment. I'm not jumping on a bandwagon, or judge you- that's my feelings and my opinion.This is fair except for where you say its rape. You can't determine what is menacing on another womans behalf,and my intent wasn't to intimidate them into sex. Most of the women I dealt with it wasn't their first time seeing a gun I'm sure. They understand what nikkas carried guns for and it is quite normal. BUT i shouldn't have assumed that on their behalf either in hindsight. There are plenty of reasons to have a gun at a sex encounter and have it easily accessible if you don't trust the woman,and especialy if you are away from your own house. Guys take guns to the homes of strange women they are fukking,I'm pretty sure this is normal as far as I know. I gave family guns to take when they would tell me they were going to fukk some new chick at her spot,and dudes would ask me if I had it on me when I was going
Its not smart in hindsight knowing what I know now,you should just pass on the p*ssy if you don't feel 100% safe and secure.
Exactly what I was thinking,or if you are at her house you don't know who could show up or what she's into,its an away game.Most of these male posters are suburban based environments.Based on the fact they are acting like having a gun with you when you go to have sex is unheard of and foreign
Even after these accusations,I still wouldn't tell a man not to take a gun with him if he is going to fukk strange women or fukk in strange places,but you should discuss it with the woman,make it to where its not visible. I would really suggest just not fukking women you don't trust,but we know thats not going to happen.
Is he rationalizing that the woman was NOT raped
Nothing borderline about it, that's rape.
