Are u a woman? U sound a lil too invested and far too judgemental. I hate to tell u but life just doesn't always fit this box u want it to fit in. It almost sounds like ur angry at these chicks winning at this game (like a frustrated male would be).
"Reformed whore..." That's a lot of suspect heat to describe chicks who had sex lives prior to getting married.
"Aren't having the kind of sex..." these are not female oriented dispositions.
These are dispositions that men are concerned about b/c they hate the idea of women having thorough and possibly fulfilling sex lives prior to coming into contact with their dikks.
Every man wants to think that his dikk was the first and only and life-changing variable in a woman's life. That's not our priority b/c we know as females there are so many more factors that go into relationship beyond sex. One.
Face the facts. Women are sexual creatures. The world has 7 billion people in it and if ur not a socially awkward reject u will come into contact with hundreds of thousands of people in ur lifetime and form dozens of relationships which can be sexual in nature before u meet someone u want to be with for the rest of ur life.
That's literally reality. U fighting life. U don't have to be damaged or broken or evil to have had some penis inside you before u get married.
Grow up. And no I'm not encouraging hoe lifestyle b/c that's the next overly simplistic nonsense stance that I know u gon take.
Instead I'm encouraging common sense. Fukkin happens. It's apart of life. People make mistakes and while some have a vested interest in life "punishing" "hoes" with loneliness, unfortunately it just doesn't work out that way in a lot of cases.
As a woman why wouldn't it be a good thing that past mistakes didn't prevent these chicks from a good life? Two.
U tellin on urself.