Lmao! I think what I'm trying to convey is that life isn't as simple as the boxes we like to put people in.
I'm half trolling but also half pushing people to think beyond these binaries b/c I do know chicks who were wild as fukk and now Suzy homemakers.
You don't become an automatically good wife for not having a lot of bodies. And the character of somebodies heart can't be quantified by their body count.
Excessive promiscuity IS oftentimes a sign hell in men and women that there is something going on. But that doesn't mean that's who she is for the rest of her life. And also be honest, either u naive if u think there ain't more than a couple of freaks married with family photos OR u in denial.
I'm not encouraging people to go chase down train lovin broads, but I also don't advise people to dismiss what could be a good person who genuinely cares about him just b/c she had some wild ass nights. Especially in our current dating climate where "bytches get ghosted" if they not fukkin by the 1st date.
It ain't even about being fair. It's just common sense.