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Big Yella
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45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
meh
said it a billion times on this site, and im honestly not tryna pocket watch, but unless you make 6 figures alone your better off having a partner. I dunno where yall meeting these chics making 100k at age 27. Most times you make the most money in your career after becoming utmost senior level.
Her husband has health issues and has for a long time. So life centers around him and he has really done nothing to fix it.
He's so use to her catering to him that he intentionally will ruin outtings that are not centered around him. Every time they go somewhere she has to buy his something like a treat so his mood will improve. He's also super wasteful with money.
I have literally stopped inviting them places because that shyt irks the hell outta me, but that is literally the only time she gets out.
I think when she met she saw him as a "savior" but in reality he was just basically doing what a roommate would do. I think she now realizes the time she put into her marriage is time she could have used to get her money up quicker than she did and use the extra money to travel with her daughter.
There are many relationships she could have mended and things she could have done (she's very talented) but didn't because she basically gave up her life for his.
She deeply regrets doing that.
All the measurable data on the topic shows fatherless children performing worse iven to the point of having worse health overall throughout their life.
but she's coming in here with a strong opinion that will only exacerbate the issues in our community...
shyt is sad
There are other things that go into a relationship than money though. A roommate can pay half the bills. You don’t need a relationship for that.
Cheese McNair
Bought it this morning, drive it like I stole it
That’s an interesting take seeing as how I’ve heard most of my life that fathers not being around is what destroyed the black population.
You’re saying that’s not true.
Is that what the data says?
The data doesn't say that children need fathers. The data says that the children of single parents perform worse than child who have multiple adults living in the home.
Children should have males around to an extent especially boys but that doesn't mean that they need their biological father around. Older male relatives are perfectly acceptable role models.
It's the isolation of the mother or single parent that causes the issue because of the stress and lack of support; not the biological specifics.
Well I would hope you'd (general) do some of those things out of love not necessarily because you're trying to adhere to some traditional gender roles. I've had women do all those things for me without me even asking. In my personal experience if you're meeting a women's need a lot of those things just come naturally.
Do you have a source for any of your claims?
See post 311
The promotion of the nuclear family is what creates single moms.
Women are taught to rely on that one man and basically isolate herself with him. Once the relationship ends she is SOL and then usual takes on the overwhelming responsibility of child care which is stressful and difficult.
A more sustainable model would be use family groups to help raise the child (the village). Those groups are less likely to up and leave and the responsibility is then spread out. I'm not saying men shouldn't be around their child of course. I am saying the model we are given is not working and has never worked.
Typically in nature males do not raise children. We need to stop pretending otherwise.
Instead of talking in ideals we should speak in reality.
Brolic
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When you see stories about the Kia boys, children out past 9pm committing crimes, teens reading at a 5th grade level, or any other negative news stories there’s a high probability those kids they came from a single parent household.