45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030

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... or she's been socialized to believe that providing you with free labor and her body at your disposal is the only way to retain you and be seen as a "good" woman.

"Ask a man to describe a perfect woman and he'll describe a slave"

Women are running from ya'll (general) for a reason. It's because these relationships are unpleasant and the benefits that you supposedly get from these relationships can be found in other places that don't require her to turn into a maid.

:yeshrug:
I say stay away from each other this back and forth who is worse does not do anything


Just live alone stay away from the all men and thr men stay away from all the woman


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I actually agree with this. I don't think it keeps them single though.

I think most women who talk like that are liars. They tend to be the ones paying a man's way.
They pay the man's way because they want the aesthetic of a hood niqqa look at how many black women offered this homeless dude a place to stay because of how he looked :mjlol:

black women who don't date hood niqqas or bum niqqas with the hood niqqa aesthetic underestimate how many black women would date a bum niqqa that got the hood niqqa aesthetic or a hood niqqa over a regular 9 to 5 black men that dress regular like a simple outfit from Zara or H&M :hubie: and it's really bad for niqqa nerds :francis:
 
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guys really still be trying to shame and scare the p*ssy out of a chick with the childless babble in 2024 :dead: FML.


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As a breh with no kids nor wife I agree with a lot being said in here. They have a lot of folks married and miserable.

Ya’ll can continue wasting energy going back and forth as everyone is entitled to their own opinion but the fact will always remain that 2 is more powerful than 1.

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True no models are perfect but you know that the majority of people are not born into nuclear families right? Especially not BP.

I did know this. Are you saying that we as a population have been fine despite of this?

So if your solution to "keeping the species going" is nuclear family then you're going to have a serious population decline.

You suggested that one model was better than the other. I’m stating that no model is outright better than the other and that we all just trying to make it work.


Also all my family relationships have lasted fare longer than any romantic relationship I ever had. Family in general is vastly more reliable than random people who met on the street or in a app.

That’s great that it can last for you but it doesn’t for some.

Also, there’s still the whole “living in this particular city/town isn’t working for me job wise” factor that can kick in regardless of how close you are with your family.
 

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I don't understand why people try to condemn women for avoiding marriage/children. Being a single mother seems like a miserable existence. And staying with an unfaithful or abusive partner just because he's the father of your children is even worse.

The reality is a significant amount of men are not marriage material and make shytty husbands.

That's why I advise the women close to me to keep their standards high (not unrealistic) despite what that piece of shyt Kevin Samuels claims and only start families with men worthy of it.
I agree with the bolded but lets be practical here. High standards usually means superficial standards.

If modern women prioritized character over superficial attributes things like height, dikk game, hairline, car, whether the date is at Nobu or the Cheesecake factory, outfit and all this other bullshyt then they wouldnt have any problems finding worthy men. There are plenty of men that would make good fathers and husbands...women just aint checkin for them.

Nobody is saying you shouldnt want someone to be attractive or have a good job, but 'high' standards are typically unrealistic and hypocritical and you know it. A 5'2 chick is demanding a 6 feet tall nikka. A broke chick demanding a 6 figure nikka. A chick who has never seen a dumbbell a day in her life demanding a hulky nikka. It's a joke and rampant in the black community
 

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said it a billion times on this site, and im honestly not tryna pocket watch, but unless you make 6 figures alone your better off having a partner. I dunno where yall meeting these chics making 100k at age 27. Most times you make the most money in your career after becoming utmost senior level.

My wife makes 55k a year and I make 45k

we straight.
 
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