45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030

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Good. Women especially BW are so much better off single.

Both my sisters are happily married and I’m glad they’re not out here tying to tough it out on their own. Yes they both have their minor gripes with their significant other but there still loyal and go home to them everyday and are building excellent.

You’re being gaslight and used as a tampon for emotion. Why would anyone want to hear another person bad mouth another in that type of position, seems to me you not doing what your doing and don’t respect yourself to even want to hear that.

If she a good woman she won’t be single.
 

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I think we are talking from different vantage points.

You’re giving your personal experience with the local groups you have interaction with….

I’m just going by the statistics for the black community as a whole
The stats from the BC as a whole reflect my and most BP personal experience.

Statically, most Blk marriages fail or never happen to begin with.
 

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Both my sisters are happily married and I’m glad they’re not out here tying to tough it out on their own. Yes they both have their minor gripes with their significant other but there still loyal and go home to them everyday and are building excellent.

You’re being gaslight and used as a tampon for emotion. Why would anyone want to hear another person bad mouth another in that type of position, seems to me you not doing what your doing and don’t respect yourself to even want to hear that.

If she a good woman she won’t be single.
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Whatever you say patna.

If marriage was this lovely fairytale that makes life perfect then they wouldn't fail at such a high rate.

If it was so magical the whole global of women wouldn't be running from it in massive numbers as soon as they get the ability to opp out.

In fact, if it was so desirable, then we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

But you can live in that delusion if you'd like. The data and reality of male loniness say otherwise.

:yeshrug:
 

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Every married BW I know is miserable and talks to their husband like a dog.

Have some of them done better financially because they are married. Yes, but very few. Most have husbands who are fare less capable than they are.

The couple I know that have been married the longest and get along pretty well, the wife just recently told me that if she could do it again she wouldn't have gotten married.

People speak of marriage in ideals not reality. Most marriages are overly burdensome to women and many women are only in them for the image and/or to control men.

As for the children, children thrive in family groups. As long as the mother or caregiver of the child has support from extended family the child will be fine. Fathers are helpful but it's not the end of the world if one isn't around...as many of us know.
This same logic can be applied to BM as well. I don't know too many BM (men in general) that are all that happy in their marriage. It can be burdonsome on both genders. I have seen seen some beautiful marriages though where both parties are thriving. Its a rarity but its out there.

I agree that people have an idealized view on marriage. When you're married a good portion of your autonomy is gone. The best marriages work when both parties recognize each others autonomy and sovereignity as unique individuals. But this requires a great degree of emotional maturity on both sides.

Also I disagree with you about the importance of fathers. Good fathers (who're not only present but are there for their children emotionally) are crucial. And the same applies to good mothers.
 

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This apocalyptic ten-year “I’m in a bind Nate!” season sounds arduous, almost impossible, now…..








































…..But I’m ready
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You said you need how much more to get your son’s PS5 pro off layaway?
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This same logic can be applied to BM as well. I don't know too many BM (men in general) that are all that happy in their marriage. It can be burdonsome on both genders. I have seen seen some beautiful marriages though where both parties are thriving. Its a rarity but its out there.

I agree that people have an idealized view on marriage. When you're married a good portion of your autonomy is gone. The best marriages work when both parties recognize each others autonomy and sovereignity as unique individuals. But this requires a great degree of emotional maturity on both sides.

Also I disagree with you about the importance of fathers. Good fathers (who're not only present but are there for their children emotionally) are crucial. And the same applies to good mothers.
Cool so we agree for the most part. :yeshrug:
 

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Cool so we agree for the most part. :yeshrug:
Well I don't know. I still think men and women ultimately need each other. I get the impression you would strongly disagree.

There's a lot of single people just coping and scraping by out there. I don't think anyone would be voluntarily single if they had the option of being with an awesome partner who supports them.
 

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Whatever you say patna.

If marriage was this lovely fairytale that makes life perfect then they wouldn't fail at such a high rate.

If it was so magical the whole global of women wouldn't be running from it in massive numbers as soon as they get the ability to opp out.

In fact, if it was so desirable, then we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

But you can live in that delusion if you'd like. The data and reality of male loniness say otherwise.

:yeshrug:

This is the reason why you’re still single and a statistic.

Never did I say it was a fairytale. Life is not a fairytale, being single is not a fairytale. Both my sisters wanted to start a family and did it the best way.

The reason women aren’t getting married is not by their choice it’s because most men since the invention of religion had to get married in order to sleep with a women.

Men don’t need to get married anymore for that. If you really think women collectively are not marrying because of standards you already can’t see your being used by western propaganda.

This is still a man’s world. It’s laughable that women still can’t see their being conned by corporations.

It’s why family law and child support will never change. The powers that be protect women that bring life into this world. But a childless single woman has got it even worse then man and is worth nothing but what between her legs. A single childless women has no power. But that’s what equal rights gets you.
 
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