45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030

Rick Fox at UNC

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This same logic can be applied to BM as well. I don't know too many BM (men in general) that are all that happy in their marriage. It can be burdonsome on both genders. I have seen seen some beautiful marriages though where both parties are thriving. Its a rarity but its out there.

I agree that people have an idealized view on marriage. When you're married a good portion of your autonomy is gone. The best marriages work when both parties recognize each others autonomy and sovereignity as unique individuals. But this requires a great degree of emotional maturity on both sides.

Also I disagree with you about the importance of fathers. Good fathers (who're not only present but are there for their children emotionally) are crucial. And the same applies to good mothers.

Why are you going back and forth with miserable bytches man?

It's debatable whether you should be going back and forth with a non-miserable one, but a miserable one? Come on man.

Them type ain't got nothing to contribute because if they did someone would have scooped them and they wouldn't be miserable.
 

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This same logic can be applied to BM as well. I don't know too many BM (men in general) that are all that happy in their marriage. It can be burdonsome on both genders. I have seen seen some beautiful marriages though where both parties are thriving. Its a rarity but its out there.

I agree that people have an idealized view on marriage. When you're married a good portion of your autonomy is gone. The best marriages work when both parties recognize each others autonomy and sovereignity as unique individuals. But this requires a great degree of emotional maturity on both sides.

Also I disagree with you about the importance of fathers. Good fathers (who're not only present but are there for their children emotionally) are crucial. And the same applies to good mothers.

Marriage is for building wealth and for kids. If your main focus is living your best life on your own terms Marriage isn't for you and I agree women should just stay single and out of men's way.
 
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People still debating with BP :mjlol: Girlfriend’s mental health has deteriorated since Brolic Scholar exposed her. It baffles me why she spend her lonely days (365) posting on the coli instead of seeing a shrink. Anyone with sense would scroll past her posts because obviously she’s a scorned woman.There’s no reasoning with her. She is embarrassing herself as she is not anonymous. People have her government name and pictures. Me, personally, would have been logged off, but I guess if you ain’t got nothing going for yourself………….
 

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Marriage is for building wealth and for kids. If your main focus is living your best life on your own terms Marriage isn't for you and I agree women should just stay single and out of men's way.

Definitely agree on kids, I think wealth, as in monetary wealth, isn't really the best metric. I understand your point though.

But really building/developing family and community is the way I think of it.

Also, not only should non-married women with poor attitudes stay away from men, but you should never allow them around your wife or kids. They are destroyers.

I monitor very closely who my kids do and do not interact with, especially women. I only allow my daughter around no-bs girls who are raised by no-bs moms.
 

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Well I don't know. I still think men and women ultimately need each other. I get the impression you would strongly disagree.

There's a lot of single people just coping and scraping by out there. I don't think anyone would be voluntarily single if they had the option of being with an awesome partner who supports them.
"Needing" each other doesn't mean that I (general) have to share a home with you (general), cook your meals, wash your clothes, have sex when you want, have your child or follow your relationship roles.

We're the same animal so there is a symbiotic relationship but that doesn't mean I have to exist with you in the way you feel is best for you.

Men are needed but not necessarily in the way you want them to be.
 

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If you're a man of value, is this something you need to really worry about? I imagine pure pressure to stay single could possible work on more women, but idk.

If women want to remain single, then by all means. Just don't complain about getting ran through or abstain from sex altogether.
 

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"Needing" each other doesn't mean that I (general) have to share a home with you (general), cook your meals, wash your clothes, have sex when you want, have your child or follow your relationship roles.

We're the same animal so there is a symbiotic relationship but that doesn't mean I have to exist with you in the way you feel is best for you.

Men are needed but not necessarily in the way you want them to be.


The bitter broken people will stay single, which is a good thing. The well put together men and women will be having families.

This is a win - win situation.
 
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