Rick Fox at UNC
All Star
This same logic can be applied to BM as well. I don't know too many BM (men in general) that are all that happy in their marriage. It can be burdonsome on both genders. I have seen seen some beautiful marriages though where both parties are thriving. Its a rarity but its out there.
I agree that people have an idealized view on marriage. When you're married a good portion of your autonomy is gone. The best marriages work when both parties recognize each others autonomy and sovereignity as unique individuals. But this requires a great degree of emotional maturity on both sides.
Also I disagree with you about the importance of fathers. Good fathers (who're not only present but are there for their children emotionally) are crucial. And the same applies to good mothers.
Why are you going back and forth with miserable bytches man?
It's debatable whether you should be going back and forth with a non-miserable one, but a miserable one? Come on man.
Them type ain't got nothing to contribute because if they did someone would have scooped them and they wouldn't be miserable.