45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030

[Savvir]

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See post 311

The promotion of the nuclear family is what creates single moms.

Women are taught to rely on that one man and basically isolate herself with him. Once the relationship ends she is SOL and then usual takes on the overwhelming responsibility of child care which is stressful and difficult.

A more sustainable model would be use family groups to help raise the child (the village). Those groups are less likely to up and leave and the responsibility is then spread out. I'm not saying men shouldn't be around their child of course. I am saying the model we are given is not working and has never worked.

Typically in nature males do not raise children. We need to stop pretending otherwise.

Instead of talking in ideals we should speak in reality.

In your reality uncles live with their neices and grand nephews/neices to raise them?

or single men have to raise their siblings kids?

So a single man has to live with children to raise them...

that's the solution...instead of both parents raising their kids...

single men have to raise the family's kids...?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Well I would hope you'd (general) do some of those things out of love not necessarily because you're trying to adhere to some traditional gender roles. I've had women do all those things for me without me even asking. In my personal experience if you're meeting a women's need a lot of those things just come naturally.

... or she's been socialized to believe that providing you with free labor and her body at your disposal is the only way to retain you and be seen as a "good" woman.

"Ask a man to describe a perfect woman and he'll describe a slave"

Women are running from ya'll (general) for a reason. It's because these relationships are unpleasant and the benefits that you supposedly get from these relationships can be found in other places that don't require her to turn into a maid.

 

[Cheese McNair]

See post 311

The promotion of the nuclear family is what creates single moms.

Women are taught to rely on that one man and basically isolate herself with him. Once the relationship ends she is SOL and then usual takes on the overwhelming responsibility of child care which is stressful and difficult.

A more sustainable model would be use family groups to help raise the child (the village). Those groups are less likely to up and leave and the responsibility is then spread out. I'm not saying men shouldn't be around their child of course. I am saying the model we are given is not working and has never worked.

Typically in nature males do not raise children. We need to stop pretending otherwise.

Instead of talking in ideals we should speak in reality.

I think the model is to have both a nuclear family and a village. That’s part of the reason why some cultures have arranged marriages. Anyway…

The village/family shyt isn’t more successful because people leave their families all the time. I’m sure even you have some family member that you don’t talk to at all. Now imagine if everyone picked that person’s side over your side? You basically out the family now.

Also, if you about your money, jobs relocate people. Great opportunities come up in different places. Just having to move from say, Brooklyn to Queens, can mess the village atmosphere up.

No model is perfect. We all just trying to keep the species(and race) going.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Whatever you say patna.

If marriage was this lovely fairytale that makes life perfect then they wouldn't fail at such a high rate.

If it was so magical the whole global of women wouldn't be running from it in massive numbers as soon as they get the ability to opp out.

In fact, if it was so desirable, then we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

But you can live in that delusion if you'd like. The data and reality of male loniness say otherwise.

Shorty you used to be a stripper/sex worker we know you seen all the worst that men have to offer. There is no coming back from that. Stop trying to poison the well due to the consequences of your own actions

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

People still debating with BP Girlfriend’s mental health has deteriorated since Brolic Scholar exposed her. It baffles me why she spend her lonely days (365) posting on the coli instead of seeing a shrink. Anyone with sense would scroll past her posts because obviously she’s a scorned woman.There’s no reasoning with her. She is embarrassing herself as she is not anonymous. People have her government name and pictures. Me, personally, would have been logged off, but I guess if you ain’t got nothing going for yourself………….

Because frail and meek nikkas gas her mid ass up in hopes of smashing
nikkas so problack on here but want used up p*ssy by white boys
Make it make sense
These nikkas ain’t what they portray outside
And she ain’t what she think she is outside
It’s a bunch of mental illness, projection and low self esteem having muthafukkas on this forum
Sit back and just watch

 

[GilSho]

I don't understand why people try to condemn women for avoiding marriage/children. Being a single mother seems like a miserable existence. And staying with an unfaithful or abusive partner just because he's the father of your children is even worse.

The reality is a significant amount of men are not marriage material and make shytty husbands.

That's why I advise the women close to me to keep their standards high (not unrealistic) despite what that piece of shyt Kevin Samuels claims and only start families with men worthy of it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

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In your reality uncles live with their neices and grand nephews/neices to raise them?

or single men have to raise their siblings kids?

So a single man has to live with children to raise them...

that's the solution...instead of both parents raising their kids...

single men have to raise the family's kids...?

Who said anything about living in the same house? You don't have to live in the same home to help raise a child.

And all those scenarios combined are way more common than mommy and daddy living a perfect life together. We both know this why sit around a pretend they aren't.

Humans are the only animals that think just because you created offspring with someone that you have to be shakled to them for the rest of your exist.

Ya'll want ideals. But the ideals don't work in mass.

 

[Cheese McNair]

Because frail and meek nikkas gas her mid ass up in hopes of smashing
nikkas so problack on here but want used up p*ssy by white boys
Make it make sense
These nikkas ain’t what they portray outside
And she ain’t what she think she is outside
It’s a bunch of mental illness, projection and low self esteem having muthafukkas on this forum
Sit back and just watch

I guess you would know Game recognize game

Every time I see you post, I think of your post in one of my JBO threads and crack up

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Shorty you used to be a stripper/sex worker we know you seen all the worst that men have to offer. There is no coming back from that. Stop trying to poison the well due to the consequences of your own actions

What conquences? Ya'll been telling me for a decade there will be all these conquences that have yet to show up.

The worst women I know are married sir. I know 2 women who literally tried to stab their partners to death and those men are still with them. One even went to jail for it and is currently out on probation.

Getting ya'll is not hard. I could literally do anything I want and still get a man.

Save that talking point for women who are too stupid to know better.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Do you have a source for any of your claims?

Do you?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I think the model is to have both a nuclear family and a village. That’s part of the reason why some cultures have arranged marriages. Anyway…

The village/family shyt isn’t more successful because people leave their families all the time. I’m sure even you have some family member that you don’t talk to at all. Now imagine if everyone picked that person’s side over your side? You basically out the family now.

Also, if you about your money, jobs relocate people. Great opportunities come up in different places. Just having to move from say, Brooklyn to Queens, can mess the village atmosphere up.

No model is perfect. We all just trying to keep the species(and race) going.

True no models are perfect but you know that the majority of people are not born into nuclear families right? Especially not BP.

So if your solution to "keeping the species going" is nuclear family then you're going to have a serious population decline.

Also all my family relationships have lasted fare longer than any romantic relationship I ever had. Family in general is vastly more reliable than random people who met on the street or in a app.

 

[prime]

Our women especially in this age bracket don't fuçk with us like that either. The childless part however fails or eventually will fail to be true.

I feel like a lot of our black women are single because they want future with Russell Wilson qualities and characteristics that paint,shows his soft side,still a street niqqa and pays 100 percent of the bills while they can still run the household how they want to run it basically high standards that's why black women dating coaches and matchmakers are quitting

 

[prime]

I will say this I kinda agree with women that a lot of men are lazy as fukk niqqas wanna go 50/50 on bills expect their wife to work full time and still clean,cook and take care of the kids while they dont do shyt at home So the I agree with the women that was commenting that on the IG post

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I feel like a lot of our black women are single because they want future with Russell Wilson qualities and characteristics that paint,shows his soft side,still a street niqqa and pays 100 percent of the bills while they can still run the household how they want to run it basically high standards that's why black women dating coaches and matchmakers are quitting

I actually agree with this. I don't think it keeps them single though.

I think most women who talk like that are liars. They tend to be the ones paying a man's way.

 

[ignorethis]

This is wonderful news depending on where you fall in the “dating pool status hierarchy”