RareHunter
All Star
That’s dumb and plays right into those fake J’s plans. They want us to date out so they can wipe our seed out with mamzers with “good straight or curly dog hair”.That is not a solution.
40+ Successful professional black women are getting in vitro to be "single mothers by choice"
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number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
More deranged and mentally ill individuals on the way.
Ricky Fontaine
Superstar
Who would’ve thought we’d see the day when this site would turn into LSA Lite 
GoAggieGo.
getting blitzed.
lol ok.CONTEXT. most people responding negatively are thinking of the statistics and stereotypes. OP framed it as people have the means to have in vitro, had the wherewithal to not get randomly pregnant at a younger age, etc. I think you can assume they have the means to skip a lot of the downfalls that come with being a single parent that doesn't have all the resources. for example a recent thread about elon musk having hella kids nobody cared and they was like "i would have 20 kids and 30 baby mamas if i was him"
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
It’s really common sense.
If I had to go in the jungle and survive for 18 years but I can only choose one of two options:
Option A: You can choose to go out alone, you will be provided resources to aid you throughout your survival but you’ll receive no assistance.
Option B: you’ll have double the resources and can choose a partner.
A logical person would go for option B. Someone who knows deep down they’re insufferable and drive the other person away would chose option A.
It makes zero sense to go at it alone by choice.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Speaking from experience? Cause they're meatball shaped dark-skinned women with black men and getting worshipped by black men.
What's your issue?
Okay.
It's not just about "feeling they can do bad by themselves".
For some? Yes.
For others? They probably tried, but some of the guys they were with had serious flaws.
And they realized they are 40 - they don't have much time left.
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
I’ve seen it with my own eyes. They want to wear the pants but they also want the man to be domineering, but not be “submissive” whilst at the same time be treated femininely.
Also, they don’t want to earn more than the man but they STILL want to be in competition with him.
How can you date anyone with that level of cognitive dissonance? They’re insane. God help me if I break up with my woman.
This makes me sad. Geez.
But a lot of guys don't actually improve themselvesWow, I learned something new today. Society = women only.
Listen “dork”, nowhere did I say it’s womens fault only and nor did I imply there ain’t shyt nikkas. But ultimately, women decide whether to have/keep a baby or not.
I used Naomi Campbell as an example because she is the most famous living black woman. She’s attractive, has dated billionaires and can’t hold down a man. So either one of the most eligible women for decades has bad luck or maybe, she’s just insufferable!
Just like a lot of these professional women are. I work with them and just listening to alot of them for 10 minutes makes me homicidal. What man wants to put up with that?
Are there shytty men? Absolutely. Are there shytty women? Absolutely. The problem is, the latter want to put a Band aid on their problems rather than work it out internally. A man can’t pull a decent woman? He works on himself, his goals, finances (excluding incels). Woman can’t attract decent men?
“Oh I don’t get enough attention? BBL. I can’t hold down a man, let me just go through IVF.” It’s pure vanity. Most of them just want a mini-me. They truly don’t understand the hardships of single parenthood. If they did, THEY WOULD NEVER WILLINGLY put themselves through it.
It’s one thing for the father to leave. To actively not want a father in a child’s life is mental illness. You can’t tell me otherwise. Selfish and vanity driven. If it wasn’t, they’d adopt.
When “society” promotes hot girl summer and degeneracy in our culture, it’s no wonder so many grow up and think having a mother and father as parents is somehow antiquated.
My point is that some of these women - which really aren't even that much in number if we're being honest - arent all the Naomi Campbell types. Some of them have been disappointed by some guys. Some guys don't really level up like you said. And if you're a woman who's gonna be 40 years old and time is winding down, but well off enough financially... then
Obviously some are flawed and/or have bad taste in men. My point is that the same way we talk about many women are unwifeable nowadays... is the same way some men are
Well put, it’s a balancing act during an earthquake and nikkas is tired of that shyt let these hoes have they cats and son—husbands.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Eliminate "White Supremacy" and replace it with what? What kind of culture and order you got in mind?
Since when? It’s been open season on black women since forever.
Dudes been blaming black women for accepting welfare and putting out black men since the 60s, even tho countless studies have disproven that.
Dudes have also leaned into hip hop culture where they were taught that black women are hoodrats, scallywags, rachet hoes, aint loyal, hairhats, aint poppin, or Pimp culture where they are bottom bytches to be treated like hoes or manipulated. I won’t even get into colorism.
Or conservative politics where black women are lambasted as welfare queens by Reagan.
Then the 2000s hit with waves of manosphere shyt where dudes hid behind screens like Srgt Willie Pete to spew shyt about black women. Comedians making careers off caricaturing black women claiming dark women could take beatings.
All kinds of shyt. Since when have the black, fat, lonely, hairhat, pit Bull, bottom bytches, dark butt, welfare queens, Shea butter, bedwench, rachet, hood rat, ghetto, her hair don’t look better coming out the pool, can’t compete with non-blk women, single mom, using food stamps for lobster and steak—and countless other brands for black women—in light of all the criticism that has ALWAYS been put onto black women ever equated to them being above reproach.
Dudes have also leaned into hip hop culture where they were taught that black women are hoodrats, scallywags, rachet hoes, aint loyal, hairhats, aint poppin, or Pimp culture where they are bottom bytches to be treated like hoes or manipulated. I won’t even get into colorism.
Or conservative politics where black women are lambasted as welfare queens by Reagan.
Then the 2000s hit with waves of manosphere shyt where dudes hid behind screens like Srgt Willie Pete to spew shyt about black women. Comedians making careers off caricaturing black women claiming dark women could take beatings.
All kinds of shyt. Since when have the black, fat, lonely, hairhat, pit Bull, bottom bytches, dark butt, welfare queens, Shea butter, bedwench, rachet, hood rat, ghetto, her hair don’t look better coming out the pool, can’t compete with non-blk women, single mom, using food stamps for lobster and steak—and countless other brands for black women—in light of all the criticism that has ALWAYS been put onto black women ever equated to them being above reproach.