36, 2 kids, single, educated black woman, with a great job told me this a few weeks ago: I wanna be FLOWN out. Dating is cooked 🍳 👨‍🍳

[High Art]

She knows her worth. It's being flown out like a prostitute. I honestly don't see the problem.

 

[beenz]

I swear to God this happened. She didn't want me to because we live in close proximity but she said it's a goal of hers.

How? Why?

This social media shyt got this dating shyt is completely broken.

For the record, this is not a BASH BLACK WOMEN post and I was even hesitant to even make the thread but we had a good/grown discussion in the DIVORCE DIVORCE DIVORCE thread I decided to make this one.

she putting the cart before the horse. she wanna be flown out prior to a regular date in a car???

 

[beenz]

Dreaming of being flown out like a prostitute smh

I've had broads fly out to visit me. and EACH time it was on their own dime. I will provide accommodations, food, and transportation, but I'm not flying out randos.

 

[MajesticLion]

They're weaned on the fairy tale. There's no point to being surprised when they still want it despite knowing the reality.



In fact, they'll deny reality even harder and want the fairy tale even more.

 

[Wargames]

So this woman wants to be sex trafficked?



Well OP, let her know that the first rule of being flown out is you don't talk about being flown out.



Let her know its a secret society and all they ask is that she leaves after they nut.

 

[lib123]

Seems like a conundrum a lot of these types of women face is they don’t want to date the 50+ Stephen A Smith or Boyce Watkins types who may be willing to entertain their “standards” lol.

 

[Magic Mulatto]

Seems like a conundrum a lot of these types of women face is they don’t want to date the 50+ Stephen A Smith or Boyce Watkins types who may be willing to entertain their “standards” lol.

Why this got me rollin’…

 

[RehReh]

I have never been flewed out

Not tryna be given leftover pizza

 

[Umoja]

She's an educated single mom with 2 kids, of course she wants some relief. Question is why are you entertaining her if you aren't prepared to provide relief. You're wasting both yall time.

The actual question is why are you simping?

You don't need to excuse stupidity because it is wearing a skirt. At 32, with mouths to feed, the focus should be on stability.

 

[beenz]

I have never been flewed out

Not tryna be given leftover pizza

my girl flewed me out to florida for my birthday back in december. she was down there on a work trip and since I work remote, we kicked it down there that week. it was fun.

 

[Big Boss]

Let her be a city girl

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

They know who to try

 

[The ADD]

Her IG?

 

[African Peasant]

A woman wants to be pampered.

Oh what a surprise

Y'all make it very hard for me to not think woman are rational smart thinking adults.

Let me keep it real: they ain't.

But it's not an issue per se