What the HELL does her post have to do with ANYTHING I said? You don't know shyt about how I feel about my blackness. You don't know I live my everyday life. I said how I feel. You are an anonymous poster on a message board. I have not reason to lie. Overall, you sound stupid as hell trying to tell someone else how they should feel about their identity. I can be both black and a woman. In fact, I am black AND I am a woman (no matter how much you try to deny me that right). YOU are delusional.
Nothing, which is why that post wasn't directed at you. You just like to bytch.
It would need to be explained to me because its a lie. Unless you are denying the existence of sexism (and I'm sure this debate will soon be there once I feel the need to post statistical evidence that Black women are the overwhelming victims of sexism), you don't have a leg to stand on.
What was a lie? I didn't deny that sexism existed. I denied that black men subject black women to any kind of systematic sexism. How about you compare the statistics showing the discrimination that black women face in this country and compare them to the statistics illustrating the discrimination that black men face, since you black feminists like making this a competition about who has it worse. Be honest about the results then come back and explain why black women should separate themselves and their problems from black men like it's a separate struggle.
I know you didn't address this part of your post to me, and I don't necessarily put my womanhood before my Blackness (or vice versa) as she does, but who are you to act as if this is a bad or unvalid position? Do you put your Blackness before your manhood? If you say you do, I think I've caught you in yet another lie. The truth of the matter is, it is actually makes sense for her to feel that way. If she in her daily life interacts mostly with other Black people, you would be lying your behind off to say that those people simply view her as Black and don't see her as female.
I'm a person with an opinion, that's who I am. Who do you think that I have to be in order to express a personal opinion? This is another bytchy thing that I've noticed about you feminists, you act as if you're offended when people express opposing opinions. On some "uh who are you to say that you don't agree with a woman?" You better get over yourself. Yes, I think a black woman saying that she sees herself as a woman before a black person is a stupid delusional position, and I don't need your or anyone else's permission to express that opinion. The funny thing is you turn right around and tell me that I'm lying when I say that I don't put my manhood before being black. I most certainly see myself as a black person before I see myself as a man. Black women are a huge part of who I am. My first allegiance is to other black people, not other men. I couldn't give a damn about races of other men because I know that the feelings are more than mutual on their end. Again, that "I see myself as a woman before black" mentality is completely ignorant, selfish, and disloyal. Why would a black woman pledge allegiance to some kind of womanhood when other races of women don't even see you as equals? This blatant disloyalty that black feminists have for black men and the community as a whole is just unacceptable.
What the HELL does her post have to do with ANYTHING I said? You don't know shyt about how I feel about my blackness. You don't know I live my everyday life. I said how I feel. You are an anonymous poster on a message board. I have not reason to lie. Overall, you sound stupid as hell trying to tell someone else how they should feel about their identity. I can be both black and a woman. In fact, I am black AND I am a woman (no matter how much you try to deny me that right). YOU are delusional.
Nothing, which is why that post wasn't directed at you. You just like to bytch.
It would need to be explained to me because its a lie. Unless you are denying the existence of sexism (and I'm sure this debate will soon be there once I feel the need to post statistical evidence that Black women are the overwhelming victims of sexism), you don't have a leg to stand on.
What was a lie? I didn't deny that sexism existed. I denied that black men subject black women to any kind of systematic sexism. How about you compare the statistics showing the discrimination that black women face in this country and compare them to the statistics illustrating the discrimination that black men face, since you black feminists like making this a competition about who has it worse. Be honest about the results then come back and explain why black women should separate themselves and their problems from black men like it's a separate struggle.
I know you didn't address this part of your post to me, and I don't necessarily put my womanhood before my Blackness (or vice versa) as she does, but who are you to act as if this is a bad or unvalid position? Do you put your Blackness before your manhood? If you say you do, I think I've caught you in yet another lie. The truth of the matter is, it is actually makes sense for her to feel that way. If she in her daily life interacts mostly with other Black people, you would be lying your behind off to say that those people simply view her as Black and don't see her as female.
I'm a person with an opinion, that's who I am. Who do you thinkthat I have to be in order to express a personal opinion? This is another bytchy thing that I've noticed about you feminists, you act as if you're offended when people express opposing opinions. On some "uh who are you to say that you don't agree with a woman?" You better get over yourself. Yes, I think a black woman satin that she sees herself as a woman before a black person is a stupid delusional position, and I don't need your or anyone else's permission to express that opinion. The funny thing is you turn right around and tell me that I'm lying when I say that I don't put my manhood before being black. I most certainly see myself as a black person before I see myself as a man. Black women are a huge part of who I am. My first allegiance is to other black people, not other men. I couldn't give a damn about races of other men because I know that the feelings are more than mutual on their end. Again, that "I see myself as a woman before black" mentality is completely ignorant, selfish, and disloyal. Why would a black woman pledge allegiance to some kind of womanhood when other races of women don't even see you as equals? This blatant disloyalty that black feminists have for black men and the community as a whole is just unacceptable.
I would venture to say that most Black feminists who identify as female before Black probably are immersed in Black surroundings more than most Black women, so they feel the gender inequality 1000x more often than the racial one. And that's a valid viewpoint for her experience.
It is not a valid viewpoint because there is no systematic anti- black woman sexism in the black community. You women really need to stop perpetuating this bold face lie. What systematic sexism are black women subjected to in "black surroundings"? You women will just say anything.I would venture to say that most Black feminists who identify as female before Black probably are immersed in Black surroundings more than most Black women, so they feel the gender inequality 1000x more often than the racial one. And that's a valid viewpoint for her experience.[/quote]It is not a valid viewpoint because there is no systematic anti- black woman sexism in the black community. You women really need to stop perpetuating this bold face lie. What systematic sexism are black women subjected to in "black surroundings"? You women will just say anything.
Well then STOP fukking quoting. YOU quoted a post where I was directly talking about my personal experience. I talk about what I want to talk about; NOT what YOU want me to talk about. I post what I want, where I want, when I want, about what I want and your dumbass is going to keep quoting it.
Also I clearly quoted Marcuz on page 4 where is he said "gender isn't the reason for the inequality you receive" and he repeated again "gender isn't the reason for the inequalities black women receive". So again, I addressed a poster who did make that claim that I don't face gender inequality.
Finally, I'm smarter than you so that's really all that matters here.
You need a hug. You actually need more than that but I'll keep it somewhat respectful.