Your girl just moved in with you...

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so you're telling pk to literally tell her brother Get Married Breh.

@Phoenix_Knightly23 just text him this.
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Where i live to buy a house you need at least 100,000 downpayment to carry a mortgage of like 900k.

You want a condo you need like 40-50k down to carry a mortgage of like 1,800 a month
that's a lot of places breh, especially in London.

if I couldn't afford a mortgage and was paying another persons mortgage via rent I wouldn't be moving in with a woman.
 
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Ideally two people don't move in together until AFTER they are married. Seems like it would be better to know where they are in their relationship, and what they both hope to get out of this living arrangement.

This right here is the problem.

Grown people who are thinking long term, like marriage, talk about how to maximize increased income to the benefit of the couple and possible future family.

All this bullshyt about taking care of a woman is odd to me.

I'm woman btw.
 

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Lol chicks making more than brehs and saving their money while your using everything

its either that or proportional to the income, in this day and age most women are working there are no reasons for them to be taken care off its not the 1800s anymore. I personally being in a relationship you have to commit physically, emotionally and financially if not :camby:
 

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Where i live to buy a house you need at least 100,000 downpayment to carry a mortgage of like 900k.

You want a condo you need like 40-50k down to carry a mortgage of like 1,800 a month

Well, yeah..typically banks want at least 10 - 20% percent down but who typically buying million dollar homes?
 

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Also, I *think* you may have answered one of my other concerns about this type of situation, but he needs to make sure she isn't having trouble paying bills by herself too. Otherwise, this shyt could go downhill really quickly.
 

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im a grown man, so I don't pay rent

but if a woman moved into my place I wouldn't want any mortgage money from her as I pay'd that before she moved in

however she'd have to contribute to bills, and food.
 
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