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Rarely-Wrong Liggins said:
Lately I've seen a huge backlash among black women when it comes to splitting bills. Like, they are starting to feel like they shouldn't have to pay anything unless they want to. A chick on Facebook was talking about how in her marriage to an older white man (which failed by the way) he paid everything because his grandparents told him if a woman had to help that meant he wasn't really a man. I'm sure his grand-pappy told him not to have mulatto children with a black woman either. :skip: Of course all the women were liking her comment.

I can handle rent and utilities as long as the pantry and fridge stay full and miscellaneous nuisance bills (phone, cable, various household needs) are taken care of. That comes to about a 60/40 or 65/35 arrangement depending.
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Facts. I mean that in some way that women feel offended by suing their hard earned money to pay bills.

shyt like that is why I gotta be a damn millionaire and make sure the woman will never know how much I make.
 
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Phoenix_Knightly23 said:
does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill? :patrice:

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half :shaq2:
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I'm sorry but if you move in with somebody and you are an adult with a job you should go half on bills/rent. Can't live nowhere for free regardless of how well she can cook, clean, or suck. If a woman is not capable of helping out financially then she's dead weight. These are not the days of the man bringing home all the money to the woman anymore those days are long gone.
 
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IdealMan said:
As long as she isn't pissing her money away on foolishness, she lives rent and utility free with me. Me and my lady have lived together for 8 years and she only helped pay bills when I got layed off. I don't feel right asking her to pay for sh1t.
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:why:

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Beerus said:
If she moving in with me then hell yeah. I'll help her take care of the place.
I expect her to cook for us, and we would have our team cooking session where she teach me how to cook stuff so I can cook stuff for us in the long run as well :mjgrinoak:

It's 2017 50/50 is the norm unless one of them is making the majority of the dough like on some crazy shyt
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That's adorable!! My ex and And I used to do the same shyt

Now he's feeding his new girl my secret recipes :skip::bryan: gotta keep my new recipes close to the chest
 
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Honestly, if I was in a relationship I wouldn't move in my girl until we got married. It's too easy for ppl to fall out then someone is getting kicked out on the street.
 
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