Your girl just moved in with you...

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She should at least offer..

If she wants it to be on an equal term thing and etc.

I say this because I experienced something similar. I paid rent, bills, food, etc., and my ex would literally stay over for days/weeks. Pretty much whenever she felt like it. If we weren't arguing I didn't care or ask her to pay for shyt...

And she barely did.. But if a woman IS willing to pay for shyt then that does nothing but help you out as a family unit. My aunt and uncle both make over 6 figures and they BOTH pay bills, clean, cook, etc., and live in a nice area with nicer things than if they were paying for things solo

Basically my ex didn't pay for shyt and I did as much shyt on my own as she did (I live alone, I can take care of myself) but we had an issue when she started trying to tell me what I am and not doing with my shyt and money. Unless he wants to go through that, she should at least contribute

Edit: also she worked a bs job and would go to school.. Which I would pick her ass up from and drop her ass off too at times
 
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Eh it varies. If I am making way more than her she will just pay from groceries and utilities. If we are asking case to the same amount then yeah she should pay half. But I don't want her name on the lease tho. Cuz if we breakup one of us is gonna have to go and it ain't gonna be me.:hubie:
 
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Rockstar Mom said:
nikkas always talking about, they dont need a woman to cook and clean for them.

Then they get with a bytch, and acts like he cant flip his own eggs, and in the bathroom mixing bleach and ammonia about to kill everybody:gucci:
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There's nothing wrong with mixing bleach and ammonia:childplease:, you do not know how to clean
 
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If we ain't married then we just glorified roommates :usure:
Half!

Only exception is if one person owns the house. I once moved into a gf house and I paid less than half cause she was buying the crib. I'm not pumping money into your equity only to get kicked out one day :gucci:
In that case I paid all the bills ($700) and she paid the mortgage ($1000)
 
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Phoenix_Knightly23 said:
does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill? :patrice:

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half :shaq2:
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If she moving in with me then hell yeah. I'll help her take care of the place.
I expect her to cook for us, and we would have our team cooking session where she teach me how to cook stuff so I can cook stuff for us in the long run as well :mjgrinoak:

It's 2017 50/50 is the norm unless one of them is making the majority of the dough like on some crazy shyt
 
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As long as she isn't pissing her money away on foolishness, she lives rent and utility free with me. Me and my lady have lived together for 8 years and she only helped pay bills when I got layed off. I don't feel right asking her to pay for sh1t.
 
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