Young brother highlights his educational achievements gets blasted by women for it.

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“nikkas saying but black women do it”

What type of reasoning is that?
There’s too much moisture in the mist it seems. They fail to realize that he was being demeaning to other black men, as well. Dude had degrees but his mind hasn’t leveled up.

Because in the real world, offline, we as Black women, are harder on ourselves when it comes to looks, perception. The only people backing the ratchet shyt are other hos and thots bc they feel the need to have comrades in their debauchery and they get real defensive when they feel shamed, Black women, who conduct themselves appropriately have no problems checking what makes us look bad or fighting against the stereotypes. Ratchets on the other hand, don’t like being reminded of their insignificance and failures so they want to be surrounded by people like them - male or female.
 

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Hmmmm, I believe the constant competition and the never ending struggle olympics between BW/BM is restricted to social media. This us vs them dynamic doesn't happen in real life. At least not in my circles:yeshrug:
Do you really see discussions like this happening in the real world?

I didn’t mean the gender shyt when I said that. I mean life in general, being black in this country—we have a lot of experiences that naturally cause us to be more defensive and offensive when we need be. Life= our battleground except usually it isn’t a battle limited to our opposite gender.

Our tendency to be defensive/offensive, and dramatic manifests into these struggle Olympics and gender wars on social media. But offline it’s not like that at all. And hell nah never have I had these discussions offline. I always have positive experiences with bm offline. It’s only on here where I notice Im being a little more toxic and engaging in that gender bullshyt. The gender wars is definitely some online shyt.
 

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First off, salute to the breh.
:salute:

Now that that's been said. I'm happy for the breh. I genuinely am. But get your degrees/certs, stack your bread, stay out of trouble, make good decisions, and SHUT THE fukk UP.
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Let your actions and achievements speak for themselves. There is no need to go on social media and go "Look at me! I'm doing better than you nikkas. Y'all aren't on my level and I'm too good for you hoes! What y'all need to do is glow up and get like me." This breh is just looking for attention, but didn't get the attention that he was seeking. If the breh wanted to motivate other Black Men and market himself to females, he could have toned it down or went about it another way without being condescending.


I do well for myself and I'm proud of what I accomplished, but I avoid social media for the most part. I just let everything that I have, and everything that I do speak for itself. I keep a REALLY small circle, but those that know me, interact with me regularly, and are around me know what I'm about.
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Anyway this is weirdo shyt. I got multiple degrees and know other brothas with multiple degrees.

Most of us graduate and celebrate for awhile then we get to grinding cause the marathon don't stop.

shyt each time I graduated from undergrad and grad school the first thing I was thinking about was time to get a job and make some real money. Or time to ditch the job I got and make more money. The last thing I was thinking about is shining on my haters.

Finally this generation is the biggest dry snitching tell on themselves group of people I have ever seen in my life. This kat talking about these bitter whiny heffas and he sound just like one of these bitter whiny heffas.
 

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so after digging some more apparrently this dudes pops has his own law firm :ld:
That’s good for his father - he should have taught his son to be his own man and have character as a person to be humble in life bc this does not reflect well. If you were able to find it- I’m sure the twitteristas have as well. Some of them are ruthless behind the anonymity. Hopefully his son is not the cause of any backlash that could negatively impact his Firm; bc the son just made himself a diminishing value through this viral stunting online.
 
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