You have to be somewhat flashy in order to get women , it’s a FACT

[JamesJabdi]

Brehs on the coli need to stop making it seem like getting a woman is damn near impoossible.....all you need is one thing - CONFIDENCE!

you can be broke, ugly, balding, living with yo moms and what not....and you still can get women...but most dudes be doing too much self doubting...."ohh i ain't get a cut", "my pants are too tight", "did i get my period this month"...stop it and just try. Too many brehs are afraid of a NO because they see they self as being below the girls they like.

 

[Don Snow]

definitely not white women. and if you disagree, you haven’t messed with a lot of white women. i hate to say it, but white women do not care about the type of clothes you’re wearing or car you’re driving as much as many of our sisters do.

a clean, unassuming fit (no labels, a tee, a pair of basic denim and a $60 pair of Vans) and a honda civic won’t turn off your average white woman in the way it might a black girl from the hood.

the labels your average black woman’s eyes are scouring your body to locate are insignificant to white women.

White women are the most vain women out there


And Y’all keep talking about regular cars like those are hoopties

A Honda is not a hoopty unless it’s really old

 

[TEH]

You do realize that late era millennials and Gen-zers don't excel at being "social" right?

I said social with her though. In other words interact with her and engage her as much as she does you. I’m not a social person either but if someone can’t do at that, maybe therapy is needed.

 

[desjardins]

Mostly true
You obviously going have exceptions but in most cases it's the appearance and perception of success that attracts women.
I see WAY more average/old/flabby looking dudes with dimes then I do 6'5 handsome gang dudes. especially in "elite" cities like LA, Miami, Atlanta

 

[Mr. Glass]

for the slow nikkas wbu finna come in here I’m not saying you gotta be Dame Dash or money Mitch in paid in full

But anyone who still believes you can be a “silent baller” and attract women in Walmart clothes and a hoopty even tho you got a good career is lying to themselves

90% of women claim they aren’t materialistic but literally all of them fall for nikkas who flash they money and think nikkas who live modest are broke

It is what it is

If you disagree then you haven’t dealt with alot of women

If you're very good looking, you can get bytches. I promise you that.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

definitely not white women. and if you disagree, you haven’t messed with a lot of white women. i hate to say it, but white women do not care about the type of clothes you’re wearing or car you’re driving as much as many of our sisters do.

a clean, unassuming fit (no labels, a tee, a pair of basic denim and a $60 pair of Vans) and a honda civic won’t turn off your average white woman in the way it might a black girl from the hood.

the labels your average black woman’s eyes are scouring your body to locate are insignificant to white women.

You know damn well there’s a large number of white women who love them big truck driving, beer guzzling, deer hunting, cowboy hat wearing, country music stepping rednecks

 

[BaggerofTea]

About the only time this isn't true is when dealing with homely white women from the COUNTRY

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

If you're approaching random stranger women in public then wealth displays will help you catch some birds.

If you're pulling from some place where you interact with people daily then it's more about your behavior, although you can't be a slob at work or school either

 

[Tres Leches]

If you’re not flashy then your dating pool gets smaller but you can still eat

 

[jesc07]

It doesn't matter if you look good.

Keep the weight off, keep up w/ haircuts, do some situps and pushups every day and you good.

 

[Digital Omen]

You have to be somewhat flashy ON SOCIAL MEDIA in order to get women ON SOCIAL MEDIA , it’s a FACT​

For the few of us that DGAF about that shyt, we're fine
I met my current girl at a book fair, in person. Got her number, texted a couple of days later, switched to phone convo, and here we are
Her IG is fam and friends posts, couple travel, and that's it
She doesn't stress social media like that, and neither do I.

 

[I Really Mean It]

White women are the most vain women out there


And Y’all keep talking about regular cars like those are hoopties

A Honda is not a hoopty unless it’s really old

ok? vanity is is an internal shallowness, an insecurity driven by a lack of self-love. that’s not the same as the superficial expectations a woman might set for a dating prospect.

also, i need to stress that i’m not referring to college educated black women with professional jobs in the arts and sciences. i would also argue that white women who are “hood” - even if they didn’t grow up in the hood - exhibit the same kind of attitude as black women in the hood, since they’ve undergone similar social engineering.

black women who escaped the social engineering do not fit the model that @BrothaZay is describing in the OP.

i live in boston, and there are PLENTY of black women up here who do not care how flashy you are. in fact, many of them would be turned off by a dude who acted like that.

 

[J.E.T.S]

You can’t have a good job and it not show thinking you bout to pull baddies. Unless you’re handsomer than a motherfukker ….

 

[KBtheKey]

Idk. I think it's more about being presentable and unique in your looks and conversation. I used to think i was boring to most after high school but all types of people fukk with me just Kuz I'm not the typical person you come across everyday.

I wanna say i got the internet to thank for it to some extent, Kuz when i was home bored and heavy browsing/forum posting/chatting, personalities were more varied and people were proud of what type of person they were. Now mostly everyone is toxic thanks to group think social media influences.

I feel like people in general were more pleasant to be around back then. Now it's a tossup. So Yea you can be flashy or just stylish and unique, and either way 50/50 you'll get good attention or bad/no attention. Seems like you get more when you ain't looking for it tho

 

[Don Snow]

ok? vanity is is an internal shallowness, an insecurity driven by a lack of self-love. that’s not the same as the superficial expectations a woman might set for a dating prospect.

also, i need to stress that i’m not referring to college educated black women with professional jobs in the arts and sciences. i would also argue that white women who are “hood” - even if they didn’t grow up in the hood - exhibit the same kind of attitude as black women in the hood, since they’ve undergone similar social engineering.

black women who escaped the social engineering do not fit the model that @BrothaZay is describing in the OP.

i live in boston, and there are PLENTY of black women up here who do not care how flashy you are. in fact, many of them would be turned off by a dude who acted like that.

Nah you lacking comprehension or you haven’t interacted with enough women if you think a Benz or a nicer wardrobe won’t improve your dealings with women

And I’m from NYC I’m around All races of women when I go to work everyday in FiDi

Benz > Honda

Nice apartment > living in squalor


Dressing nice > dressing like a bum