You have to be somewhat flashy in order to get women , it’s a FACT

[O.G.B]

Basically. If you NEED accessories to get attention,it means you are average looking.


And if you are average,women essentially do not see you. So you are in the same boat as ugly people. You just kind of blend in with the rest of their surroundings,you might as well be a wall or chair.


So if you are average,you have to catch their attention. The idea you have to do that with materialistic things I dont agree with. Nobody likes to talk about it,but we really need to talk about the mouthpiece. Simply speaking up can get the attention of a woman who probably wasnt really going to see you otherwise. A woman seeing the way you command a room,and how other people gravitate to you,also will make her see you differently



"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: And they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."-Proverbs 18:21

Nothing wrong with being Gucci'd down from time to time, but if you're always trying to dress "flashy"/live a "flashy" lifestyle specifically just to attract females, then you're lost.

 

[beenz]

Not gonna lie I've been taking a lot of my fashion cues from R&B singers lately.

It works.

Fellas if you really want to knock them dead get you an all white outfit like Ginuwine

 

[TL15]

If you look nice and smell nice you can pull a woman

If your car is nice and your crib is nice you can keep a woman

 

[FeverPitch2]

*literally lives in the capital of people looking average as fukk and yet partnered just fine*

This isn’t true

It not even close to true.
I'm not sure where they get this shyt from.

 

[TEH]

You have to have CHARISMA. You can be a broke charismatic nikka and still knock down bytches left and right. I was one. I know a lot of dull, boring nikkas with 401ks and mortgages who think they should have a bytch just because they're "upwardly mobile" (i.e: paying a 30 year loan and working a middle of the road job). Nah (young) bytches want adventure.

No you don’t have to be charismatic but you have to be sociable with her. You have to have something interesting to say to her.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

Nah this ain't true. Well not everytime for every woman.

I met my ex in college and she approached me 1st. I worked at KFC at the time. Had no drip at all and an Impala with stock everything.

She said she like my chill demeanor and how my voice sounds.

I also have this churchy girl who's been in to me for like 2 years. Ghosted her and still hits me up. And I'm not flashy now either.


Some women like flashy men, some like em stoic, some like em sensitive, etc.

Dudes who say only one type of man can pull women are delusional. They are either narcissists that think women are only attracted to guys like them or low self esteem losers who think women only like guys that are NOT like them.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

@BrothaZay

It depends. If the girl is swagless, then you don't need to look or be flashy.

 

[Mowgli]

for the slow nikkas wbu finna come in here I’m not saying you gotta be Dame Dash or money Mitch in paid in full

But anyone who still believes you can be a “silent baller” and attract women in Walmart clothes and a hoopty even tho you got a good career is lying to themselves

90% of women claim they aren’t materialistic but literally all of them fall for nikkas who flash they money and think nikkas who live modest are broke

It is what it is

If you disagree then you haven’t dealt with alot of women

You can still get a good woman being low-key

You just may not get all the whores.

You have to decide what kind of woman you want. Low key or flashy.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Handsome Gang don’t live by these rules




But there is a lot of truth to this, all women have a conscious or subconscious checklist or grading system


When women say they want a man with his own place and ride, they’re not talking about a nikka living squalor driving a hoopty

While that brother is ahead of the other brother without he’s only getting E for effort

Now if you picking her up in Benz then there’s something to brag about to her friends

Attract gold diggers brehs. Y’all need to go outside and stop following IG Thots and rappers. Your perception is forever clouded following that shyt. Plenty of bad broads with their SO mobbin in a Honda accord

 

[Stuntone]

Very true.


But Flash is different to different women.

Dumb women are impressed by Cars, jewerly and Clothes.

Wise women are impressed by real sustained security. Your family background. Property holdings, businesses and connections.

 

[Diondon]

I don't flash money but I live well

 

[Don Snow]

Attract gold diggers brehs. Y’all need to go outside and stop following IG Thots and rappers. Plenty of bad broads with their SO mobbin in a Honda accord

I guarantee I’m definitely outside more than you


But yeah a Honda Accord is cool especially a recent year one seeing that it’s not a hoopty theres difference in pulling up in that and a honda from 98


Just like there’s a difference in pulling up in a 2023 Benz and pulling up in a 2023 Honda



You need more experience with women if you don’t understand this

 

[Chrishaune]

definitely not white women. and if you disagree, you haven’t messed with a lot of white women. i hate to say it, but white women do not care about the type of clothes you’re wearing or car you’re driving as much as many of our sisters do.

a clean, unassuming fit (no labels, a tee, a pair of basic denim and a $60 pair of Vans) and a honda civic won’t turn off your average white woman in the way it might a black girl from the hood.

the labels your average black woman’s eyes are scouring your body to locate are insignificant to white women.

Very true, unfortunately.

 

[Phitz]

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

No you don’t have to be charismatic but you have to be sociable with her. You have to have something interesting to say to her.

You do realize that late era millennials and Gen-zers don't excel at being "social" right?