You have to be somewhat flashy in order to get women , it’s a FACT

[dora_da_destroyer]

*literally lives in the capital of people looking average as fukk and yet partnered just fine*

This isn’t true

 

[thelonious21]

for the slow nikkas wbu finna come in here I’m not saying you gotta be Dame Dash or money Mitch in paid in full

But anyone who still believes you can be a “silent baller” and attract women in Walmart clothes and a hoopty even tho you got a good career is lying to themselves

90% of women claim they aren’t materialistic but literally all of them fall for nikkas who flash they money and think nikkas who live modest are broke

It is what it is

If you disagree then you haven’t dealt with alot of women

Only way around this is if you get them in close quarters. Work, school . If its just meeting a random person in public. I agree. Something has to catch the eye

 

[Don Snow]

Handsome Gang don’t live by these rules




But there is a lot of truth to this, all women have a conscious or subconscious checklist or grading system


When women say they want a man with his own place and ride, they’re not talking about a nikka living squalor driving a hoopty

While that brother is ahead of the other brother without he’s only getting E for effort

Now if you picking her up in Benz then there’s something to brag about to her friends

 

[BrothaZay]

I already got a broad. I don't do IG.

Then shut yo ass up

 

[Unknown Poster]

For real, you gotta have some flavor to you, you gotta have some edge, you gotta have some style and confidence to separate yourself from the other men of the pack.

The one thing I can say I've had a positive with when it comes to women is they like the way i dress. They like that I am interested in fashion and can keep up with them in a conversation. They like that I have my own style that's not influenced....but informed by influences. They like that I have an individualistic Flair like Rick. They like that I am not trying to be like every other Tom D!ck and Harry out there.

But yeah. You gotta separate yourself from the rest. you gotta find your own groove. you've got to be comfortable with the groove and you got to know when to get in the groove.

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[2 one 3]

True.

Even something as subtle as a fresh cut or outfit goes a long way.

Back in the day some of my boys would be goofy with the shiit.

All the extra out accessories like the non-prescription glasses all of the chains and fake watches.

 

[O.G.B]

Depends on the scenario/situation & the type of women you're around or deal with, but if you're truly part of handsome gang, you don't need to superfluously floss with clothing/cars/jewelry, etc., to attract/pull women.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Your lifestyle can be attractive to a woman. That shyt got pros and cons too though. You ever been in a spot and a bytch been on you hard, and you realized, this bytch don’t like me, she just see the motion. bytch will probably fukk any nikka over here who they think an important member. Women are more materialistic by nature. A bytch can be in a whole relationship and more than 80% of them gonna respond if some nikka that look like he got paper hop in they DMs talking bout let me take you on a shopping spree. The game is the game

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

You have to have CHARISMA. You can be a broke charismatic nikka and still knock down bytches left and right. I was one. I know a lot of dull, boring nikkas with 401ks and mortgages who think they should have a bytch just because they're "upwardly mobile" (i.e: paying a 30 year loan and working a middle of the road job). Nah (young) bytches want adventure.

 

[Ziggiy]

Flashy don’t do nothing but make you a mark.


This is TERRIBLE advice

 

[The_Sheff]

All of those things are flashy tho..

You specifically said that women wont care if you spend money if your car isnt right.

When i was dating my wife she later told me that when i bought my new car while we were dating she wasnt impressed at all and was disappointed because she thought that meant i would have less money to do the things she actually cares about.

Clothes/money has never worked for me, what works for me is making women laugh, (which has gotten me more ass than anything else and its not even remotely close) and figuring out what women like that they think nikkas wont accommodate, like plays, crafting, cooking classes, etc....

 

[BrothaZay]

You specifically said that women wont care if you spend money if your car isnt right.

When i was dating my wife she later told me that when i bought my new car while we were dating she wasnt impressed at all and was disappointed because she thought that meant i would have less money to do the things she actually cares about.

I’m not talking about a woman you’re already dating Baffoon !!!!! I’m talking about actually attracting them. Why do I always have to explain simple shyt to you flabby heads !!

 

[Louisville Slugz]

You gotta be flashy when you ugly as hell

 

[Rekkapryde]

I totally disagree with this.

this.

people needs to step outside their bubble.