You have to be somewhat flashy in order to get women , it’s a FACT

[Givethanks]

You all put too much important in women


They're not some mythical creatures

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

If you are 25-30+ and got your shyt together enough to have a decent car, place and you look like you take care of yourself... guess what... that already puts you past 80% of the men that age.

 

[BaggerofTea]

You all put too much important in women


They're not some mythical creatures

nikkas want to pass on their genetics and are struggling to accomplish that. Natural feeling

Especially since you cant sling a broad over your shoulder and take her back to the cave

 

[I Really Mean It]

Nah you lacking comprehension or you haven’t interacted with enough women if you think a Benz or a nicer wardrobe won’t improve your dealings with women

And I’m from NYC I’m around All races of women when I go to work everyday in FiDi

Benz > Honda

Nice apartment > living in squalor


Dressing nice > dressing like a bum

the vast majority of men don’t own a benz, and they seem to get along just fine in the dating field.

“dressing nice” is subjective. i don’t wear labels or flashy clothing, and i think i dress better than what these rappers have conditioned many of our people to think is “fly.”

 

[Manolo]

You don’t have to be Diddy/Floyd level flashy but in today’s world you need evidence and proof of an interesting life to attract women

You can’t get any of the females in all those “raw no regret” threads to even read your DM unless you’re up in life. You might be able to pull the girl next door who doesn’t want much in life but you can forget about anything beyond that if you don’t have some type of motion

That’s why that Eboni K Williams “I won’t date a bus driver” shyt is so controversial to men but not women. A girl I know hit me laughing and agreeing with her. 99% of women feel the same way

 

[ThatTruth777]

would say its more about confidence

 

[DaPresident]

Depends on what you fishing for my boy! Big game hunters need a little more bait, but if you do it right, you weed out the ones not worth your time by staying low key


Again, just depends on the type of fish you trying to catch

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

So we dressin like 2 Chainz during the day and Jideena at night while driving a drop top 64 impala from the Still Dre video?

 

[The Connoisseurs]

Somewhat I agree it’s called attraction. Just like we attracted to beauty and curvy figures. Females are attracted to wealth power dominance doesn’t mean you’ll get women but you’ll attract the rest is up to you characteristics and personality.


This why I keep a beard and golds in my mouth

 

[CopiousX]

You need to stand out, not necessarily be stylish or flaunting wealth.

A tall person is standing out and doesn't need to be stylish or flaunting weath. Same could be said for a man with an unusually handsome face, or a man with an unusually deep voice, or a man with an unusually funny disposition, or an unusually athletic man, or a man with an unusually respected job/position, etc

 

[BaggerofTea]

If you’re not flashy then your dating pool gets smaller but you can still eat

In the right circles who know you business, it gets you quality women.

 

[Peauxboy]

Quit chasing the hoes, who’s chasing athletes/d-boys/entertainers, who’s chasing those same hoes.

Problem solved.

 

[Hawala Man]

You need emotional intelligence and the ability to analyze those emotions in different scenarios and circumstances more than being flashy. That flashy stuff is for the birds and then yall complain about gold diggers.

 

[rabbid]

All this talk about heauxs but what have HEAUXS done for you that justifies stepping outside of your character? Y'all be moving mountains and shape shifting for women that sit home all day and fart. Soon as that p*ssy dries up you sitting there looking stupid cause you not even who you really are.

 

[RichRistretto]

Some posters have already touched on this point, but the kind of women you want depends on your image.

You're not going to get the Insta baddy driving a Golf GTI. You are more in the territory of getting the regular girl next door, but many bruhs don't know that the girl next door is also holding out for the guy driving luxury foreign cars but she settled for the regular bruh.

But if you pull up in a Mercedes, it doesn't even have to be the amg series, a whole new league of hoes will open up to you!
Basically, Group A is FORCED TO SETTLE for a regular bruh(Shorty can't get a well-off bruh to commit) but Group B is flashy/well-off bruhs' equal and doesn't have to settle for a regular Joe.
Group A not ugly but not exceptionally attractive either

Group B is what's considered the crème de la crème and as such they get more entries lol

Are you WILLING TO PAY is what you have to ask yourself?