"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

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I have a 30 year old friend who has never had a girlfriend. He's always rushing on (younger) women but never gets the guts to ask them out. He thinks he's a nice guy, but his issue is that he has a below minimum wage job and needs to work on his sex appeal. His nice guyness isn't what's holding him back. It's his confidence and his sex appeal. You don't need to be bad or an a$$hole, just change your confidence level.

Men also tend to equate being shy with being "nice". It's not the case. When i think of nice, I think of someone who is kind to others, smiles a lot, has manners etc. Being nice doesnt mean you don't have a personality, don't joke around. you can be shy and be an a$$hole too. Hop on over to a social anxiety forum and see how many dikks there are there. Bet they think they're all "nice guys" too.
Yes. Being a lame creep is not the same as being nice. Simping beyond your dignity level is not being a nice guy. Quit paying bills and wining and dining hoes that only reply to your texts once per day.
 
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You was a sucker before and truth be told,you probably still one if the right chick get you its curtains. Its only so long fake thugs can pretend
Naw fuk that shyt. I'm never goin outta my way for no female no more. focusing on my self, lifting and talk to girls on the side. None of them are ready for relationships.
 

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I have a 30 year old friend who has never had a girlfriend. He's always rushing on (younger) women but never gets the guts to ask them out. He thinks he's a nice guy, but his issue is that he has a below minimum wage job and needs to work on his sex appeal. His nice guyness isn't what's holding him back. It's his confidence and his sex appeal. You don't need to be bad or an a$$hole, just change your confidence level.

Men also tend to equate being shy with being "nice". It's not the case. When i think of nice, I think of someone who is kind to others, smiles a lot, has manners etc. Being nice doesnt mean you don't have a personality, don't joke around. you can be shy and be an a$$hole too. Hop on over to a social anxiety forum and see how many dikks there are there. Bet they think they're all "nice guys" too.

Lol at no sex appeal. I bet you if he was a producer for Chris Brown, his appeal would shoot up wayyyy higher. :laugh:

Funny thing is, women REALLY use coded language. "Sex appeal" is get social validation to confidence and have other woman in the process.
 

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This is how high school went for me.
Fresh -soph
Debate team, jv football team, student council, Christian student fellowship and volunteered at animal shelter. Buying girls flowers going on movie dinner dates

Ur all around good suburban boy :troll:

Heart was broke bytch was cheating all soph year

Jr-Sr. Varsity fball player, weed smoking, alcohol drinking, multiple arrests and fights, drug selling, womanizer, straight a$$hole and I couldn't keep me off me:takedat:


It is what it is I've seen both sides of the fence and women love bad dudes simple as that. Has nothing to do with swag(wore the same shyt) ambutions(same grades) women really just like no good nikkas.


I was like that until I got in some trouble that almost ruined my life I'm reverting back to my old high school days. It's about me and my future at this point :yeshrug:
 

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I have a 30 year old friend who has never had a girlfriend. He's always rushing on (younger) women but never gets the guts to ask them out. He thinks he's a nice guy, but his issue is that he has a below minimum wage job and needs to work on his sex appeal. His nice guyness isn't what's holding him back. It's his confidence and his sex appeal. You don't need to be bad or an a$$hole, just change your confidence level.

Men also tend to equate being shy with being "nice". It's not the case. When i think of nice, I think of someone who is kind to others, smiles a lot, has manners etc. Being nice doesnt mean you don't have a personality, don't joke around. you can be shy and be an a$$hole too. Hop on over to a social anxiety forum and see how many dikks there are there. Bet they think they're all "nice guys" too.
#confidencedoesntmeananything #kenttv #timeoftheday
 

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Can a breh answer me this..

Why are there only 2 apparent categories for brothers? Its either a 'lame' style 'nice guy' or the 'thug' type. There's an uncountable number of brehs that are in shape like young wolves outchea with education makin moves and leading families that do the same.

Like we can't be levelheaded, cultured men that also happen to put in hours in the gym and love women that respect us while being #HOH on the ones that deserve it.

Shyt is stupid. But it all goes back to the stereotypes we got forced on us since slavery. Pop culture makes us either Sambo funny types or dumb criminal/athlete types, and alot of women (and men) internalize that.

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It comes down to a very simple concept. Facial attractiveness. If you are good looking you will eat no matter if your a$$hole in chief or the simp king.


Looks are EVERYTHING to a woman, don't let these birds fool you into thinking otherwise
 

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Lol It's true. That's why I'm not bitter :smile:
 

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at the end of the day, a woman's opinion on a man is meaningless. Men create kingdoms/empires everyday and 99% of women just hope they can marry into one.

my cousins told me the same thing but they worded it differently. wise words from a wise man..:wow:
 

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It comes down to a very simple concept. Facial attractiveness. If you are good looking you will eat no matter if your a$$hole in chief or the simp king.


Looks are EVERYTHING to a woman, don't let these birds fool you into thinking otherwise
exactly. it's about how you look by the face
 

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It comes down to a very simple concept. Facial attractiveness. If you are good looking you will eat no matter if your a$$hole in chief or the simp king.


Looks are EVERYTHING to a woman, don't let these birds fool you into thinking otherwise
 

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women dont know what they want, they want everything....and even if they got everything they'll make up some shyt in their irrational little minds


thats why I cant wait to this dollar collapse...and well find out how submissive they become when they need a man to provide
 

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How did you come to that conclusion? I mean, it's incredibly inaccurate but i'm still curious how you came to that conclusion.

You don't like the "nice" guy that you automatically think is lame/shy/unattractive, and you not direct. Only kind of man you want is that confident dude that gets other women.
 
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