Im a nice guy
"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist
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StickStickly
Superstar
you can, but are you really a nice guy though? my point is, the reason why you're being rejected isn't your "niceness". niceness isn't a flaw and it's rarely a reason why someone avoids you. but it's the buzzword bandwagon right now. there's something else in the way that you can't see or aren't privy to, or maybe you don't think it's that big of a deal?
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
I'm just ugly sooooo yea....
MalikReloaded
All Star
too bad there are hundreds of women out there flat out saying they chase bad boys, so take your analysis elsewhere.
and i still don't put too much stock into what women say. we watch what you do. its your actions that matter. not your empty platitudes. women don't start liking nice guys until they hitting 30. because they start feeling pressure to be married and the alphas you been chasing are too busy hammering different girls to settle down.
the nice guy is ugly to you.
has there ever been a romantic comedy about a woman finding love with a nice guy
no, the guy is always some 6"3, 190lb, 8% body fat, chiseled face bad boy alpha high status man. because that's what women want. they want the bad boy alpha that all women want but, they want him to submit to her only and become a loving adoring husband.
Fantasy, I know
MalikReloaded
All Star
Yes we like nice guys 
StickStickly
Superstar
Oh and not drinkjng or smoke doesn't automatically make you a nice guy or girl. Plenty of a$$holes and bytches out there who don't party.
Why not take up a corner in a coffee shop and people watch, or a damn mall. Just do it. All kinds of men with different women: short, tall, ugly, average, skinny, fat. You think 6'3 attractive men are the only ones dating?
What are you chasing? tens? nines? you expect these women to not want their male counterparts? you realize if they chase after these guys they usually are that type in some way right? either very attractive or they are dramatic or are "bad" girls. if you're chasing that type, that's you're own fault that you keep getting thrown to the bushes.
You need to get out more.too bad there are hundreds of women out there flat out saying they chase bad boys, so take your analysis elsewhere.
and i still don't put too much stock into what women say. we watch what you do. its your actions that matter. not your empty platitudes. women don't start liking nice guys until they hitting 30. because they start feeling pressure to be married and the alphas you been chasing are too busy hammering different girls to settle down.
the nice guy is ugly to you.
has there ever been a romantic comedy about a woman finding love with a nice guy
no, the guy is always some 6"3, 190lb, 8% body fat, chiseled face bad boy alpha high status man. because that's what women want. they want the bad boy alpha that all women want but, they want him to submit to her only and become a loving adoring husband.
Fantasy, I know
Why not take up a corner in a coffee shop and people watch, or a damn mall. Just do it. All kinds of men with different women: short, tall, ugly, average, skinny, fat. You think 6'3 attractive men are the only ones dating?
What are you chasing? tens? nines? you expect these women to not want their male counterparts? you realize if they chase after these guys they usually are that type in some way right? either very attractive or they are dramatic or are "bad" girls. if you're chasing that type, that's you're own fault that you keep getting thrown to the bushes.
Rick Fox at UNC
All Star
Naw, you're describing a provider which is different and always second choice.
A lot of women are emotionally drawn to "nice guys" but they are never emotionally moved by providers. Nice guys compliment certain women fairly well. There are women who are neurotic home-bodies and nice guys are the perfect match and tend to hit their emotional spots (whereas a stronger guy, a leader/bad boy type would be overwhelming to these girls).
Problem is a lot of dudes are trying to go after women who are drawn to a certain type, or they aren't comfortable enough with themselves to emotionally connect with women that like them so they end up awkward and filled with self-doubt...trying to be someone they are not.
StickStickly
Superstar
All men watch porn. do you all only want those type of women?Yes we like nice guys
KingFreeman
Barely-Known Member
Can a breh answer me this..
Why are there only 2 apparent categories for brothers? Its either a 'lame' style 'nice guy' or the 'thug' type. There's an uncountable number of brehs that are in shape like young wolves outchea with education makin moves and leading families that do the same.
Like we can't be levelheaded, cultured men that also happen to put in hours in the gym and love women that respect us while being #HOH on the ones that deserve it.
Shyt is stupid. But it all goes back to the stereotypes we got forced on us since slavery. Pop culture makes us either Sambo funny types or dumb criminal/athlete types, and alot of women (and men) internalize that.
Why are there only 2 apparent categories for brothers? Its either a 'lame' style 'nice guy' or the 'thug' type. There's an uncountable number of brehs that are in shape like young wolves outchea with education makin moves and leading families that do the same.
Like we can't be levelheaded, cultured men that also happen to put in hours in the gym and love women that respect us while being #HOH on the ones that deserve it.
Shyt is stupid. But it all goes back to the stereotypes we got forced on us since slavery. Pop culture makes us either Sambo funny types or dumb criminal/athlete types, and alot of women (and men) internalize that.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Hell yes
MalikReloaded
All Star
You mean 75% of American women under the age of 25 then
Yea. Women are emotionally drawn to nice guys. They listen to their problems, actually care about what they have to say. They give them the emotional intimacy they need. Her mind is telling her that's who she should be with. Yet her body craves Tyrone. And that thug dikk. The nikka that gorilla fukks her and never calls afterward. It's a perfect combination really. She gets the simp to listen to her problems during the day, and the playa to wear her vagina out at night.
All women aren't all like this but, you're very delusional if you think this doesn't apply to a WIDE majority of the female population today.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Idk man it's just popular opinion everyone has to put someone in some catergory
OG MudBone
Pro
Man to all the cold-hearted nikkas out there; please humiliate and emotionally destroy bytches like this
MalikReloaded
All Star
It's called hypergamy, sweetheart.
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Women find 80% of men unattractive, according to that OKC study.
This means even average women find average men unattractive.
Women chase the top 20% of men during their peak fertility years (20s). When they can't get the alpha man to commit to them (they never could...sex =/= commitment), they fear the social stigma of not being married and they settle down with the "nice guy" or "beta provider" in their late 20s or 30s.
KingFreeman
Barely-Known Member
Its almost sad. Stereotypes have been forced on us so long those of us that aren't fully woke believe they're true.