QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
Good shyt in this thread... I'm just gonna continue to take notes....
"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist
- Thread starter KENNY DA COOKER
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If one of Coli ladies posted this, we'd be call every name in the book.
"That's why you're single."
"That's why I only date white women. Black women are soooooooooo mean."
"You should be happy anyone approached you at all. You'll be 30 with 5 kids and 10 babies daddies looking for a simp to save you."
But seriously, if I know that man is attached, I keep interactions short. I don't need his lady thinking I want them or anything.
facts, but I'm only saying that cuz they approach me when I'm clearly with someone.
I don't' understand why people do that.
An ugly dude with social skills, a sense of humor, and confidence will have more success dating than the good looking guy who is awkward and can't hold a conversation.Social skills and confidence only matter if you are physically attractive to begin with
We may have to just agree to disagree, which is fine.
PlainSight
Anon
That will come with time. Sometimes putting yourself in challenging situations will reveal your true self.
I used to watch Elliot Hulse videos when I started working out, and he says some pretty outthere shyt, but he generally operates on the premise that resistance makes you stronger in all areas. It dawned on me that I have always excelled whenever I wanted something and challenged myself in order to get it - just like my father. When I want to learn about something, I face challenges. When I got back into piano, I took lessons again to challenge myself. When I wanted to gain more social awareness, I challenged myself to socialize and be myself a lot more. When I wanted to learn more about feminism and shyt like that which I'd have previously not cared about, I challenged myself and listened to things that I probably wouldn't feel good listening to, but challenged me to understand things from a wide perspective.
The truth is that you won't always be comfortable, and you have to find comfort in your discomfort at times. For me, my fallback was to focus on details and small shyt. I literally started to micromanage my social persona in my 20s until like last year, where I've now settled into a cadence that is quintessentially me. I don't know if it's the same for you. First thing I worked on was communication style. For instance, I naturally use a lot of unnecessarily long words, and I'm accommodating. I also get very passionate and expressive when I'm interested in talking to someone. To other people, I come across as a smart person with an interesting take on things. So that's kinda my niche and I build on that. Figure out the shyt people like about you when you talk to them and build on it. People won't notice your awkwardness as much.
One of the important things you gotta do aswell when communicating with people - especially women - is focus all on them. This was the hardest thing to learn, especialy as it seems counterintuitive to all the shyt above that I wrote, but showing interest and getting out of your head will automatically make you seem less awkward. Then it's easier to be the natural you. If you aren't interested in who they are and what they have to say though, don't try too hard to fake it though
fukking this. You have to be.....flawed
Exactly, we need to stop thinking women are like us. They aren't as visual as we are and don't care about looks as much as TheColi would have you believe. I'm talking about mature women not hs/college students.
I know plenty of short/fat brehs who are either married or have women hanging on each arm.
But that might be a cultural thing, overweight Nigerian brehs stay eating
Sounds like you know you are just spouting nonsense yet you don't want to face reality
its true 80% of men are unattractive lol women are killing on average when it comes to looks....not me tho ;)
Nice poem.
*goes to search for "you chose the wrong bytch" spoke word video*
found it
spoken word
The Maverick
Rookie and the vet.
Young women say it all the time. They want a guy rough around the edges. Little hood in him. Street smart. Alpha. All code words really. Best thing for a genuinely good dude to do is to sift through all that for a woman on the same wave as him. Because when the coin flips, same folks wasting their youth will be begging for some boring, some stability.
At that point, the game already got folks stuck in their ways. And the good ones already got out.
At that point, the game already got folks stuck in their ways. And the good ones already got out.
havoc
Superstar
You can be a nice guy that isn't a push over. I've been called a nice guy but I've checked every women that has disrespected me. A lot of nice men let things slide and that's their downfall.
A woman once put her filthy shoes on my dash. I told her to get her damn feet off my car.
One kept cutting me off mid sentence, checked her on that.
It's all about what you allow a person to do to you.
As well as choose better women.
A woman once put her filthy shoes on my dash. I told her to get her damn feet off my car.
One kept cutting me off mid sentence, checked her on that.
It's all about what you allow a person to do to you.
As well as choose better women.