"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

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[Lo-Co]

I don't know why anyone would buy into that shyt regarding "nice guys""Folks just like to play stupid and or like kissing other people ass. Who likes somebody that's too nice for no fukking reason? Nobody cause the person doing it usually looking for something in return like most sales people that have to be nice. That's how self proclaimed "nice" guys come off to people like a fukking annoying sellsman.

If you're awkward chances are you have something you subconsciously know you're lacking fam. Most people that I've run into that are awkward, shy, hesitant, and all them types of things around girls usually missing something and they know it. That's why they awkward in the first place. Its always exceptions but that's usually the case. Its something wrong with that and don't lie to yourself and say it isn't. Anytime you can't be who you can be with your friends and family that's a problem that will hold you back IMO not just in dating but life in general.

im completely fine around family and friends. to be honest, i feel like i need to lose weight. thats THE MAIN thing. i was always awkward because i never had anyone to teach me about women. ive been learning this on my own since i was 12. i just dont really know how to express myself around women i dont know. the root of it i can say is that im on the spectrum. but i dont want to let that hold me back. because under all this shyt that holds me back i seriously seriously feel that i can accomplish something, that im not a loser, i just need to extract this thing that keeps me from trying.

 

[At30wecashout]

thats why I cant wait to this dollar collapse...and well find out how submissive they become when they need a man to provide

This is a classic quote. This needs to be immortalized for the rest of 2016.

 

[philmonroe]

im completely fine around family and friends. to be honest, i feel like i need to lose weight. thats one thing. i was always awkward because i never had anyone to teach me about women. ive been learning this on my own since i was 12. i just dont really know how to express myself around women i dont know. the root of it i can say is that im on the spectrum. but i dont want to let that hold me back. because under all this shyt that holds me back i seriously seriously feel that i can accomplish something, that im not a loser, i just need to extract this thing that keeps me from trying.

I know your completely fine around family and friends. That's why I said what I said about it. I've never saw anybody "awkward" around them so that's why I don't think people are awkward its moreso you feel insecure about something that doesn't let you be who you are when you don't feel people judging you or vetting you for relationships. I also said it was something which seems to be weight that got you not feeling right. Don't worry you ain't the first or last person that don't feel good with their weight. You just gotta work on it. Do you hit the gym or so me type of workout now? If not you need to get on it ASAP.

Honestly its nothing to express to women. You talk to them like you would anybody else, eventually ask her out, then y'all go places and y'all get to see how you like each other. Its that simple but you just have to be confident enough to get to that point. I mean sometimes you going to get rejected but fukk it its part of being better nobody bats 1000. Most people aren't losers because they're actually losers most are because they just don't try because they are afraid of failure. If you don't try and or improve yourself where you feel comfortable enough to try in the first place you've only held yourself back. The thing that keeps you from trying is you aren't comfortable. Improve those things that make you feel uncomfortable with the girls and you'll be more willing to try guaranteed.

 

[jwonder]

honestly im just an awkward hesitant guy when it comes to women. ive approached a couple times but i suck at it at the moment. and theres nothing wrong with that i feel. im just used to being by myself, and thats something that i can always change. i know offer something to someone that will appreciate it.

Why? I never understood why a dude would be nervous about approaching a broad. Just holla. If they don't holla back fukk that bytch.

 

[Lo-Co]

I know your completely fine around family and friends. That's why I said what I said about it. I've never saw anybody "awkward" around them so that's why I don't think people are awkward its moreso you feel insecure about something that doesn't let you be who you are when you don't feel people judging you or vetting you for relationships. I also said it was something which seems to be weight that got you not feeling right. Don't worry you ain't the first or last person that don't feel good with their weight. You just gotta work on it. Do you hit the gym or so me type of workout now? If not you need to get on it ASAP.

Honestly its nothing to express to women. You talk to them like you would anybody else, eventually ask her out, then y'all go places and y'all get to see how you like each other. Its that simple but you just have to be confident enough to get to that point. I mean sometimes you going to get rejected but fukk it its part of being better nobody bats 1000. Most people aren't losers because they're actually losers most are because they just don't try because they are afraid of failure. If you don't try and or improve yourself where you feel comfortable enough to try in the first place you've only held yourself back. The thing that keeps you from trying is you aren't comfortable. Improve those things that make you feel uncomfortable with the girls and you'll be more willing to try guaranteed.

ive always had a circle and dated within that circle. its just this is the first time in a while were im completely solo. and its small talk thats the other thing. making small talk is something that is a hurdle. i can keep conversation im just an awkward starter.

 

[Lo-Co]

Why? I never understood why a dude would be nervous about approaching a broad. Just holla. If they don't holla back fukk that bytch.

im a terrible opener.

 

[SmoothOperator88]

Why? I never understood why a dude would be nervous about approaching a broad. Just holla. If they don't holla back fukk that bytch.

Everybody reacts differently for whatever reason. Past experiences, whatever issues you got with yourself, confidence, pressure from self or others.

You're clearly secure with yourself breh. Not everyone is or even can be like that.

 

[philmonroe]

Why? I never understood why a dude would be nervous about approaching a broad. Just holla. If they don't holla back fukk that bytch.

Because people know they might not be in the same league as a chick or really have shyt to offer. Its not many people that can just go up to any person they want and talk to them. Its a relatively rare thing and getting rejected fukks with a lot of people.

ive always had a circle and dated within that circle. its just this is the first time in a while were im completely solo. and its small talk thats the other thing. making small talk is something that is a hurdle. i can keep conversation im just an awkward starter.

Do you have a problem talking to guys? Probably not. Its then same shyt just talk about whatever and the convo goes from there if the chick feeling you.

 

[philmonroe]

Everybody reacts differently for whatever reason. Past experiences, whatever issues you got with yourself, confidence, pressure from self or others.

You're clearly secure with yourself breh. Not everyone is or even can be like that.

We don't even know about that this the Internet. Dudes can say one thing and follow these same cats offline would have a completely different view on them.

 

[How Sway?]

Has little to do with being a nice guy or a 'bad boy'

It has more to do with options.

If you're a guy with "options" you're more inclined to not care and when you dont care people, esp females, are more comfortable around you

And vice versa....

Just my opinion/$0.02

 

[Serious]

What?

 

[Koba St]

gotta salute her for acknowledge the TRUTH...a lot of these women seek ENTERTAINMENT over RESPONSIBLITY

so the GOOD RESPONSIBLE dude gets fukked over.....cause she values the ENTERTAINMENT of the GOON, PLAYER..THUG etc.

but they will eventually learn....50 lbs later...3 kids later with no man in sight and debt up to their neck....

They never learn though. Even with three kids and no man, she'll still fukk the thug knowing well he won't stay. Some people are just fukked up and we need to just accept it.

 

[onlylno]

Fixed

You sure?

How is it for foreign women.

 

[Koba St]

women don't like nice guys. they're boring. nice guys are only here to marry them after they're washed up and pay the bills. and possibly be a step-father to b*stard kids. and make no mistake, the marriage will be very, very sexless.

So who's this nice guy and why he would he do this? What does he get out of it?