On the contrary, I'm 22, without child or a criminal record, and in my first year of professional school.
No, I'll without question marry before the demo at discussion. Statistically, my children will also outperform yours. There's no hostility here.
The only type of way I can possibly feel is sorry for whomever you eventually decide to squeeze from your womb.
You won't vet the man whose child you rear, because your mindset is about you, not them.
You allowed a man that wasn't there when you wake up the next day between your legs because it made you feel good. There was no big picture. Only the now.
You carried his child full term when he stopped returning your calls in week six.
Even better, when he walks out, you can tell your son whose being subjected to poverty, makes poor grades, and doesn't know how to change a tire because mommy cared more about seizing the moment than her sons future, that daddy wasn't shyt.
He won't realize it generally takes two "ain't shyts," to tango, and the only difference between yourself and daddy who "made" you a baby mama is that one particular "ain't shyt," ran away - the other "ain't shyt," looked around at the terrible situation she brought her son into, shrugs, and tells him it ain't my fault.
You're being "made," a baby mama because you allow men between your legs who haven't committed to you.
Don't have a ring? He doesn't have a stable job? Why are you carrying his child?
"My body, my temple, my rules," is the mantra, correct?
I actually agree with the bold, but for some reason, you don't.
Despite your insistence that you value your unborn seed and hate being single mothers, it ain't about your future statistics - who in turn - will birth more statistics and perpetuate the cycle because it's all they know.
Otherwise we wouldn't be having this discussion.
It's about you.
In fact, statistically, you'll birth a child who historically will be faced with numerous disadvantages and cry themselves to sleep some nights from hunger.
You'll be a doing a lot of crying too, the only difference is that their particular hell will be of no fault of their own, whereas yours will be self imposed.
first things first why do you think people without records and are in college dont have kids?
if you plan to marry before having kids then why do you blindly support a black dude saying he'll purposely create a child OOW with a women he doesnt like nor plans to build a future with?
you support creating a single parent home?
your claim to be so educated but failed to examine the conversation in it's entirety, before stepping on your soap box with your speech.
then you claim your children will outperform mine when you dont know me from a can of paint, or whether or not i have or plan to have children.
why would you need to feel bad for my unborn children? i feel bad for your children and what ever women has the unfortunate pleasure of barring your children. a pompous over reaching underachiever as a spouse and father must be tough.
you are really hurt by my factual statement huh.
you claim ill be a babymom because im black and date Black men, but youre upset when some new statistic paints BM as abandoners and black children as fatherless
you black men are so quick to use these crock studies to shyt on BW not realizes youre shytting on yourselves in the process, but proceed with your statistics.
i don't know much about the women in your life but refrain from projecting their experience onto me. is your mom a single mother?
you know this story too well to not have lived it.
for this to be a supposed "Black" majority hiphop forum this passage reads more like a st0rmfr0nt or reddit reject, but proceed with your delusions.
it seems like the sufferings of little black boys and girls tickles you
its always a trip pissing off you quasi intellects on here.
these minions on this forum get so excited at the first big word they see they neglect to comprehen how the BS they dap on this board that paints Black women, and therefore the entire Black race as inferior beings is the same logic the good ol boys use to justify killing, assaulting, enslaving,and disenfranchising BLACKS for centuries now. use the same rhetoric keeping you dumb fukks on the botom of the totem pole
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those same stats say those single mothers and BW in general will go on to outperform YOU in not only education but career advancement as well. oh the irony.
it says a lot of what you think of BW , BM, and ultimately yourself if you think the greatest mistake a black women can make is being in a relationship with and having children with BM, and there children will automatically end up in a single parent household.
you honestly think those single mothers create children on their own? you dont think those men have no right to care for the children they created?
you talk of personal responsibility but make fun of single mothers while absolving fukkboys from fatherhood.
you dont think men NOT looking to be fathers should use protection at all times?
do you know your father?
I'm not judging, but let's keep it real.
