"You ain't grown until you become a parent"

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It was about the "industry" yet you said "my" environment as if my life only consists of the club. As if I have no other friends, hobbys, social groups, interests, or education. You know nothing about the industry and you know nothing about me. Save those sly comments for some of these dudes who can't put a sentence together. Save those "criticisms" for you judgemental, presumptuous and limited self.

Are you some sort of physical representation for the strip club? Is your soul intertwined with the industry and all of the strippers worldwide? If not, then why are you taking everything I say personally. It goes without say that we all experience different environments in our personal lives; my point was that this particular environment could have a negative impact when raising children. You disagreed with me rudely. I tried to be nice to you and even apologized if I hurt your stripper feelings. But since you want to go there with me, let's go there you heathen. I know nothing about the industry? What is there to exactly know? Enlighten me, darling. Explain to us all how the women dressed in little to no clothing dancing for cash are saving orphans, feeding the poor, and ending world hunger.
 

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Are you some sort of physical representation for the strip club? Is your soul intertwined with the industry and all of the strippers worldwide? If not, then why are you taking everything I say personally. It goes without say that we all experience different environments in our personal lives; my point was that this particular environment could have a negative impact when raising children. You disagreed with me rudely. I tried to be nice to you and even apologized if I hurt your stripper feelings. But since you want to go there with me, let's go there you heathen. I know nothing about the industry? What is there to exactly know? Enlighten me, darling. Explain to us all how the women dressed in little to no clothing dancing for cash are saving orphans, feeding the poor, and ending world hunger.

Shut your judgemental ass up. You're telling on yourself. You tried to hide your high and mighty uppity opinion behind you're slick comment. Now all of a sudden you "want to go there". You always wanted to go there.You made a personal attack and now you wanna pretend to be offended when you are getting what you gave only to use it as an excuse to "go there." I see behind the facade. You wanna know about strippers go to a club and sit in the audience and observe just like all the other mediocre women who "wanna go there." It's a job honey. No one is talking about world peace. Get over yourself. You and yours don't have the monopoly on goodness.
 

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Nevermind. I refuse to go down this path.

*logs off*

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Edit: Don't start no shyt won't be no shyt
 
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im a parent of 4 and i dont agree with that statement at all

being parent makes u more responsible for more mouths too feed and busier sure but not more grown. can make u more mature if u weren't at first

being grown is when u can stand on your own 2 feet and u are stabilized and mature and dont need financial help all the damn time
 

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without being a parent,..
you are not fully actualized, cognitive or experienced about life.
it is a necessary step in your development as an adult.
the matrix of ramp up wisdom and info god sends you, prepackaged when your child Is born.
is the most important thing to you as a human being, period.
without it,..you are missing lessons which have to and can only be learned by the creation of life.


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im a parent of 4 and i dont agree with that statement at all

being parent makes u more responsible for more mouths too feed and busier sure but not more grown. can make u more mature if u weren't at first

being grown is when u can stand on your own 2 feet and u are stabilized and mature and dont need financial help all the damn time


being grown does not have anything to do with anything monetary.
that is a prostestant, turned welfare mentality.
created here in America, to usher us into poverty and crime.
to further produce a profit in this penal colony.
we call America.

art barr
 

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Everywhere...You never there.
But those are all material gains. To grow as a person on the inside you need to experience raising a child who needs your constant love and attention. When you have a child who tests your patience, you quickly learn the art of forgiveness; your heart becomes softer; you wish the best for them before yourself. A child can bring out the best in you!

While I believe the intent and idea of your post, it's not true. There are many parents who demonstrate extreme cold heartedness.
 
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