Ya'll think a lot of women today will end up single at an old age?

[Malcolmxxx_23]

And what's wrong with that are you not a marriage-minded man? Seems like your part of the problem

But seriously why'd you cut her loose?

Marry or leave me alone

So i left her

Im def part of the problem

 

[CarmelBarbie]

It's true ...women become less noticable the older that they get...and men are less visible when they are young and broke...the trends reverse with age

and I have never seen men actually hit on a 70+ woman...most will hold open the door for them but smash nope...a lot of women have a problem coping with the fact that beauty has diminishing value

Men do too. Most women are not interested in a 70 year old man either not unless he has money and the average breh isn’t making enough bread to compensate at 70 either so it’s neither here or there. Unless we’re still pretending that the myth of men aging like fine wine is true, despite receding hair lines, erection issues, beer bellies, and on average mediocre faces. What attracts young women to older men are the resources and that’s only if that man has enough to compensate for his age and unattractiveness.

Google the average salary of Brehs and you’ll see that unless your in that small percent of bm making six figures, at an old age many brehs are not very attractive to women either. Women can be just as shallow as men—which is why we’ve seen a rise an incels. Older men have to have resources—that’s what makes them stand out against younger more attractive men with better dikk. But not every older Breh is making enough bank to stand out, so just like women, he ends up settling too.


And again if one group has a surplus of single folk, then so does the other and based on stats, both bm and bw are largely single. So these women that are invisible are in the same boat as the old men who are invisible and just as single as women too. We have to stop pretending as if there aren’t all these studies coming out talking about the number of single man rising, just like they’re talking about the number of single women rising.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I just had a conversation with one of my home girls and she was that ASAP is an average nikka compared to Beyonce who's a billionaire. But your post I agree with both genders focus on the negatives too much.

Their uninformed. The average salary for Brehs is 40k-50k. ASAP is way over that.

 

[SNG]

Their uninformed. The average salary for Brehs is 40k-50k. ASAP is way over that.

My friend thinks is the type that thinks if a women is making more money than a man he is average. If she makes more she is the sole provider and makes all the decisions.

 

[SupaHotIce]

If they "settle", no.

And its going to be easier for them since it's harder for men to find someone in this age of social media, so most men will take anything that comes their way

 

[feelosofer]

This doomsday scenario of older women living alone and dying alone will never happen. Women have better relationships with their own gender and will worst case scenario pull a 'golden girls' and move in with friends and family plus the government and private corporations will step in and keep women from hitting the streets.

If you are a man pushing 40 and you're unmarried or not in a commited LTR you should be concerned about yourself because a patriarchal society is not built for men to be completely alone or unable to care for themselves.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Y’all love saying this but my aunts get hit on every time we go out, and they in their 70’s.


OP actually called it out himself. Men aren’t picky enough to just stop hitting on an entire demographic of women.

My mother just turned 70 and still gets love bc, in her prime, she was a beautiful woman. But that love aint quite the same as the love she got even in her 50s. Her man* passed and she dated a little but ultimately decided that it wasn't even worth her time bc they weren't treating her as good.

* her man. She's still officially married to my father and he still loves her, but he's a mess.

 

[SNG]

This doomsday scenario of older women living alone and dying alone will never happen. Women have better relationships with their own gender and will worst case scenario pull a 'golden girls' and move in with friends and family plus the government and private corporations will step in and keep women from hitting the streets.

If you are a man pushing 40 and you're unmarried or not in a commited LTR you should be concerned about yourself because a patriarchal society is not built for men to be completely alone or unable to care for themselves.

nikkaz will do the same and be in a roommate situation. I know a lot of nikkaz who live with other nikkaz.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Probably be like my aunt who is in her 50s still looking for a man to buy her a big house and nice car.

Delusional Aunties....

 

[Rekkapryde]

I think just as many single men will be in that same boat unfortunately. Hopefully some of the Brehs who post on this site start to focus on that possibility for their own lives.

There’s actually a desperate breh who’s nearly 40 on here who hits up Brehettes, so desperate for some cheeks that even when he finds out you’re in a relationship he asks if you’d be open to inviting him in a mmf threesome. That’s after he tries to find out if you have single friends and why no one on tinder wants him.

All I’m saying is some of y’all are single asf and perhaps need to be worrying about getting a partner yourself and less about what’s going to happen to women you don’t even know.

Do tell

 

[Rekkapryde]

Then nikkas u better have that large supply of lotion for life then, cause u done

nikka preachin right here

yall got me in tears today



If you ain't got a



and ugly gang, you in trouble

 

[the bossman]

nikkaz will do the same and be in a roommate situation. I know a lot of nikkaz who live with other nikkaz.

You know a lot of 40+ year old nikkas with other 40+ year old male roommates?

 

[Rekkapryde]

Why is this such a popular topic? I understand that forums repeat topics and so usually I think complaining about it is not valid. But this has become an obsession for some of y'all recently. And yes there will be more men than women that are actually "alone." Some people mind this more than others. Make your decisions according to your values.

betta travel out of the country and find some foreign hoes.

 

[Rekkapryde]

I think this generation of attention whoring is gonna end bad for many women in the older years

Oh it already is......

 

[feelosofer]

nikkaz will do the same and be in a roommate situation. I know a lot of nikkaz who live with other nikkaz.

Its looked down upon check that thread about men in their 30s having roomates and you can get the general temperature.