Ya'll think a lot of women today will end up single at an old age?

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Jokes going to be flying in this thread, but you're speaking facts breh.

There's a direct correlation between depression, suicide, addiction, and many other things linked to things like this that make men more susceptible to it.

Honestly a lot men are okay with accepting the bolded over risking getting played or having a wife leverage the threat of divorce. Barring non government sanction life partnerships becoming a widespread phenomena, at least 25%-50% just won't do it (millenials and gen z). I know because I'm one of them (gen z). With how bad the economic present and future outlook appear, IN ADDITION to climate change IN ADDITION to resurgence of unhinged cacs broads just aren't a priority.

Notice how I didn't really delve into the quality of women and their expectations (as well as how realistic their expectations are).

Some dudes think women will come around because as popularly explained by Kevin Samuels "financially we (black folk) need each other" and as logical, statistically verifiable as that is, it hasn't made black women increase their marriage/long term companionship rates in the 2010s, 2000s, 1990s, 1980s, etc.

Even if women do (and some do) double back and get realistic later in the game, dudes with pride and respect know what time it is. The same way theres was always the boy in jr hs that just got girls and in hs, and in college. Same goes for your mid 20s. Broads overall either choose up or not really/not at all. If you're in the italicized group until you get brolic, or start making beaucoup bucks or are 30/35+, SPOILER ALERT broads don't like you like that. They just don't want to work for like/fend for themselves in old age, or just want a kid and guy they know will be involved literally or financially with the child (if she's not already a mother).

Dudes deep down are fairly honest with themselves, but truth/honesty require vulnerability and transparency so naturally dudes front in real life, or around others, but men know deep down whether women make it easy or if they have to apply to get a broad more or less.

Some men are okay with being a means to an end but a growing swath, are cool thuggin' it out, there's no malice in it either to paraphrase Cole some dudes just "aren't as comfortable as others are with lying" especially to themselves more than anyone.

I know I know I hate women yadda yadda, just a growing perspective:yeshrug:
 

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What standards men have dont matter if a woman doesn't find you relationship material. This isn't just a matter of women not getting chose, a lot just don't find men worth the hassle.

Legitimately realizing across generations and genders women/people don't really get how the bolded stance is growing for both men and women.

For every "woman hater/incel" there's 2-3 guys that just don't deal with/court/chase women like that because there over it.
For every "woman hater/incel" there's 10 women who think men are dogs/trash/broke/need to do better, etc.

Then there's lames/fakkits/simps/spawn of single mothers who place the blame for the bolded solely on there just being not enough "marriage minded men" or "men in a position to marry".

Regardless society/humans deserve whatever struggles we incur, because it's been just us we haven't had aliens interfering with mating patterns. We in aggregate got ourselves. Specifically in the black community regarding marriage, white supremacy through government, and black women choosing government over black fathers got us here, make no mistake

THOSE THAT GOT US HERE ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO CAN GET US OUT, but they (the italicized are more or less fixed) hence #SYSBM a large swath of black men have been second class citizens in the "community" since adolescence and figured it out they might have to go the distance alone therefore have had to plan for that reality
 

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Lot of brehs going to be single and lonely too because women are not settling they have the upper hand on if they want someone around or not where as men have only what accepts them..think about it..

compare a fat bytches tinder inbox to a 9-5 breh inbox who’s in shape…who you think is getting 100s of messages?

You're not marriage minded if you won't go dumpster diving or raise a few kids that ain't yours tho, don't be selfish nikka :stopitslime:

:mjlol:
 

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If you a single mom with kids then it ain't that bad because you have children but shyt going to get real for people who are single childless up in they old age. My girlfriends aunt is a single older women with no kids and she fell in the tub and broke her back and was in that bytch for 12 hours couldn't get out of the tub. A neighbour eventually came by and had to call an ambulance to get her out. People don't think about shyt like this when not having a spouse or any children around to avoid shyt like this.

Yup having kids before getting a long term setup with a man, as a living insurance policy/retirement plan "marriage minded type beat" :ehh:
 

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nikkas fukking white/latina/Asian bytches but how many get married and for the ones that do how many last past 5 years? Now you divorced with baggage paying support and can’t pull the same type of “exotical” you could before marriage where as your Latina/white/Asian single mother is raising the kids off your money and still fukking younger black dudes now..see it in LA all the time

I'm no swirler/divestor/PAWGER/whatever the fukk, but the older I get the more I get it. Men go where they're desired/where the women make things easy. You'd be a liar if you said the bulk of American black woman make it easy for their aesthetic, financial, and intellectual counterparts. That doesn't mean they don't make it easy for ALL black men just the majority
 

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I think a great majority will at least settle with some dude in they mid 40s,

Nope.


If anybody has been single their whole damn life, doing what they want when they wanna
then why would they stop being set in their ways to compromise with somebody else?
Just to not be lonely? Naw.

Especially not if they won’t get from marriage/relationship the natural trappings
(children, etc.)

Being single is easy and being married is hard, and more often than not people choose
the past of least resistance.


Besides - women of any age may be single, but that doesn’t mean they are alone.
 

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I'm no swirler/divestor/PAWGER/whatever the fukk, but the older I get the more I get it. Men go where they're desired/where the women make things easy. You'd be a liar if you said the bulk of American black woman make it easy for their aesthetic, financial, and intellectual counterparts. That doesn't mean they don't make it easy for ALL black men just the majority

Breh I just got into it with one of my homegirls who said that a nikka she was talking to had good quality's to be a good father and that she would have a baby with him but wouldn't live with him until he got where she financially wanted him to be. You can't make this shyt up.
 

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I think many will be single in their senior years whether it be by choice or happenstance.

But, that doesn't mean that they will be alone. If they have kids, then many will live vicariously through their kids to some degree or will be an active member of their extended family of sorts.

I don't believe women will be recluses and those who are will have some sort of mental illness. Just isn't in their nature to be solitary beings...
 
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