Ya'll think a lot of women today will end up single at an old age?

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I think just as many single men will be in that same boat unfortunately. Hopefully some of the Brehs who post on this site start to focus on that possibility for their own lives.

There’s actually a desperate breh who’s nearly 40 on here who hits up Brehettes, so desperate for some cheeks that even when he finds out you’re in a relationship he asks if you’d be open to inviting him in a mmf threesome. That’s after he tries to find out if you have single friends and why no one on tinder wants him.

All I’m saying is some of y’all are single asf and perhaps need to be worrying about getting a partner yourself and less about what’s going to happen to women you don’t even know.
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There’s actually a desperate breh who’s nearly 40 on here who hits up Brehettes, so desperate for some cheeks that even when he finds out you’re in a relationship he asks if you’d be open to inviting him in a mmf threesome. That’s after he tries to find out if you have single friends and why no one on tinder wants him.
It's sad that I'm not even shocked.
 

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Probably more "compound living" situations between women if they don't get married.
If the government doesn't do something about the skyrocketing cost of living soon. shyt is gonna get ugly for everyone. Moreso women because they work in fields that generally pay less money. With inflation up 7% most employers ain't matching half that amount on raises. Hell I switched jobs recently so I could get a 15% pay bump.
 

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If the government doesn't do something about the skyrocketing cost of living soon. shyt is gonna get ugly for everyone. Moreso women because they work in fields that generally pay less money. With inflation up 7% most employers ain't matching half that amount on raises. Hell I switched jobs recently so I could get a 15% pay bump.


I got a 5.5% raise and I have talked to other companies. I feel ya on that! Women typically earn a lot less.
 

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I think this generation of attention whoring is gonna end bad for many women in the older years

u have a point

see a lot of women of the 90s, 2000s didn’t have social media outlets in their hands to tell on themselves .. so many was able to hide their past and lock down a dude. Some not many was able to. Because they on social media today

The women now especially over the last 10 years have documented their past, present and future all over Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc , so they letting dudes know off bat , how they not marriageable

I met chicks who really like me and they went on their Facebook to delete every picture, likes, comments they had.. but unfortunately for them, they still leave 3 or 4 comments or a like from a dude and u can click on that and see some comments she left on the other dude page

message to u ladies of today!!!!! Delete your entire accounts when u meet a nikka
 

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OP I’m not offended.
I just think a lotta men don’t get how much some women feel about the duties of marriage.
You wanna know what psychologists have to say on the matter?

Believe it or not, Being alone for women isn’t really as big of a deal as society used to say because women have always had to manage with being by themselves because men die before women.
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I didn't try to offend ya'll or nothing. If you read the op, which I know y'all didn't, you would've seen I said most women will find someone.
Here’s an interesting article on the matter.

The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’t
Believe it or not, a lotta women don’t WANT to get married past a certain age. Especially if they’ve been married before. This article gives good info on why if ur interested.
5 Reasons Why So Many Women Love Living Alone

I think some men (not you…I honestly don’t think that’s what U were doing here lol) play up the old cat lady stuff to give themselves a sense of importance but in the grand scheme of things, women tend to adjust to living single just fine and many even prefer it. What’s startling about these studies is that they are cross-cultural. Similar trends can be seen around the world.:yeshrug:
 

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Other than health, shelter becomes more important when you start getting up there. As far as being married in your senior years, a lot of you will probably spend the majority of the time taking care of your spouse, depending on who becomes disabled first...and that can be sooner than you think. That, or you'll probably wound up having your mother-in-law or father-in-law moving in with yall because they can no longer take care of themselves, which can be nerve-wracking. The last woman I dated in her fifties left her husband because she got tired of taking care of him, after he became disabled from a car accident. And they were married for 22 years. I already knew I didn't want to be in a long-term relationship with her. Btw, she didn't just come out and tell me that. It came out in bits and pieces. I've heard of stories like this before, that also included husbands leaving their wives for similar reasons.

I didn't say all this to make you want to stay single, but just to say everybody have their cross to bear, whether you're single or married. Just don't get into the habit of looking at older people, and saying you don't want to wound up like this person or that person when you get older. A lot of times you turn out worst than that person when you say those things. I've heard younger people make these comments mostly towards older single people, without knowing it could be a living nightmare for them if they were married.
 
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