Y’all should be concerned about single men. Not single women.

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Why do you think some men hold tight to that idea? That unwed women will be miserable? And do they believe unwed men will be miserable too? I haven’t seen much of a conversation about that.

I already answered this. Because for women, marriage is seen as some sort of accomplishment and sense of validation. Y’all want it so bad you’ll ruin if not end a good relationship just because he doesn’t want to get married.

Y’all be little ass girls already planning your wedding :gucci:

None of you single 30+ women on this site actually want to not ever get married :comeon:
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
Here you go typing in your usually whiney sonnet bs.

I’m having an open conversation, but your first response is to whine and complain that it’s bad faith.

I think it’s you who doesn’t want to have open dialogue.
I see you got your pity daps from the one fat femcel bytch that makes absolutely no sense when she types and the simp fakkit nikkas with no dikks:mjlol:
Again you probably some fat bytch who sleeps with the fan on and gets no attention in the real world:mjlol:
You are not trying to be open because if you were
You wouldn’t have neglected how I said BOTH GENDERS ARE FACING A PERILOUS END
But I know you can’t read for shyt so it’s okay fat bytch
You are loved:mjgrin:
 

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But they are all related.

Men don’t have strong social ties like women which is why they are less likely to have help when they fall on hard times, that leads to homelessness.

Men struggle with solitude which leads to poor mental health which leads to destructive behaviors including drugs and of course that leads to homelessness.

These aren’t isolated issues.

This is female thinking.

Fucc “help”.
Men have social ties and all of that, but we handle our hard times by ourselves for the most part
because we know nobody else can really pull ourselves through them - that’s even if they care.

In my lifetime I have had some rough times, but I gritted that chit out by myself.
I’ve had niccas be mad at me when they found out I was struggling and didn’t ask for their help -
but fucc it, because is wasn’t any of their business and I didn’t want to worry anybody.

Men LOVE solitude - that’s when we think and figure chit out.
There’s a difference between “solitude” and “loneliness”.
Men only need a little bit of “social connection” and we’ll be alright.



Even a single, lonely old man historically has his affairs together.
He got his own crib, his own car (sometimes more than one), got some bread saved up.
At least in previous generations.

The difference between them and old women?
If Big Mama never got married, she either got to:
- move in with one of her kids/grandkids
- move in with Dorothy, Sophia, Rose & Blanche
- try to get into one of them 1-bedroom Senior Citizens’ Projects, and prolly still got to work
until she dies

...and let’s be 300 - nowadays, broads don’t even have to be that old to ride that wave.
I’m seeing ladies in their late 40s on this. If that’s what you got to do, then you gots to
do it. But a man rather die than go out like that, even for increased “social ties”.



BTW: There are just as many (if not more) women gone off drugs than men, iono why you
brought that up...
 

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Your personal feelings mean nothing against hard facts. Single women do much better in life than single men. They are healthier, live much longer, happier, and are more content with their social circle than men.
Take away the safety nets of society and that’s not true lol

Since society (men) have provided everyone with so many luxuries it’s blinded you and other women from the NECESSITY that men are in your lives. Remove the AC, electricity, plumbing, 911 system, and you’d see how much you actually need men. But since these luxuries are provided to you (and it’s mainly men maintaining these things) it blinds you from that
 
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Out here in my damn drawls
There's nothing groundbreaking about men living single and having obscure, uninteresting existences

Most of our hobbies are usually done solo and don't require companionship


A dude will be on a whole fishing trip by himself like :mjgrin:
At peace as if he's in his own beer commercial



It might be different if he can't get some p*ssy if he wanted it :hubie:
 

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Points were made. :ehh:

Loneliness in elder age definitely affects men in a negative way more than it does women.

Stats point out and show that we actually die from loneliness.
Those stats were based on previous generations of men who were totally dependent on traditional male-female relationships. Basically having women has caretakers and housewives, while men went out and worked and held down the household income. The men who died of “loneliness” died due to not knowing how to cook, clean, and take care of self. It’s not necessarily “loneliness” killing them as much as it’s older men never really learning how live healthy lifestyles without a caretaker. It’s not like loneliness is some terminal illness that exclusively effects men. But it does effect men worse than it effects women. That’s for sure. The women are lonely and happy and still have dikk options and companion options.
LSSA….the board obsessed with catching a white man and how best to fit into white societyy…

Lol absolutely not. That board has gone to shyt in the last few years. I only came here bc I want to see the perspective of men I am interested in (black men). As you see I barely post. I come here once in a while, typically when things go viral and I’m interested in the male perspective.

But believe what you want, I really don’t care.

Any comments on the thread topic though?
True sis. I agree with the premise in your original post to a degree. A lot of men who put self value on getting sex, will become depressed when it gets rough out here and no woman wants him. And the men who aren’t just seeking sex, and want actual relationships, it’s gonna get rough for them as well, when women don’t see him as a catch or don’t see him as viable safety net or income multiplier. A lot of these bossed up and caked up women would rather just be happy alone or with a group of other bossed up women living that bachelorette lifestyle. Alone, yet stress free these women are. And they still have dikk and companionship options in the form of lonely simps competing for her time and affection. Meanwhile the dude is lonely and stressed and doesn’t know how to handle stoicism in older or younger age. Especially men who’s only habits revolve around chasing sex. I predict more suicides for black men in the future along with all the other health problems. It’s gonna be bleak. But who gives a shyt? Good luck to the rest of these dudes. :mjlol:
 

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Aint that some shyt. :heh:

Single women hating on happily married women because the married woman was humble and practical on the man she married to.
It makes their opinion less valid. It also shines a light on the fact that they come to a male dominated space while being single. Most likely because because need male attention.
 

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Kinda telling the first page is only juelzing about the OP instead of the sources they backed it up with :patrice:

But I know TheColi, 6 figures & 6 feet. Black men are in perfect health and we have nothing to reflect on :youngsabo:


I not gonna be concerned about @Another Man
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This is actually the exact mentality that leaves men to only vent their feelings to their women, and god forbid if they're single, those thoughts will stay stuck in his head without support, leading to unhappiness.:snoop:
 
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