Y’all should be concerned about single men. Not single women.

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Personally all this shyt proves that women are generally happier (in theory) being single. When dudes like KS wag their finger at them he's listening to female cap, Thinking that a woman would be happy with the average dude.

It seems like women generally don't really like Men, Especially if you look at the Asian situation. Japanese and Korean chicks can't be bothered with their Men but let some extra average white boy come through and he's treated like a rock star.

Again the issue seems to be what women deem to be average, Women are down to pound rich nikkas and extra fly nikkas it's the average Man women can't stand and yes if you put Ralph Kramden in front of a woman then she'd rather be celibate. Put Lizzo if front of the average Man and take away any other woman and that fella is eating.

I think a lotta women kinda are like cats. They want men in spurts…when they want them and then wanna be free to do whatever when they don’t. That is obviously hard to do in relationships. While men might go through it from a socio-emotional way as they age, what hits women harder than desire for companionship is money. Chicks will find a way to socialize. But retiring without enough income is their beast of burden. That’s why a lotta chicks in recent generations have focused on that bag over everything mentality. It ain’t fear of dying alone that keeps them up at night. It’s fear of dying impoverished or helpless.
Economics is at the heart of these issues for both men AND women. It just plays out differently.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Op is cap men enjoy solitude way more than women. Look at the hobbies most men are into that alone will tell you

 

[Wiseborn]

Nah. Agree to disagee. Balance and equilibrium is actually the only real sustainable way to move forward but people are stubborn and will just dig their heels in either way. Even if it’s causing society to self-destruct.

Read anything by Machiavelli. Especially The Discourses pretty much used Livy's observations on ancient Rome to describe what happened to ëgalitarian" Rome. That being said it's best to have a balance where their are some laws but every Man is the head of his household, But the super goofy feminist shyt and giving money to kids for gender reassignment surgery is goofy.


By the way you really don't want to actually cut a kids dikk off phyiscally or chemically because when you do that turns out it literally might be a phase and just like 'roids tend to lead to the shut down of the body's testosterone production and death due to heart attacks (see Kali Muscle) fukking with kids reproductive systems during puberty can really fukk them up where they're not really a boy or a girl. But in today's society you can't say that without being canceled.

The balance comes in where if you put a wig on a pig it's seen as goofy but they can live but not having a parade for people being stupid.

 

[Wiseborn]

I think a lotta women kinda are like cats. They want men in spurts…when they want them and then wanna be free to do whatever when they don’t. That is obviously hard to do in relationships. While men might go through it from a socio-emotional way as they age, what hits women harder than desire for companionship is money. Chicks will find a way to socialize. But retiring without enough income is their beast of burden. That’s why a lotta chicks in recent generations have focused on that bag over everything mentality. It ain’t fear of dying alone that keeps them up at night. It’s fear of dying impoverished or helpless.
Economics is at the heart of these issues for both men AND women. It just plays out differently.

This is it.

Again that's really the only difference between third world hoes and first world hoes. There's no translation for I don't need no Man. Yes being with a Man day in and day out is grinding. Most of the chicks I've dated seriously like drinking and turning up with their girls. I like doing active sports and chilling in the crib telling Dad jokes. But what I offer is security, emotional support, an regular dikk. That's all that marriage is. Really the issue is women are always surprised at how quickly the regular dikk aspect goes away, Look at the over 30 year old in LA chick.

 

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Read anything by Machiavelli. Especially The Discourses pretty much used Livy's observations on ancient Rome to describe what happened to ëgalitarian" Rome. That being said it's best to have a balance where their are some laws but every Man is the head of his household, But the super goofy feminist shyt and giving money to kids for gender reassignment surgery is goofy.


By the way you really don't want to actually cut a kids dikk off phyiscally or chemically because when you do that turns out it literally might be a phase and just like 'roids tend to lead to the shut down of the body's testosterone production and death due to heart attacks (see Kali Muscle) fukking with kids reproductive systems during puberty can really fukk them up where they're not really a boy or a girl. But in today's society you can't say that without being canceled.

The balance comes in where if you put a wig on a pig it's seen as goofy but they can live but not having a parade for people being stupid.

Egalitarianism has zero to do with that whole trans mess. And what’s happening between men and women points to larger imbalances in our entire world. It ties into capitalism, greed, need for more, more, more, needing others to be down so other can be up. All of that shyt causes societies to implode until we are gonna return the world back to the dark ages and living like we were in pre-historic times…which ironically, researchers are now finding were surprisingly more egalitarian and harmonious than the power struggles we have now.
I honestly think greed and excess is driving most of these conflicts. But that’s another topic.

 

[Wiseborn]

I think a lotta women kinda are like cats. They want men in spurts…when they want them and then wanna be free to do whatever when they don’t. That is obviously hard to do in relationships. While men might go through it from a socio-emotional way as they age, what hits women harder than desire for companionship is money. Chicks will find a way to socialize. But retiring without enough income is their beast of burden. That’s why a lotta chicks in recent generations have focused on that bag over everything mentality. It ain’t fear of dying alone that keeps them up at night. It’s fear of dying impoverished or helpless.
Economics is at the heart of these issues for both men AND women. It just plays out differently.

This is a good example of a Modern woman/ 304 culture woman ( who is not actually a hoe)

 

[Wiseborn]

Egalitarianism has zero to do with that whole trans mess. And what’s happening between men and women points to larger imbalances in our entire world. It ties into capitalism, greed, need for more, more, more, needing others to be down so other can be up. All of that shyt causes societies to implode until we are gonna return the world back to the dark ages and living like we were in pre-historic times…which ironically, researchers are now finding were surprisingly more egalitarian and harmonious than the power struggles we have now.
I honestly think greed and excess is driving most of these conflicts. But that’s another topic.

That's the issue someone is always down while others is up. You can't fix that. Women really really really want that. If that wasn't the case how could a old ass rich cac be seen as High value in almost any society?




In this movie Danilov is "High Value". a political functionary in the Soviet Union the chick he wanted was a fellow Jew and also educated as he was. But at that time the uneducated rural hunter was the man show she choose him. When he saw that he couldn't get the girl be realized that their would never be a truly equal society

 

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This is it.

Again that's really the only difference between third world hoes and first world hoes. There's no translation for I don't need no Man. Yes being with a Man day in and day out is grinding. Most of the chicks I've dated seriously like drinking and turning up with their girls. I like doing active sports and chilling in the crib telling Dad jokes. But what I offer is security, emotional support, an regular dikk. That's all that marriage is. Really the issue is women are always surprised at how quickly the regular dikk aspect goes away, Look at the over 30 year old in LA chick.

Yeah but we also gotta look at how traditional roles can wear women down to the point that they don’t even wanna live with a dude in their twilight years.
Part of it is the complete loss of identity a lotta women experience in these relationships. To the point where they don’t do shyt they want because they spent their entire lives with husbands and kids and taking care of others. That’s the perspective older women always mention when they say hell naw they don’t wanna get married anymore. It’s not that they don’t like men. They just don’t want their lives yo be about men until they die.

Have you ever heard of LAT? Living Apart together…chicks literally trying their best to wiggle their way outta this shyt and negotiate relationships that don’t require giving up so much autonomy while still valuing romantic companionship.
I get it. Some great aunts had bfs after divorce or they were widowers, but ask them why they were adamant about never living with a man again? And my great uncles weren’t ogres or abusive. But watching them growing up I understand where they were coming from.

 

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That's the issue someone is always down while others is up. You can't fix that. Women really really really want that. If that wasn't the case how could a old ass rich cac be seen as High value in almost any society?




In this movie Danilov is "High Value". a political functionary in the Soviet Union the chick he wanted was a fellow Jew and also educated as he was. But at that time the uneducated rural hunter was the man show she choose him. When he saw that he couldn't get the girl be realized that their would never be a truly equal society

Sure women play into that dynamic but that doesn’t mean it’s right. And too much acceptance and resignation of that “somebody gotta be up” mentality is what leads to excessive corruption and social instability.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah but we also gotta look at how traditional roles can wear women down to the point that they don’t even wanna live with a dude in their twilight years.
Part of it is the complete loss of identity a lotta women experience in these relationships. To the point where they don’t do shyt they want because they spent their entire lives with husbands and kids and taking care of others. That’s the perspective older women always mention when they say hell naw they don’t wanna get married anymore. It’s not that they don’t like men. They just don’t want their lives yo be about men until they die.

Have you ever heard of LAT? Living Apart together…chicks literally trying their best to wiggle their way outta this shyt and negotiate relationships that don’t require giving up so much autonomy while still valuing romantic companionship.
I get it. Some great aunts had bfs after divorce or they were widowers, but ask them why they were adamant about never living with a man again? And my great uncles weren’t ogres or abusive. But watching them growing up I understand where they were coming from.

The only problem with that is ain't no Man paying the bills while she pipes out another Man for free.

It's same reason why women ain't down with their husbands cheating. Every year they get older and the women get younger one day Hubby will do this:




That's the whole point of Alimony to get rich nikkas to aviod bushing their wives.

Notice the Real Life Lela Rochon is literally flabby and sick her husband was cheating but didn't bush her.



Because women just have to tell it all even the simp step daddy reirement program ain't working no more.


That's why I think it it's so common for chicks to hoe on the low, They don't mind smashing randoms but they don't want to live with them.

 

[Wiseborn]

Sure women play into that dynamic but that doesn’t mean it’s right. And too much acceptance and resignation of that “somebody gotta be up” mentality is what leads to excessive corruption and social instability.

I agree but it's like drugs. Why would someone do drugs? People are stupid but they should be allowed to be free. In actuality women would be way better off if they let their father's decide who they should marry. Michelle was on the fence with dating Broke ass Barack she told her little brother ( I think her Father passed) to play ball with him and if he gave the OK she'd date him. Dude had a hole in his shoes and and hole in his Car when she dated him, Dude went on to become President. I'll bet she had some homegirl telling her why should she date that broke ass half African.

 

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I agree but it's like drugs. Why would someone do drugs? People are stupid but they should be allowed to be free. In actuality women would be way better off if they let their father's decide who they should marry. Michelle was on the fence with dating Broke ass Barack she told her little brother ( I think her Father passed) to play ball with him and if he gave the OK she'd date him. Dude had a hole in his shoes and and hole in his Car when she dated him, Dude went on to become President. I'll bet she had some homegirl telling her why should she date that broke ass half African.

Nah. Men don’t like it but women have to figure themselves out on their own. And men need to figure their shyt out on their own too. The need to control others is also a big part of the issue too. People get so wrapped up in trying to control what others do that they fail to see to their own needs. It’s kinda the whole point of the thread. When people look inside for their own happiness and validation instead of worrying about other people or outside material stuff or validating others, they could be healthier and better in relationships. But so long as it’s forced, it’s not sustainable.
But who knows in the end.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I wish the best for all the young brothers. Just don’t be too obsessed with trying to have a bunch of sex and make the best of your life

 

[Wiseborn]

Nah. Men don’t like it but women have to figure themselves out on their own. And men need to figure their shyt out on their own too. The need to control others is also a big part of the issue too. People get so wrapped up in trying to control what others do that they fail to see to their own needs. It’s kinda the whole point of the thread. When people look inside for their own happiness and validation instead of worrying about other people or outside material stuff or validating others, they could be healthier and better in relationships. But so long as it’s forced, it’s not sustainable.
But who knows in the end.

You're saying the same thing I'm saying. You have to let people do what they want to do. Most chicks can (if careful) touch the hot stove of wilding out and get the simp daddy retirement plan if they cash out early enough.

Most Men touch the hot stove of either smashing too many randoms and getting hit with child support or if they're #uglygang get their paper right and get a personality quickly.

Again #uglygang Men have to learn not to seek validation from women early. One of the first red pills dudes swallow is the dudes who get the most chicks handsome gang or not is the one's not putting women on a pedestal. It's the nikkas bushing a basketball game because some woman called him that ends up being cheated on.


I think one positive of 304 culture is maybe chicks will decide that they are the village wife type. In Africa if a chick didn't want to marry the Man her father picked for her she could either try to convince a Man she wanted to kick in an equal number of Cows or she could go to another village and be taken care of and shared between the dudes who couldn't get married. The only thing women don't want to acknowledge is that they will end up fukking a lot of dudes that they generally would've looked down on.

 

[Taadow]

The bold is exactly the point. Being emotionally unavailable and unwilling change, doesn’t make someone qualified to lead in the first place.

That’s why they leave. Y’all tap out when you shut down and eventually shut off. If you think that can’t be felt by and eventually affect others, not sure what to tell you.

...you keep adding extra chit to what I’m saying. Maybe that’s why your dudes be “tapping out”.
You aren’t listening.

You keep saying emotionally “walled off” and “unavailable” when it ain’t that.
It’s “emotions gotta take the back seat”.

When we got rent to pay and mouths to feed, we worry about emotions later.

Besides, you can’t do Jack Schitt about how we feel anyway.
I don’t know why y’all think it will help to talk to you.
We talk about our issues to try to fix them, not like y’all.