Y’all should be concerned about single men. Not single women.

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Personally all this shyt proves that women are generally happier (in theory) being single. When dudes like KS wag their finger at them he's listening to female cap, Thinking that a woman would be happy with the average dude.

It seems like women generally don't really like Men, Especially if you look at the Asian situation. Japanese and Korean chicks can't be bothered with their Men but let some extra average white boy come through and he's treated like a rock star.

Again the issue seems to be what women deem to be average, Women are down to pound rich nikkas and extra fly nikkas it's the average Man women can't stand and yes if you put Ralph Kramden in front of a woman then she'd rather be celibate. Put Lizzo if front of the average Man and take away any other woman and that fella is eating.

Genesis 3:16

16Then he said to the woman,



“I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,

and in pain you will give birth.

And you will desire to control your husband,

but he will rule over you.”

Yea does seem like it when I hear how women speak of they’re husbands men they’re seeing at times.
 

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Yeah but we also gotta look at how traditional roles can wear women down to the point that they don’t even wanna live with a dude in their twilight years.
Part of it is the complete loss of identity a lotta women experience in these relationships. To the point where they don’t do shyt they want because they spent their entire lives with husbands and kids and taking care of others. That’s the perspective older women always mention when they say hell naw they don’t wanna get married anymore. It’s not that they don’t like men. They just don’t want their lives yo be about men until they die.

Have you ever heard of LAT? Living Apart together…chicks literally trying their best to wiggle their way outta this shyt and negotiate relationships that don’t require giving up so much autonomy while still valuing romantic companionship.:yeshrug:
I get it. Some great aunts had bfs after divorce or they were widowers, but ask them why they were adamant about never living with a man again? And my great uncles weren’t ogres or abusive. But watching them growing up I understand where they were coming from.
That’s because women want to control men and men are allowing it. Women have forcefully gotten into male spaces where “locker room talk” is known to be had. They want to referee football games and coach now. It ends up complicating the workspace at best. Then you get strange movements like LGBQ and m2f trans competing against women in sports. Egalitarian just allows too much confusion. What’s happening now in society can’t be fixed at this point.

Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
 

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People love to use “studies” to back up a point but there are very little thoughts to the quantitative data collected to draw the conclusions.

Example: I go and interview 10 single women. 8 of them “say” they are happy. 2 “say” they are sad.

Then I go to a news outlet and say, “New Study shows that 80% of single women are happy.”

The news outlet reports it and then people take it as fact.

Single people (men and women) are notorious for capping on social media especially. Their life is amazing! They are so happy!

They’re crying their eyes out to therapists and their other single friends. I’ve met a lot of women who have amazing lives and smile for the selfie but are miserable at night.

I’ve seen a lot of dudes struggle with friendships and be alone.

It’s all subjective. Unless you can prove your “studies” that you are citing covers 10,000 single black men and women across the country, your point is biased and you want to low key troll the guy collective.

this is facts , by passed everything else
 

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...you keep adding extra chit to what I’m saying. Maybe that’s why your dudes be “tapping out”.
You aren’t listening.

You keep saying emotionally “walled off” and “unavailable” when it ain’t that.
It’s “emotions gotta take the back seat”.

When we got rent to pay and mouths to feed, we worry about emotions later.

Besides, you can’t do Jack Schitt about how we feel anyway.
I don’t know why y’all think it will help to talk to you.
We talk about our issues to try to fix them, not like y’all.
At least we agree these actions don’t lead to sustainability. We can decide whether it’s the woman leaving or the man pushing her away, another time. This has been fun.
 

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You were so hurt by the original thread you made this thread to deflect how much it applied to you to men. And here you are trying deflect again :mjlol:

This thread wouldn’t even exist if it wasn’t for the first one that got you in your feelings. Even the way the thread is worded is clearly you being defensive. Only people you’re fooling are the other bitter lonely 30+ women and the dudes who agree with anything women say in every thread.


You got 50k+ posts on a message board but you got a great dating life :mjlol:

I been on message boards for over 20 years and haven’t amassed 50k in total among all of them combined




Exactly

Not to mention they specifically search for studies that back up what they already wanted to be true




She made this thread because the one about lonely women hit close to home, she admitted that in her response to you. That’s why it came off as an attack and she tried to play it off like she just concerned for black men when she got called out for being full of it.
Hit dog holla

:mjlol:and u bragging about being on msg boards 20 years:deadmanny:

The sheer irony

:skip:

Dating life
Bih i been married before :bryan:
 

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People love to use “studies” to back up a point but there are very little thoughts to the quantitative data collected to draw the conclusions.

Example: I go and interview 10 single women. 8 of them “say” they are happy. 2 “say” they are sad.

Then I go to a news outlet and say, “New Study shows that 80% of single women are happy.”

The news outlet reports it and then people take it as fact.

Single people (men and women) are notorious for capping on social media especially. Their life is amazing! They are so happy!

They’re crying their eyes out to therapists and their other single friends. I’ve met a lot of women who have amazing lives and smile for the selfie but are miserable at night.

I’ve seen a lot of dudes struggle with friendships and be alone.

It’s all subjective. Unless you can prove your “studies” that you are citing covers 10,000 single black men and women across the country, your point is biased and you want to low key troll the guy collective.
It just kinda sounds like you don’t know how studies work breh.
 

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It aint the truth?

Ugly and fat (or both)

Aren't high on the social totem pole
You could say that about anyone. I didnt know that those were the only three groups of women that exist. Fat, ugly, and attractive.
 

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She made this thread because the one about lonely women hit close to home, she admitted that in her response to you. That’s why it came off as an attack and she tried to play it off like she just concerned for black men when she got called out for being full of it.

What did I admit? Why are you making things up to soothe your ego? You’re very weird.
 

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Women are "social creatures "

But yet u "happy" living alone

Make it make sense

Just say nobody want yo ass and move on

Are you 15?

Living alone does not equal loneliness.

You can have several friends and close relationships and live alone. Idk why even provide links when y’all refuse to read. Just slow, loud and wrong. And proud of it.
 

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Notice how none of them dared address the point I made about how they try to shame men for wanting women to settle for him while the only way a woman (who wanted to get married) ends up staying single is by failing to get chose by the men they want who refused to settle for and/or felt he could do better than her.

Instead they do all the things they accuse me of doing. They have deflected all in this thread. The whole premise of this thread was a deflection of the original one just like this with the gender roles reversed.

No one addresses you because you’re very emotional and illogical lmao.

But I’ll play.

Single women who stay single because they can’t find what they believe to be their equal aren’t on social campaigns to get men to lower their standards like men do; constantly telling women they aren’t attractive enough to have high standards and relishing in them dying old and alone.

Women do not do that. They stay single, keep their friends close and live long happy lives. Statistics support that FACT. Y’all will say every woman is lying or the stats are false and misleading because you want so bad for them to be miserable. Ask yourself why that is.
 
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