BlaqkSpliffin
Ni**as Still Weird - Me
Take your girl to birthday parties brehsOkay this sounds bad but I met him at a birthday party my ex took me to.
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women that hyphen their name are disrespectful
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JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
Mr Hate Coffee
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Why does it matter to the woman?? It like the only thing the man asks for in marriage. Like homie said
So you want the ring, big wedding, honeymoon, 2.4 children, picket fence house... but changing your name is?
@Chaos How would a woman feel if a man said he didn't believe in wedding rings? Would she listen to people bringing up the few examples of folks who didn't have a wedding ring or would she say "FOH. I want the wedding ring and if you aint down with that then lets part ways"?
That's a good point
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
*crickets*
Why does it matter to the woman?? It like the only thing the man asks for in marriage. Like homie said
@Chaos How would a woman feel if a man said he didn't believe in wedding rings? Would she listen to people bringing up the few examples of folks who didn't have a wedding ring or would she say "FOH. I want the wedding ring and if you aint down with that then lets part ways"?
That's my take on it, if we going 21st century marriage then we going ALL the way. fukk the diamond, fukk your one-use $1000 dress, too. fukk renting a church, we BBQing
Why does it matter to the woman?? It like the only thing the man asks for in marriage. Like homie said
@Chaos How would a woman feel if a man said he didn't believe in wedding rings? Would she listen to people bringing up the few examples of folks who didn't have a wedding ring or would she say "FOH. I want the wedding ring and if you aint down with that then lets part ways"?
Depends on the woman, wedding rings aren't that important to me...it's a symbol. That's all I see it as.
I'll play devil's advocate..***
As far the last name, if you divorce, it sucks having to keep the man's last name. Then, trying to change back. Especially, getting remarried. Also, I was given the last from birth, from my family and I'm related to my father.
Can't say the same for the new man in my life that may or may not be there forever...
That's how I would see..but personally, I don't mind taking my future husband's last name but men have to admit this has to do with their pride and ego.
Yep...my wife tried that shyt and I had toher into falling back. You want marriage, that comes with it. If you wanna keep your name, then don't get married.
Mike Nasty
Superstar
Perfect follow up from first sentence to second sentence
It’s a prestige thing.
Each of her husbands were well known. One was a judge, another was a neurosurgeon.
MadameMoreaux
Pro
My husband never told or asked me to take his name. I wanted his name, even though Muslim women typically don’t do that. I like the way it sounds and I want my nuclear family to all have the same names. This is a really petty and immature thing for a couple to argue about. I’d say they really don’t have any business getting married in the first place if they can’t respectfully handle this. It’s small potatoes compared to what’s yet to come. Being too prideful or selfish will destroy your marriage.
Is that so? Is it all across the board or just very common?
I have some muslim friends but never bothered to ask those questions nor have i ever even noticed.