women that hyphen their name are disrespectful

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FOH. I personally know a breh who met his wife in Brazil. They got married and she still took his last name. Not sure what's up with the two people you know.
It's supposed to be optional and can go both ways but some people can be more flexible or stringent when it comes to continuing the traditions/practices. But it's still common there.

Edit: As a matter of fact, there was a 3rd that i used to work with. His name was Collin someting. All the sudden one day i noticed his name in his emails changed at work. That's when he explained he got married to a Brazilian woman and this happened in the United States.
Apparently his wife and her family werent the "flexible" types. Look him up on Linked. He's the director of Engineering at Dell. Think his original last name was Gauchin or something. Now it's "LeGault"
 
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Yall should see Latino people namea then.

They be having 2 middle names and two last names. No way you can forget what part of tje family tree they dervive from

Got there before me. Portuguese and Spanish families do that with their children.

But I’m neither. Taking my last name is non-negotiable. I don’t get how as a woman, you want to pick and choose what parts of marriage you want to keep traditional and which ones you want to omit.

So you want the ring, big wedding, honeymoon, 2.4 children, picket fence house... but changing your name is :usure:?

Woman... if you don’t get the entire fukk out of here with that shyt. Either you’re Mrs ThrobbingHood or you can kick rocks and find some simp who’ll bow to that shyt.
 

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Got there before me. Portuguese and Spanish families do that with their children.

But I’m neither. Taking my last name is non-negotiable. I don’t get how as a woman, you want to pick and choose what parts of marriage you want to keep traditional and which ones you want to omit.

So you want the ring, big wedding, honeymoon, 2.4 children, picket fence house... but changing your name is :usure:?

Woman... if you don’t get the entire fukk out of here with that shyt. Either you’re Mrs ThrobbingHood or you can kick rocks and find some simp who’ll bow to that shyt.
Lol i hear ya.

Ive heard many professionals in medical field /law dont change their name because their practice is linked to their name.
 

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Lol i hear ya.

Ive heard many professionals in medical field /law dont change their name because their practice is linked to their name.
Bottom line, it’s a power move. Passive aggressive shyt that women will do, seeing how far they can take liberties with their “man.”

Do you think a young doctor, lawyer etc would have a problem taking the last name of Barrack Obama? Oh look, Michelle was a young professional yet she had no problem doing so because she knew she was marrying a great man.

It’s simple to me. Either a woman wants your last name because she respects you or she doesn’t. There are no two ways about it.

If Michael B Jordan proposed to a young doctor/lawyer today, she’d be rushing to the registry office crossing off her maiden name with the quickness.

No man should ever believe otherwise.
 

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such a sexist ass comment:what:

Some women dont want to go through all of the hassle it takes to change their name on all of their documentation. I have a cousin that is hyphenated and she has her own business... it works for her and her hubby. :manny:

SHE DEFINITELY PEGS HIM ON THE LOW
 

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It's supposed to be optional and can go both ways but some people can be more flexible or stringent when it comes to continuing the traditions/practices. But it's still common there.

Edit: As a matter of fact, there was a 3rd that i used to work with. His name was Collin someting. All the sudden one day i noticed his name in his emails changed at work. That's when he explained he got married to a Brazilian woman and this happened in the United States.
Apparently his wife and her family werent the "flexible" types. Look him up on Linked. He's the director of Engineering at Dell. Think his original last name was Gauchin or something. Now it's "LeGault"

Come on bro....these dudes clearly put more value on their ladies vs themselves, I wouldn't say this is common there.

Everybody I know there has one last name. Their Maiden/mom's family name becomes their middle name.
 

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I don’t see shyt wrong with it, especially in certain circumstances. My moms hyphenated her last name. She always said she married my father the singular person, and not his family. She never really liked them and vice versa. She was an only child, my pops has 15 siblings. She was from a hard working low key middle class family, my pops dad was a numbers runner who stayed in the streets, which is why he had so many fukking kids. They never got along, and she didn’t give a fukk either. I also never once questioned why she did her name like that, because I saw how some of them treated her. I saw how they threw shade just because she wasn’t like them, and moms was from the same hood, so it wasn’t like she was stuck up, she just didn’t grow up in that type of household. And they still kinda gave her a hard time. Some even threw shade on her after she passed, same clown muthafukkas who calling me and asking for money a few months later like it’s not basically her money they asking for. I’m not mad at all at her for what she did, I ain’t trying to associate with folks like that either. Blood or not. So I’m not mad at a woman who does that if she marrying into some madness
 

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Yall should see Latino people namea then.

They be having 2 middle names and two last names. No way you can forget what part of tje family tree they dervive from
Maaaan that stuff is a nightmare working in records cause somebody always puts a middle name in the last name column or only puts the first last name.

I be sitting there looking like a straight up idiot looking for Ernando Esteban Cabellos Vargas and some white dude done put him in the system as Esteban Cabellos
 

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Maaaan that stuff is a nightmare working in records cause somebody always puts a middle name in the last name column or only puts the first last name.

I be sitting there looking like a straight up idiot looking for Ernando Esteban Cabellos Vargas and some white dude done put him in the system as Esteban Cabellos
Dios te bendiga
 
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