Women reject 95% of potential partners on dating apps

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When I was on dating apps years ago, 99% of the matches tried to escalate to sex after damn near 4 text exchanges.:francis: I never tried online dating again. It’s awful. Any guy I had a serious relationship with I met him in person.

They would even get mad if you weren’t down because they would say sites like those are hookup sites.

I would even have it in my profile- don’t do random hookups.

You have NO clue. I’m not even exaggerating.

A man wanting sex right away doesn’t mean he not down for a relationship tho. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was with a woman I smashed less than a week after meeting. I’ve known dudes who married women they smashed right away, sometimes first night.

Most dudes want sex right away, you even said yourself 99% of them wanted to smash right away, including some of if not all of the ones you found attractive. The ones you found most attractive would’ve been a lot more likely to keep it moving after smashing than the ones with less options.

A man not trying to escalate it to sex right away doesn’t mean he wants to wife you up. It usually means he isn’t that attracted to you, shy, scared to run you off, or is already busy smashing whoever he already been smashing so he has no problem playing the long game with you. :francis:
 
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A man wanting sex right away doesn’t mean he not down for a relationship tho. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was with a woman I smashed less than a week after meeting. I’ve known dudes who married women they smashed right away, sometimes first night.

Most dudes want sex right away, you even said yourself 99% of them wanted to smash right away, including some of not all of the ones you found attractive. The ones you found most attractive would’ve been a lot more likely to keep it moving after smashing than the ones with less options.

A man not trying to escalate it to sex right away doesn’t mean he wants to wife you up. It usually means he isn’t that attracted to you, shy, scared to run you off, or is already busy smashing whoever he already been smashing so he has no problem playing the long game with you. :francis:
But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.

Would you give a chance at getting into a relationship immediately on her timetable to a chick who demanded a wedding ring from you off grip that you weren’t even attracted to?:dwillhuh:

Especially if she kept escalating straight to marriage or finances? The rest of what you saying was irrelevant because nothing is going to progress without a mutual baseline of attraction and being on the same page.
 

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A man wanting sex right away doesn’t mean he not down for a relationship tho. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was with a woman I smashed less than a week after meeting. I’ve known dudes who married women they smashed right away, sometimes first night.

Most dudes want sex right away, you even said yourself 99% of them wanted to smash right away, including some of not all if the ones you found attractive. The ones you found most attractive would’ve been a lot more likely to keep it moving after smashing than the ones with less options.

A man not trying to escalate it to sex right away doesn’t mean he wants to wife you up. It usually means he isn’t that attracted to you, shy, scared to run you off, or is already busy smashing whoever he already been smashing so he has no problem playing the long game with you. :francis:

This is the one variable you can't recreate online though, and it's the one that matters which is why the numbers are so skewed.

Why would a woman, who innately can accomplish the same thing in person with the added benefit of seeing the person, be even easier to date online when they have a damn buffet to choose from? The only woman that happen for are the undesireables, and nobody would want them anyway :mjlol:

It really doesn't make sense to a woman's nature, it does for men because sex is more transactional, but for women...nah, it's always been a fantasy.
 

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For casual sex? No, most men are not worth it at all. The attractive nature of most men is how they take care of business, their logic, their ability to lead. But these things take more than just a 3sec glance on a dating app to see.

That’s why the average man should be looking for a mate and not a harem.
The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentment:francis:
 

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The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentment:francis:

Yup. Men and women start on completely different spectrums. Women’s best years are when they’re younger (16 - 30) while men’s best years are when they’re older (30 & up) But there are exceptions for some men & some women.
 

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I’m surprised it’s that high. A good looking woman could easily have thousands of matches.

5% is a lot of conversating
 

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The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentment:francis:

I mean women wait decades for marriage and commitment and many never get it. But you don’t see them shooting up a school like an incel. Those feelings of resentment come from entitlement.

So the better question here is why do men feel they are entitled to sex? Across nature, it’s typically only the alpha that gets to breed. Other males are regulated to worker status and they get no buns. In fact, they gotta fight the alpha to even try and get a wiff of the p*ssy.

Why do human males feel there should be some type of p*ssy socialism, and every dikk is entitled to get wet?
 

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Imagine being upset at this :mjlol:

If you aint getting sex on dating apps then get off dating apps.


"How dare these women reject me" :damn:


Some of us wont make it brehs... social media has defeated ya'll. Depressing shyt:snoop:
 

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But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.

Would you give a chance at getting into a relationship immediately on her timetable to a chick who demanded a wedding ring from you off grip that you weren’t even attracted to?:dwillhuh:

Especially if she kept escalating straight to marriage or finances? The rest of what you saying was irrelevant because nothing is going to progress without a mutual baseline of attraction and being on the same page.

How did it not make sense? :dwillhuh:

You implied a man who wants sex right away isn’t looking for something serious and I told you how wrong that is. Just because a man wants sex right away doesn’t mean that’s all he wants.

How was it irrelevant? Do you not agree that a man with more options would be more likely to keep it moving after sex than one with less? :jbhmm:

And if a woman was demanding marriage right away it wouldn’t matter how attractive she is, she’d still get the :camby:

How was that even an intelligent question? :gucci:
 

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It is not surprising. What is surprising to me is how those applications bleed the pockets of men when they should be acting in a way that makes the application more balanced (put the picky and inactive to the bottom of the pile, limit the number of matches you can have at any point in time to 10 etc).
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But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.

Would you give a chance at getting into a relationship immediately on her timetable to a chick who demanded a wedding ring from you off grip that you weren’t even attracted to?:dwillhuh:

Especially if she kept escalating straight to marriage or finances? The rest of what you saying was irrelevant because nothing is going to progress without a mutual baseline of attraction and being on the same page.

Firstly, Kevin Samuels said it best... Stop entertaining men you're not attracted to or wouldn't want to have sex with. A lot of guys are tired having to perform like clowns to build up a woman's pretend attraction to them, so they're skipping straight to the point. As much as you think it's a disqualifier, they're qualifying you as well. (And, I'm not making a value judgment on their or your decision.)

Secondly, the majority the time when I have this conversation with women and then am shown examples of "OMG escalating to sex," it's nearly usually a situation where dude is just awkward af and trying to be funny and stoke a flame. Having been down the opposite road thousands of times, he already knows if he doesn't quickly spark your interest sexually, you're going to say, "iS iT cOoL iF wE jUSt StAy FrIenDs?" (I know, I know... You're different) When it's not that, it's almost always some dork saying something outrageous to get a reaction... like how a television show or movies uses shock porn to get people talking about it.

The dudes most likely to wanna get in your pants and then block your number are ALWAYS the smooth ones who keep the sexual jokes innocuous, ma'am. That's the wildest thing that y'all don't understand.
 
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