It is a mystery
Tory Lanez Stan
@It is a mysteryhow did dude come up with those numbers?
@It is a mysteryhow did dude come up with those numbers?
Bolded is aggressively wrong.
When I was on dating apps years ago, 99% of the matches tried to escalate to sex after damn near 4 text exchanges. I never tried online dating again. It’s awful. Any guy I had a serious relationship with I met him in person.
They would even get mad if you weren’t down because they would say sites like those are hookup sites.
I would even have it in my profile- don’t do random hookups.
You have NO clue. I’m not even exaggerating.
But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.A man wanting sex right away doesn’t mean he not down for a relationship tho. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was with a woman I smashed less than a week after meeting. I’ve known dudes who married women they smashed right away, sometimes first night.
Most dudes want sex right away, you even said yourself 99% of them wanted to smash right away, including some of not all of the ones you found attractive. The ones you found most attractive would’ve been a lot more likely to keep it moving after smashing than the ones with less options.
A man not trying to escalate it to sex right away doesn’t mean he wants to wife you up. It usually means he isn’t that attracted to you, shy, scared to run you off, or is already busy smashing whoever he already been smashing so he has no problem playing the long game with you.
A man wanting sex right away doesn’t mean he not down for a relationship tho. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was with a woman I smashed less than a week after meeting. I’ve known dudes who married women they smashed right away, sometimes first night.
Most dudes want sex right away, you even said yourself 99% of them wanted to smash right away, including some of not all if the ones you found attractive. The ones you found most attractive would’ve been a lot more likely to keep it moving after smashing than the ones with less options.
A man not trying to escalate it to sex right away doesn’t mean he wants to wife you up. It usually means he isn’t that attracted to you, shy, scared to run you off, or is already busy smashing whoever he already been smashing so he has no problem playing the long game with you.
The app collects the statsThere’s literally no source on this.
The dude could have made this chart himself in photoshop
The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentmentFor casual sex? No, most men are not worth it at all. The attractive nature of most men is how they take care of business, their logic, their ability to lead. But these things take more than just a 3sec glance on a dating app to see.
That’s why the average man should be looking for a mate and not a harem.
The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentment
The difference between avg men and women is the avg women can go on these apps and smash dozens of good looking dudes whenever she wants. You cant expect guys to be happy waiting a decade or more to find the right woman while their female counterparts are racking up their body count enjoying all the sex. I dont know what to do about it but that disparity breeds all the incel resentment
But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.
Would you give a chance at getting into a relationship immediately on her timetable to a chick who demanded a wedding ring from you off grip that you weren’t even attracted to?
Especially if she kept escalating straight to marriage or finances? The rest of what you saying was irrelevant because nothing is going to progress without a mutual baseline of attraction and being on the same page.
a fool and his money will soon partIt is not surprising. What is surprising to me is how those applications bleed the pockets of men when they should be acting in a way that makes the application more balanced (put the picky and inactive to the bottom of the pile, limit the number of matches you can have at any point in time to 10 etc).
But you not making sense. If a man you not attracted to wants to smash immediately and coming off aggressively that’s an instant swipe left.
Would you give a chance at getting into a relationship immediately on her timetable to a chick who demanded a wedding ring from you off grip that you weren’t even attracted to?
Especially if she kept escalating straight to marriage or finances? The rest of what you saying was irrelevant because nothing is going to progress without a mutual baseline of attraction and being on the same page.