This. I don’t get how people tell women to vet carefully. Don’t Fukk everything. Don’t. Dont. Don’t when it comes to sex. Literally hold body count over their heads as leverage for future romantic partnerships...and then in the same breath are resentful if women are picky.
Why on earth should a woman go through everything she gotta go through to prepare for sex that she might be shamed for and risk her life and health for...for a gaggle of dudes she not even attracted to with a high likelihood of her not even potentially enjoying the sexual encounter?
Women ain’t hard to understand.
That's fair.
A lotta women know that if they are going to be called a slut, they might as well have sex with an attractive guy since they have options. They won't increase their body count for just any average dude.
But let's be real... this is just online though... they don't always have these standards in real life
Anyway... we have enough data to know this is happening... so guys I guess gotta do something about it. (I'm not a fan of telling women to change their preferences because it's corny and lame, and hey, I don't wanna change my preferences for women.)
Enough complaining, we've confirmed that on a visual level, being "an average guy" isn't as attractive to the average woman as being an average woman is attractive to the average guy in an online setting (where personality can't shine). Man's attractiveness is usually defined by exceptionality. Have above average confidence, assertiveness, muscle, height, income, etc. Be a man.
@Booksnrain
That's the whole reason we "be a man" even exists. Because if you're not, your basically worthless and disposable
That's the sad truth. That's also probably the root reason for misogyny if you think about. Anxiety over the fact that we don't have any inherent value, and thus epigenetic hatred/jealousy over women that are able to match us in areas where we have to be exceptional in order to standout (being highly educated/smart, being strong, having high income, etc.).