Woman Says She Makes Good Men Wait to Have Sex with Her While She Does It with “Wack” Men

[The ADD]

I'm not sure. Never really asked. I figured she did. But I assume all women have a roster until their exclusive. Even then they might have an orbiter or two in the tuck. But she used to call me after going out on dates and I'd smash. I used to wonder why she didn't let dude hit after he spent his money to get to know her. But again when they're comfortable they don't wanna add all them extra bodies unless she's really sure.

What’s her IG?

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

Entanglements.

 

[lib123]

I'm not sure. Never really asked. I figured she did. But I assume all women have a roster until their exclusive. Even then they might have an orbiter or two in the tuck. But she used to call me after going out on dates and I'd smash. I used to wonder why she didn't let dude hit after he spent his money to get to know her. But again when they're comfortable they don't wanna add all them extra bodies unless she's really sure.

I’ve noticed more young brehs such as myself are hip to women hooking up with dudes after dates, hence why we’re not taking them out as much lol, unless they seem really into us. Do you think more young brehs including squares being hip will hurt women in the long term as far as getting stable long term relationships?

 

[Scaaar]

I’ve noticed more young brehs such as myself are hip to women hooking up with dudes after dates, hence why we’re not taking them out as much lol, unless they seem really into us. Do you think more young brehs including squares being hip will hurt women in the long term as far as getting stable long term relationships?

I don't that much change will happen. Men are just adjusting to the climate. But there are always a dude thirsty enough to bend so women will always have a leg up. Just don't be the thirsty guy. That's the no man zone lol. If there is a woman you're truly interested in or trying to get a good read on take her out. It doesn't have to be expensive but just do something you want to do and just have her tag along. At the end of the date you should have an idea of y'all personal chemistry and you go from there. Once you get older the sex becomes not as important when you have things lined up in your life. Women start seeing a stable future and literally throw themselves at you to lock you down. It's all apart of the process. They mainly use sex as the tool to manipulate which in itself devalues the entire act.

 

[HabitualChiller]

Breh you spitting. When i was I younger I was smashing this little chick until one day she told me she was about to start dating this guy's she been talking to for a 3 weeks. I had no idea she was talking to dude. I asked her has she fukked him and she said no not yet. Now I been fukking, eating p*ssy, do all kinds of immoral shyt to her.

Right after that I fukked her one good time and the p*ssy dried up and my turn was over. So you speaking truth!

Bruh, if I found out that a woman was smashing someone while she made me wait, I'd be fukking livid.

"I took you to 3 upscale restaurants and you didn't even give me head, but you let Rocky with the taper fade and no car beat for free?!!!!"

Edit: There isn't even a plausible way that you can explain that. The "I wanted to get to know you" is nuts because you could literally do that immediately after sex.

 

[lib123]

I don't that much change will happen. Men are just adjusting to the climate. But there are always a dude thirsty enough to bend so women will always have a leg up. Just don't be the thirsty guy. That's the no man zone lol. If there is a woman you're truly interested in or trying to get a good read on take her out. It doesn't have to be expensive but just do something you want to do and just have her tag along. At the end of the date you should have an idea of y'all personal chemistry and you go from there. Once you get older the sex becomes not as important when you have things lined up in your life. Women start seeing a stable future and literally throw themselves at you to lock you down. It's all apart of the process. They mainly use sex as the tool to manipulate which in itself devalues the entire act.

Yeah there will always be thirsty dudes but most so called 'good guys' that women like OP try to settle with aren't necessarily thirsty, they're just unaware. Suddenly with these podcasts, YouTube and social media they're aware and adjusting, reducing the pool of quality men available to certain women.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

-The thought process is simple: A woman cares about the opinion a man she respects has of her so she'd never let herself appear like a hoe. She fukks the dude she can disregard if he thinks she's a hoe because she doesn't respect him anyway.

-It's not that they do it immediately, it's that this way they get dikk without worrying about their image. No damn way they want the man they respect bushing them for being a hoe.

Makes sense 100%.

I think that kind of woman legitimately thinks she's handling the situation correctly. She's showing "respect" for the good man and giving the pwussy to the bum because IN HER MIND, casual pwussy doesn't mean anything.

Women don't see casual sex as valuable because they can get an abundance of D on demand....so in her mind, she's not really respecting the bum.

Woman = I don't want to smash the Respectable Breh because this good man might think I'm a heaux and leave

Man = But if you smash Respectable Breh and get knocked up, he'll take care of you and is more likely to stick around and be a good husband/father. Bum Breh is bouncing as soon as shyt gets serious. Why even take a chance with a bum?

Woman = because he's foine

Man = so he's fine enough to smash on the first date but I gotta wait 6 months?

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[Diondon]

My thoughts:
1. Yeah I've heard this before
2. Shorty is playing a risky game that may blow up in her face
3. Yeah you might have to wait but have limits and make sure she's worth waiting for
4. Network and do research on these broads. Don't be gullible.
5. Have options. She does.
6. Don't let these women have you like a clown, trust your instincts

 

[Buddy]

Damn she's gorgeous too smh

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Watch Casino to see a great example of this dynamicI observed in my early 20s that the guy saved as dikk appointment in a woman's phone gets more respect than the 'good man'. Zero incentive to be a good man, sucks for the community overall but female nature with complete freedom makes building community difficult, an uncomfortable truth.

Why would a woman respect a man who can't satisfy her sexual urges?

Would you stay with a good woman who was a prude?

 

[HabitualChiller]

she would go on all types of dates with different brehs and then come over after the date to get thrashed.

That's fukking bananas

 

[AllHolosEve]

Makes sense 100%.

I think that kind of woman legitimately thinks she's handling the situation correctly. She's showing "respect" for the good man and giving the pwussy to the bum because IN HER MIND, casual pwussy doesn't mean anything.
Women don't see casual sex as valuable because they can get an abundance of D on demand....so in her mind, she's not really respecting the bum.

-I've had a woman tell me she wanted to fukk but was scared. When I asked what she was scared of it was simple: "That you won't call me tomorrow". She didn't REALLY wanna make me wait but she was scared I'd think she was a whore if she moved to fast. Same mentality as woman in the OP.

-My relative wanted to fukk his girl & she wasn't leaving her friend hanging so they came to my house, the scenario was simple: She wasn't giving him no p*ssy unless her friend got some dikk. We'd never met before they showed up so there was no attraction, respect or future involved, I was just random dikk. Same mentality as woman in OP.

-A lot of women wanna fukk, they're just aware of the reputation that can come with it & that's what this mentality is based on. It's manipulating the perception of the dude they respect to keep themselves in his favor. When a woman wants to fukk early & goes out of her way to tell you "I don't usually do this" she's usually worried about you judging her. The other dude they couldn't care less about so why bother pretending?

 

[Hoodoo Child]

-I've had a woman tell me she wanted to fukk but was scared. When I asked what she was scared of it was simple: "That you won't call me tomorrow". She didn't REALLY wanna make me wait but she was scared I'd think she was a whore if she moved to fast. Same mentality as woman in the OP.

-My relative wanted to fukk his girl & she wasn't leaving her friend hanging so they came to my house, the scenario was simple: She wasn't giving him no p*ssy unless her friend got some dikk. We'd never met before they showed up so there was no attraction, respect or future involved, I was just random dikk. Same mentality as woman in OP.

-A lot of women wanna fukk, they're just aware of the reputation that can come with it & that's what this mentality is based on. It's manipulating the perception of the dude they respect to keep themselves in his favor. When a woman wants to fukk early & goes out of her way to tell you "I don't usually do this" she's usually worried about you judging her. The other dude they couldn't care less about so why bother pretending?

So theoretically, if society was to stop judging women and actually embraced their natural mating choices, do you believe more women would be inclined to sleep with the "Good Guy" (who they respect) on the 1st date, or sooner? Despite whether she's sexually attracted to him or not?

I'm skeptical, but I'm open to dialogue.

 

[RehReh]

I dunno iv fukked a dude on the first date

Granted we spoke for a while prior to our date.
I ended up dating him for 2 years.
So now I don't set rules just boundaries that apply to everyone