This is common knowledge. It’s all based on how they categorize the guy.
If she meets Deaunte and finds him sexually attractive, but doesn’t see a future with him, why wait? She doesn’t care what his perception is of her.
Now if she meets Dr. Jones, a guy that she takes seriously, then yeah she plays the game differently. She wants him to take her seriously.
Now that whole scenario completely turns guys off. If Dr. Jones finds out from his circle that this nygga Deaunte that works at Oncue and got 3 babymommas smashed within a few hours of knowing her, Dr. Jones is gonna be like