Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.
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I like you as a poster. I really do. But I need you to read your own post.You’re right.
Which is why I was saying earlier in this thread how this stuff happens because young ppl are thrown into the world with no understanding.
The truth is, no one should be listening to Kevin Samuels or SheRa for serious life advice.
This girl listened to some surface level stuff and took it as gospel. She didn’t have a good foundation.
To keep it, it looks absolutely INSANE to be an adult blaming your results in life on relationship advice you got on YouTube. That’s the real
There is no place on this planet where a room full of adults would listen to someone say that with a straight face.
And I’m one of the main ones in here trying to explain how girls end up here.
This isn’t because of internet gurus; this is because she came from a damaged background.
Men like him have existed forever, and they always will. It’s about mitigating the chances of this happening. We talk about it on this very site; a lot of older men chance chicks 20+ yrs younger than them because they are naive and easier to control. Not just because they’re hotter.
Remember that thread a little while ago where brehs were saying a woman was damaged because she didn’t let her hubby change diapers, and I said I agreed. Nikkas said I was crazy too, and that STEPfathers potentially r*pe kids, not biological fathers.
I stood my MF ground in that MF thread because of stories LIKE THIS.
BECAUSE SOME BIOLOGICAL FATHERS DO, IN FACT MOLEST THEIR KIDS. As a woman, it’s my job to be on guard 24/7 because you never fukking know.
I may have a blindspot when it comes to myself, but it’s my job to always be a little suspicious when it comes to kids because YOU NEVER KNOW.
If you honestly feel like men specifically fathers, biological or otherwise can not be trusted to change a diaper when why do you advocate for them to be around period?
How does it make sense to want them as boyfriends, husband or sons if you KNOW their nature is predatory? If you know you are not safe around them?
You're talking about foundation but what foundation are you talking about? Trying to find the special predator? The least deadly predator?
The reward is so little and risk is so great. I genuinely do not understand the logic. Why is the advice not avoid they risky and dangerous relationships all together?
And this is NOT an age problem. These behaviors of women are cultural and span every age groups. Some of the women I know who make the worst relationship decisions are old as fukk.
I just don't understand how in one breath you can say don't let a man change a diaper because he might touch the child but then act like there is some secret formula of advice to safely be around such person.
You can't beat the system. Even if you find a guy that you can be trusted with the diaper situation there are a million other things that can go wrong. He could be a liar, a cheater, down low, broke, lazy, dirt, cross eyed or you just not like him.
Its just so obvious that the way we currently do romantic relationships is not beneficial to anyone involved. When are we going to stop pretending like there is some magical formula that can be broadly applied that fixes this illogical, irrational system.
The whole system needs to thrown out and we need to see what is actually most beneficial to children, women and men not some storybook fairytale that sounds good to women who want to live in Lalaland.
PS And this doesn't even included how absolutely fukked up women can be as well. Both sexes have the potential to be equally fukk up individuals and partners.
DJ Paul's Arm
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That chick was super damaged. As soon as someone reveal they got trauma like that, I'm out.
She definitely was seeking another damaged person subconsciously.
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She mentally ill to be making all them dumb ass videos giving advice and shyt.
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Dating single mothers is wild:
I done been in a lot of situations where they try to force me to meet their kids all early and shyt
Then get mad cause I say no.
I had a chick I went on 2 dates with be on the phone with me and lil son was in the background asking her if she was talking to me. He said my name too.
shyt pissed me off that she told her son about me like that.
Can’t fukk with single moms. They’re not looking for companionship, they’re looking to be rescued.
This is facts but she is more than likely a scammer herself who got scammed by a more experienced ruthless scammer…Basically big dog eats little dog...Whatever the case their is more to this story than she is giving off for sure and those kids unfortunately are the victims regardless smh…
I like you too.
Here’s the thing- while I know girls who this has happened to, I, and others I know, was fully protected and shielded and never had anything untoward happen at the hands of my male relatives. Because they are normal, healthy men. And there are more out there.
Yes, you have to vet. Yes, you have to be very particular and choosy, but they are out there.
We have some stellar Gen Z kids in my family because of their awesome Gen X dads, who were raised by awesome Boomers in my family.
The truth is, yes, there are definitely bad ppl in the world who can hide in plain sight.
The other truth is that, unfortunately, people who are not emotionally healthy or are too naive can’t pick up on some weird behaviors or patterns.
You have women who ignore obvious shyt because a man has money, just like everyone in the room can tell when a man’s woman is only with him for the money, but he can’t see it because he’s blinded by her good looks and fake personality.
A man’s blindspot can get him fleeced by a woman (or k!led as a passport bro in Colombia). A woman’s blindspot can get her r@ped.
That is why we have to be more cautious than men.
All men aren’t rapists, but you better assume any new man you meet is capable of raping you, until you’ve taken the time to test him and feel him out.
You don’t give strange men the benefit of the doubt.
This story could happen with anyone, yes. But no one is surprised that it happened with a man who offered his home to a woman and her two kids after one week of dating.
AquaCityBoy
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Men.
These chicks are so damn green for a nikka with some money to “provide” a lifestyle for them that they bypass common sense and glaring red flags.
The term provider has been hijacked and turned into a man being a sucker and a trick who fronts the bill for everything
Black women seem especially susceptible to this hypergamy, level up, soft life/finesse propaganda bullshyt because they consume too much media
The more I look into this is this even real?
Every chick I know whose married will post photos of their wedding, you can't even find one photo of her weddingn just some looking like Photoshop in a wedding dress . All she mentioned was that she was a trophy wife but no photos, no mention of his name , the stories don't even add up. One minute shes 24 with two kids making 94,000 a year with her own place and the next story she was broke and had no where to stay so she moved in with a 20 year older nukka
Where's the police report, what's this nukka name?
Every chick I know whose married will post photos of their wedding, you can't even find one photo of her weddingn just some looking like Photoshop in a wedding dress . All she mentioned was that she was a trophy wife but no photos, no mention of his name , the stories don't even add up. One minute shes 24 with two kids making 94,000 a year with her own place and the next story she was broke and had no where to stay so she moved in with a 20 year older nukka
Where's the police report, what's this nukka name?
Black boys are sexually abused and assaulted by Black women, you fukking fakkit scum.
You don't care about Black children, you care about spreading propaganda.
Ion like the amount of passive aggressiveness in title and on the first page alone. Yall nggas p*ssy. Every situation isn’t fodder for some gender war bullshyt. The minute you saw what he did all that single mom “HVM” debate shyt shouldnt even cross your mind.
correct women ain’t stupid they are down to crash for the nikkas they like.