Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.

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Is this woman telling stories like the Alabama sister who said she was kidnapped while walking on the highway or she telling the truth..

If this chick is lying she need to be arrested
I actually seen no paperwork on the man in question for this outlandishly fukked up story

Don’t put nothing past an attention whore
 
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And I’m saying attractiveness should be subjective. It is important but looks doesn’t always equal attractiveness.

As long as both people are mutually attracted, it doesn’t matter. The person has to be attractive to YOU. You shouldn’t have to struggle to be intimate with them. If you’re not excited to be with them, it’s not going to work long term. You may stay together, but being together doesn’t automatically equal happiness.
 

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I'm not going to go on about how she should have been more focused on the man's personality, history and values over his lifestyle, looks and funds
You won't but I will. I've been saying this shyt for THE LONGEST time and people get mad or try to ignore it, instead, focusing on how much the man is making. Look at any thread here and the very same people (not you), claiming that funds shouldn't be the only thing were the ones championing this way of thinking.

And all this talk in this thread from everyone of predators being able to hide themselves, oh there's nothing that can be done and all that, STOP IT. There's always tells. There's always inconsistencies. This is what one has to look for. And the problem is that we don't teach each other to look for these things and instead, lie to each other and make up shyt to fit some world view to comfort someone instead of telling them the truth. People can be tricked but at the same time, we can say that other people have failed that person.
 

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You won't but I will. I've been saying this shyt for THE LONGEST time and people get mad or try to ignore it, instead, focusing on how much the man is making. Look at any thread here and the very same people (not you), claiming that funds shouldn't be the only thing were the ones championing this way of thinking.

And all this talk in this thread from everyone of predators being able to hide themselves, oh there's nothing that can be done and all that, STOP IT. There's always tells. There's always inconsistencies. This is what one has to look for. And the problem is that we don't teach each other to look for these things and instead, lie to each other and make up shyt to fit some world view to comfort someone instead of telling them the truth. People can be tricked but at the same time, we can say that other people have failed that person.
Preach.
 

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Coli dads, this one is definitely the one for your daughters to watch.








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This is the result of women watching movies, and thinking real life works like this. This is also a result of women listening to the relationship influencers telling them some Prince Charming is going to come along, and rescue her. And of course, bad decisions. That’s not long enough to even have a man around your children, let alone live with him, and predators do go after single moms to have access to their children.
Yeah that "Sprinkle, Sprinkle" hoe is gonna get her wakeup call for setting so many women up for failure.
 

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I feel sorry for women nowadays. Gotta be careful when you got nikkas like @Uncouth Savage who is a sexual assault felon and is a dog fukker out here.
 

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That’s why you don’t rush into relationships babe.


You know how many preachers got kids in the church, sleeping with the deacons’ wives, molesting kids in the church (like the catholic priests) ?!

It doesn’t matter how someone behaves when you first meet them. You feel them out and take your time.

He was 20yrs older than her and she moved in with him within weeks.
Do normal men do shyt like that?

It breaks my heart because this is what happens when we don’t understand how dark the world can be.

You're making great points, but what about not being a single mother at all?

She had two kids, what happened? Why didn't that work out with the father? She doesn't deserve all the blame, but as an adult she is very accountable.

You also got to teach women to stop being money hungry
 

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Yeah that "Sprinkle, Sprinkle" hoe is gonna get her wakeup call for setting so many women up for failure.
It’s not about sprinkle sprinkle for real. This girl was chasing the bag with no discernment. The husband is 💯 % wrong, but she stayed in a situation that was already bad as hell before the kids arrived, and got married after 2 weeks? With kids? Sprinkle sprinkle aint about that :francis:
She teaches the same thing men say here- your youth is the time to find a provider🤷🏾‍♀️

Dudes flaming LisaRaye in that other thread for being older and expecting what younger women are “eligible” for 🤷🏾‍♀️

Granted, I don’t think chasing money is the best way to live, however she teaches way more than whatever surface level understanding this girl got from it.
 

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You're making great points, but what about not being a single mother at all?

She had two kids, what happened? Why didn't that work out with the father? She doesn't deserve all the blame, but as an adult she is very accountable.

You also got to teach women to stop being money hungry
Oh- your right!!

But that’s what I’m saying. She already had a track record of making bad decisions, so trying to blame this situation on “sprinkle sprinkle” or saying there were no signs is clearly false.

Chick makes clumsy moves and was blinded by the old man’s money. He’s a literal devil, but you get married after 2 weeks, he r@pes you repeatedly, and then you give him 3 kids?! Of course ppl are going to ask questions.
 

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@Gloxina

Add another bullet point on how so many women always give other women bad advice :francis:

If you go through that woman's channel she's spreading nothing but bad advice.
She was spreading bad advice while he was literally assaulting her!! Which makes this even crazier! Why continue making videos on YT about your husband and money finding a HVM?

This is why these conversations have to happen with family first. I had girls who tried to give advice when we were in HS, months later we’re in a group trying to tell her she’s getting r@ped by the guy she’s dating.
 
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