Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.

Bigwhite2498

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Funny how ya'll mad at her for wanting a provider but were kissing Kevin Samuels queen ass for saying the same shyt.

He even told women to ignore their children if they say they were touched because "kids lie."

What 2 or 3 years ago he was your God but when his stupid fukking advice is put into practice and doesn't work out everyone conveniently forgets where the term HVM even comes from.

What she is doing was pushed by him and was championed by many many Blk men & women. So called "Leaders." And many people in this thread were in the mix too. The long as KS thread has all the evidence.

A bunch of fukking idiots.

Smh let me get out this thread before I get my ass sent back to the bushes.
Exactly these mfs are walking contradictions they big up women getting into age gap relationships and with men with money now they trying to call her a dummy.
 

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Do you think wealthy black men who aren’t rappers or athletes are marrying women who don’t speak well? Most wealthy men are educated. Educated men want educated women, well spoken women to raise their children.

That language is code for "talk differently to white men" it always has been in these circles.

That's why ALL the 🛏️wenching "hypergamy", "level up", "get the bag chicks" make a point to say it.

But I can already see you're going to intentionally play dumb and argue in bad faith.

So go and play in another poster's alerts and mentions.
 

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Funny how ya'll mad at her for wanting a provider but were kissing Kevin Samuels queen ass for saying the same shyt.

He even told women to ignore their children if they say they were touched because "kids lie."

What 2 or 3 years ago he was your God but when his stupid fukking advice is put into practice and doesn't work out everyone conveniently forgets where the term HVM even comes from.

What she is doing was pushed by him and was championed by many many Blk men & women. So called "Leaders." And many people in this thread were in the mix too. The long as KS thread has all the evidence.

A bunch of fukking idiots.

Smh let me get out this thread before I get my ass sent back to the bushes.
You’re right.


Which is why I was saying earlier in this thread how this stuff happens because young ppl are thrown into the world with no understanding.



The truth is, no one should be listening to Kevin Samuels or SheRa for serious life advice.

This girl listened to some surface level stuff and took it as gospel. She didn’t have a good foundation.
To keep it 💯, it looks absolutely INSANE to be an adult blaming your results in life on relationship advice you got on YouTube. That’s the real :francis:

There is no place on this planet where a room full of adults would listen to someone say that with a straight face.

And I’m one of the main ones in here trying to explain how girls end up here.

This isn’t because of internet gurus; this is because she came from a damaged background.

Men like him have existed forever, and they always will. It’s about mitigating the chances of this happening. We talk about it on this very site; a lot of older men chance chicks 20+ yrs younger than them because they are naive and easier to control. Not just because they’re hotter.

Remember that thread a little while ago where brehs were saying a woman was damaged because she didn’t let her hubby change diapers, and I said I agreed. Nikkas said I was crazy too, and that STEPfathers potentially r*pe kids, not biological fathers.

I stood my MF ground in that MF thread because of stories LIKE THIS.

BECAUSE SOME BIOLOGICAL FATHERS DO, IN FACT MOLEST THEIR KIDS. As a woman, it’s my job to be on guard 24/7 because you never fukking know.

I may have a blindspot when it comes to myself, but it’s my job to always be a little suspicious when it comes to kids because YOU NEVER KNOW.
 

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Remember that thread a little while ago where brehs were saying a woman was damaged because she didn’t let her hubby change diapers, and I said I agreed. Nikkas said I was crazy too, and that STEPfathers potentially r*pe kids, not biological fathers.

I stood my MF ground in that MF thread because of stories LIKE THIS.
If a women ever told me I couldn't change my child or watched me change my own child's diapers I literally take the diaper full of shyt and hurl it in the bytch face:skip:

Yall way out of pocket with that shyt I wish a chic would.

If your suspicious that the MAN YOU LAID DOWN WITH AND PROCREATED WITH IS A PEDOPHILE your a fukking loser.
 

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You’re right.


Which is why I was saying earlier in this thread how this stuff happens because young ppl are thrown into the world with no understanding.



The truth is, no one should be listening to Kevin Samuels or SheRa for serious life advice.



Men like him have existed forever, and they always will. It’s about mitigating the chances of this happening. We talk about it on this very site; a lot of older men chance chicks 20+ yrs younger than them because they are naive and easier to control. Not just because they’re hotter.

Remember that thread a little while ago where brehs were saying a woman was damaged because she didn’t let her hubby change diapers, and I said I agreed. Nikkas said I was crazy too, and that STEPfathers potentially r*pe kids, not biological fathers.

I stood my MF ground in that MF thread because of stories LIKE THIS.

BECAUSE SOME BIOLOGICAL FATHERS DO, IN FACT MOLEST THEIR KIDS. As a woman, it’s my job to be on guard 24/7 because you never fukking know.

I may have a blindspot when it comes to myself, but it’s my job to always be a little suspicious when it comes to kids because YOU NEVER KNOW.
Exactly these mfs are walking contradictions they big up women getting into age gap relationships and with men with money now they trying to call her a dummy.
:sas2:
Just because they advocate for young women to do something doesn’t mean it’s in the best interest of those young women.
Many of them are leading lambs to the slaughter.

Just because some older men say a 20YO woman should do something doesn’t mean all these men have good intentions for her.


:francis::francis:
Check the posting style of the men you’re talking about and see if they sound like men who care and have genuine concern for those young women, or if they just want to sleep with those girls.
:jbhmm:🤷🏾‍♀️
 

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If a women ever told me I couldn't change my child or watched me change my own child's diapers I literally take the diaper full of shyt and hurl it in the bytch face:skip:

Yall way out of pocket with that shyt I wish a chic would.

If your suspicious that the MAN YOU LAID DOWN WITH AND PROCREATED WITH IS A PEDOPHILE your a fukking loser.
THE POINT IS—


Some women have blind spots because of their own trauma.



This chick’s husband was r@ping her, but she didn’t think he would r@pe the kids.


Well look at that? If she had followed my playbook her toddlers might not have to walk through life being victims of their own dad.


That’s what y’all miss: it’s too late for adult victims. Because of their own naïveté and trauma they might not be the best pickers when it comes to men, but the one thing they can do is keep a watchful eye over their kids and not jump into situations eyes wide shut.

Trust but verify. 🤷🏾‍♀️
 

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Just because they advocate for young women to do something doesn’t mean it’s in the best interest of those young women.
Many of them are leading lambs to the slaughter.

Just because some older men say a 20YO woman should do something doesn’t mean all these men have good intentions for her.


:francis::francis:
Check the posting style of the men you’re talking about and see if they sound like men who care and have genuine concern for those young women, or if they just want to sleep with those girls.
:jbhmm:🤷🏾‍♀️
I agree 100% I’ve been saying it this whole thread this is what happens when you have huge ass age gaps those men who want that are predators. These are 35+ year old men who say they want 18-19 year olds like that shyt is sick af.
 

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She said she was a product of r*ape herself 😔

And that he r*ped her multiple times at the beginning of their marriage.


Married moved in with him a week or so after they started dating. And she already had 2 kids.

Silly broads in the comment section say ppl are victim blaming, but this chick was beyond ditzy.


For the record: this is what it looks like when girls have NO GUIDANCE. They fall for whatever looks, sounds and feels good on the surface. The fact that this happened after being a babymomma 2x shows this girl didn’t think. AT ALL.


I cannot imagine what those children went through. Just disgusting.

Also another example of a woman falling in love with a lifestyle, not a man. You move in after two weeks it tells me you’re desperate and want to be saved above all things. I’m sure he had a nice house, nice neighborhood etc. But that can’t be more important than determining whether it’s safe to bring your kids around him…
 
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If a women ever told me I couldn't change my child or watched me change my own child's diapers I literally take the diaper full of shyt and hurl it in the bytch face:skip:

Yall way out of pocket with that shyt I wish a chic would.

If your suspicious that the MAN YOU LAID DOWN WITH AND PROCREATED WITH IS A PEDOPHILE your a fukking loser.
Same women that will turn red in the face if they hear a man say, "I ain't doing any of that sh*t, that's a woman's job, change all the diapers, feed the kids, cook, clean, f*ck all that, I'm getting back on the couch and put my feet up, Knicks up by 15 going into the 4th" :myman:

"I get no help from my baby daddy!" :damn:

But when a man pulls up to change his child's diaper he gets hit with that nonsense.

Women: I don't want you changing our daughter's diapers because I'm suspicious of you :sadcam:

Same woman: But I will lay down with you, take your seed, and have this baby :umad:
 
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