Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.

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This idea that we can all spot a predator is wild. Ya'll don't have the formal. Many of ya'll are friends and family with predators and don't even know it...or predators your damn self.

Let's not pretend like someone whose whole identity is about deception is going to have it written on their forehead

I know of men who lived in the house with children for a decade before they started molesting them.

The only way to keep your children safe is not to take the chance in the first place.



She has 5 kids. Unfortunately not an option.
While this is all facts to some degree, the hoe is mad retarded.

Who marries a nıgga within 1 week of meeting them? She needs to be locked up and have her kids taken away and given to better parents for putting them in that goofass scenario if we're being brutally honest. The PDF file needs capital punishment.
 

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All those things do matter in dating. As far as looks, you have to be naturally attracted to someone to be physically intimate with them. Being nice doesn’t make someone want to sleep with you, let alone wake up to you every day for the rest of their lives. Relationships have ups and downs. Regardless of your personality, there are going to be disagreements. Without that base of physical attraction, you will want to leave every time you don’t get your way.

And being financially unstable is a red flag as well. And not putting effort into improving your looks or finances shows you don’t have high ambitions. Looks matter. You can be smart, capable, talented, etc, but the person who has those same attributes, but looks better is going to win before you win. Being well put together, wearing clean stylish clothes, keeping up with your haircuts, nice cologne, clear skin, straight white teeth, all important. Do you approach women you don’t find attractive, and think, “She looks like a nice person, I’ll grow to be attracted to her” ?? I never feel empathy for ugly gang, because they never approach ugly gang, then call women superficial for caring about looks.

The problem is there is a new wave of black women promoting this unrealistic lifestyle of a man taking them on yachts, buying Chanel bags every month, and living in mansions while they don’t work. They see a few videos of women showing off that lifestyle, and it becomes their standard. This woman mentioned the started listening to Shera “Sprinkle sprinkle”. That woman is very upfront about men being solely for financial gain. She doesn’t invest any feelings, and teaches women to get as much money from a man as possible, and tells them not to care about his appearance.

You need a balance of realistic physical attraction according to what you look like, and shared values. It’s not easy to meet someone like that. It’s simple to say there are many people who would be good for you, but if that natural chemistry isn’t there on both sides, it’s not happening. And rich, handsome, marriage minded black men are usually married by 35. So there aren’t a lot to go around.
No, you don’t

You have to be attracted, yes. But whats attractive to you and not everyone else. Most people (women specifically) are attracted to what they think everyone else is attracted to

What you’re defending is shallow shyt.. no wonder most people are in the situation they are in.

“He’s tall and handsome…” meanwhile, he’s also a unhygienic alcoholic with other kids he doesn’t take care of, makes money by doing gang shyt so probably is fast money with anything with credit not in his name, hits on his life, womanizer, etc…

But he’s tall and handsome. Again, shallow shyt does not determine someones value. Once yall nikkas realize that better off all yall would be
 

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Any black woman online spewing "hypergamy", "level up" "become a trophy wife" "get the bag" rhetoric has entertained and opened her legs for white men.

This chick made a video telling women you have to "speak well" to rich men which is code for "You need to change the way you speak to white men" and mentioned "broke dusties" and you don't think she's a wench? :mjlol:
Those are red flags period. Wenching or not
 
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No, you don’t

You have to be attracted, yes. But whats attractive to you and not everyone else. Most people (women specifically) are attracted to what they think everyone else is attracted to

What you’re defending is shallow shyt.. no wonder most people are in the situation they are in.

“He’s tall and handsome…” meanwhile, he’s also a unhygienic alcoholic with other kids he doesn’t take care of, makes money by doing gang shyt so probably is fast money with anything with credit not in his name, hits on his life, womanizer, etc…

But he’s tall and handsome. Again, shallow shyt does not determine someones value. Once yall nikkas realize that better off all yall would be
I’m not saying to only care about appearance, I’m saying appearance is one of the factors. He or she’s could have all the other good qualities, but if they don’t look good, most attractive people aren’t giving them a chance. But being attractive isn’t enough for either gender. How many men have had their lives ruined for a beautiful woman? Where were the red flags? Sometimes, they don’t come out until marriage.

Again, I’ll ask, how often are men approaching women we aren’t physically attracted to, or forcing ourselves to give unattractive women a chance because we think they may have good qualities? Plenty of women date unattractive men, thinking he’s going to be a good one, and he still plays them. So why give the ugly guy a chance to play you?
 

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Weird cuz in a previous video she was going on how she was making 94k a year at the age of 24 and that she had it all a place , car, great job and it was only one christmas she decided she wanted a husband and her sister who told her to sign up to e harmony bla bla

something aint adding up

another thing if someone did all this why not post his picture, is he in jail? Is there a ongoing court case? like what the hell is going on

ah well got a million views for part 1, part 2 is next and the gofundme is open will prob get 15-20k off this

The more I look into this is this even real?

Every chick I know whose married will post photos of their wedding, you can't even find one photo of her weddingn just some looking like Photoshop in a wedding dress . All she mentioned was that she was a trophy wife but no photos, no mention of his name , the stories don't even add up. One minute shes 24 with two kids making 94,000 a year with her own place and the next story she was broke and had no where to stay so she moved in with a 20 year older nukka

Where's the police report, what's this nukka name?
:jbhmm:
 

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Again Coli dads, and really all Coli brehs if you want to see what real advice looks like for women, this lady is it for me.

She basically called out the BS and the changes in her story. Just listen to the whole thing on 1.25 or 1.5.
 

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I don’t know if this has been mentioned, I think part of the problem is when we first meet someone you’re not meeting them. Dating in America has become you meeting who you is think is your ideal an unpeeling layers. You just going through layers trying to figure out who this person is. So by the time you got years in that person may or may not be who you think are. Everyone project’s themselves as ideal during the initial phase. I’m not saying you should put everything out there when you first meet someone but if people were more fourth coming…..
 

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Take your time vet a person especially if you have kids.
Dont be too quick to have people around your kids or where you live.

I also think social media plays a major part in things. A lot of people watch other couples on social media they think their relationship is perfect it’s not. Women settle just to have someone. Society makes you feel a central if you’re alone reality is being alone isn’t always a bad thing.
 

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I think a lot of the traits women look for/prefer in men also tend to be associated with predators (hear me out) :hubie:


Which is how I think situations like this happen more often than folks wanna admit. It’s hard to distinguish a genuine confident and self assured man with a backbone from a predator who is good at hiding his true intentions but shows you enough for you to like him
 

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This idea that we can all spot a predator is wild. Ya'll don't have the formal. Many of ya'll are friends and family with predators and don't even know it...or predators your damn self.

Let's not pretend like someone whose whole identity is about deception is going to have it written on their forehead

I know of men who lived in the house with children for a decade before they started molesting them.

The only way to keep your children safe is not to take the chance in the first place.



She has 5 kids. Unfortunately not an option.
The way you always post, all angry and making the most ridiculous absolute statements, you might be a predator yourself. :jbhmm:


Victims of sexual assault are far more likely than ANYONE else to become perpetrators of sexual assault themselves.

You post like you have issues with men and women and you hate your family. You definitely stay telling on yourself on here. :jbhmm:
 

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I’m not saying to only care about appearance, I’m saying appearance is one of the factors. He or she’s could have all the other good qualities, but if they don’t look good, most attractive people aren’t giving them a chance. But being attractive isn’t enough for either gender. How many men have had their lives ruined for a beautiful woman? Where were the red flags? Sometimes, they don’t come out until marriage.

Again, I’ll ask, how often are men approaching women we aren’t physically attracted to, or forcing ourselves to give unattractive women a chance because we think they may have good qualities? Plenty of women date unattractive men, thinking he’s going to be a good one, and he still plays them. So why give the ugly guy a chance to play you?
And I’m saying attractiveness should be subjective. It is important but looks doesn’t always equal attractiveness.
 

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So

Is this woman telling stories like the Alabama sister who said she was kidnapped while walking on the highway or she telling the truth..

If this chick is lying she need to be arrested
 
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