Winter is Coming

[Blackout]

I am not going to cover crap with perfume. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it's a duck. yall are so quick to want to give bw that tough love but want bw to walk on eggshells on their reality when it comes to how bw get treated by the average black man. If you want the black community to move forward we need to have honest conversation. When it comes to the topic of blacks I will never sugarcoat what I see to please a few. Our situation as a collective is dire and in 2015 it's sink or swim.

Yes we need a honest and factual convo.

Not some generalizing crap with your black men this, black men that like your some white or nonblack chick talking about us like we are monolithic.

Your black miss not white so why dont you act like a sista and not a c00n.

 

[Yup]

Yes we need a honest and factual convo.

Not some generalizing crap with your black men this, black men that like your some white chick.

Your black miss not white so why dont you act like a sista and not a c00n.

Where have I ever spoken like this? Please quote me that post.

 

[Darts]

Thread has jumped way beyond the shark lol. It's about that time mods

 

[Yup]

Yes we need a honest and factual convo.

Not some generalizing crap with your black men this, black men that like your some white or nonblack chick talking about us like we are monolithic.

Your black miss not white so why dont you act like a sista and not a c00n.

I know what and who I am, I don't need you to tell me. If I see that a black man is wrong or black woman, I will calL it out. It does us no good to cover that ish.

 

[Blackout]

Where have I ever spoken like this? Please quote me that post.

Look back at your posts.

Black men this, black men that.

There are hood nikkas and non hood dudes, there are brothas and there are c00ns.

There is absolutely no reference to the complexities of black men in your posts.

I know what and who I am, I don't need you to tell me. If I see that a black man is wrong or black woman, I will calL it out. It does us no good to cover that ish.

Yes a black man not all of us

 

[Yup]

Look back at your posts.

Black men this, black men that.

There are hood nikkas and non hood dudes, there are brothas and there are c00ns.

There is absolutely no reference to the complexities of black men in your posts.

And what complexities are bw afforded? I am not business to sympathize without the favour returned.

 

[Yup]

Bad education, racism and black pathology take toll on black males early on.

It is going to be hard to make a relationship work if the male can't make ends meet. If you like black men realize his economic options are LESS everyone else's in most western societies.


Accept that reality and you should have a better understanding of how to approach a relationship with a black male.

I wish bm saw how bw are affected too. They seem to think that only they are important, some bm are not far from the princess behaviour of white women.

 

[Blackout]

And what complexities are bw afforded? I am not business to sympathize without the favour returned.

There are hood chicks and non hood chicks, there are sistas and female c00ns.

 

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I am not going to cover crap with perfume. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it's a duck. yall are so quick to want to give bw that tough love but want bw to walk on eggshells on their reality when it comes to how bw get treated by the average black man. If you want the black community to move forward we need to have honest conversation. When it comes to the topic of blacks I will never sugarcoat what I see to please a few. Our situation as a collective is dire and in 2015 it's sink or swim.

Fact is: Regardless of racism we have to fix our communities because there is too much dysfunction.

Black women get treated by the average black man?

 

[Yup]

Black women get treated by the average black man?

Yes average bm: good or bad.

 

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Yes average bm: good or bad.

But how do they get treated by brothers iyo?

 

[Yup]

But how do they get treated by brothers iyo?

On average and strictly speaking 90s generation and later....increasingly bad. There's a disdain for the average black girl that I don't understand. Don't get me wrong I think black people prefer each other overall. But the trend of either genders throwing each other under the bus is worrisome.

 

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On average and strictly speaking 90s generation and later....increasingly bad. There's a disdain for the average black girl that I don't understand. Don't get me wrong I think black people prefer each other overall. But the trend of either genders throwing each other under the bus is worrisome.

Its mutual sweetheart. Your playing the victim here. And if your average looking in this age of instagrams and music video models and a proliferation of porn everwhere than expect to relatively invisible. Life is very unfair.

 

[Blackout]

I wish bm saw how bw are affected too. They seem to think that only they are important, some bm are not far from the princess behaviour of white women.

Yes black womens issues do not get the equal attention that they deserve compared to black mens issues but promoting a gender war by ignoring the good black men and not building with them wont help.

 

[Yup]

Its mutual sweetheart. Your playing the victim here. And if your average looking in this age of instagrams and music video models and a proliferation of porn everwhere than expect to relatively invisible. Life is very unfair.

I didn't mention invisibility or being touted as most attractive on Instagram. if you knew me you'd know I don't like much attention. What I said in the previous post is something else...which you acknowledge exist.