Yes. Everyone should be honest with themselves. This also includes the Black woman.
She has a kid (or kids) out of wedlock, yet expects a quality, childless man to save her.
She has tons of student loan and credit card debt, yet expects a man in good financial shape to take her seriously.
She is overweight, yet expects nikkas who care about their health to entertain the thought of dating her.
She can't cook, yet expects a patriarchal man to scoop her up.
She wears hair hats, yet wants something real.
Black men are more than willing to be honest with ourselves. Are Black women willing to do the same among themselves?
How many Black women are
truly good catches out here? Or, are they all queens?