This title is stupid as fukk bruh. I'm from ATL....the capital of the finest black women in America. I'm not a corny ass nikka, but at the same time I wouldn't call myself swagged the fukk out. I don't have the greatest mouthpiece ever but I still pull women of all races, ESPECIALLY fine black women. I've pulled legit dimes that I'm even surprised I managed to get. I've always told myself I'd never have a serious relationship with a woman who wasn't black....but I've dated around, internationally now, and realize there are key personality traits I'm attracted to the most...not whether you have higher levels of melanin or not.
I live in Spain rn...I've dated black American women, white American women, mixed American women, black Portuguese women, white French women, middle eastern British women, white British women, white Russian women, and southern Mediterranean Spanish women, so I have a decent perspective on the general traits (KEYWORD GENERAL - NOT EVERY WOMAN IS THE SAME...BUT USUALLY THE MAJORITY HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON) that different groups have in America and internationally.
Right now I'm dating this Spanish girl....I love her, she's coming to America to study next year so we'll be able to see each other when I come back to the A, and she's the most ride or die chick I've ever been with. She's loyal as fukk to me....I can't even describe it. She just wants a man who makes her laugh, treats her right, shows her affection, and is loyal to her...and in return you get all of that and more from her. You know they be on that
shyt in Spain...chick told me her dad will probably be upset when he finds out about me soon...but she said it's worth it because I treat her the way she wants a man to treat her and he has to deal with it. She's willing to ruin her relationship with her father for me.
Loyalty and dedication like that is hard as fukk to find in American women...black or white....but generally speaking, especially black women.The whole era of main pieces and side pieces has got it fukked up. Dudes don't need a relationship in America anymore because these chicks is slanging p*ssy left and right and giving men the benefits of a relationship without having to actually be in a relationship. I know, I've taken advantage of this shyt for years. And for women it's probably even more exciting....you get an unlimited pools of attractive guys (some simps, "thugs", prettyboys, tricks) doing everything they can to get your attention and take you out somewhere. You eat free. Can get dikked down by any dude a chick thinks is attractive...without having to bring anything to the table besides being cute. It's all reward and no effort really...who wouldn't want that?
The problem is that it creates an environment where real relationships are getting killed off, and people who want real relationships gotta either play the game and get burned a few times until they get lucky enough to win, or end up getting no puss if they not trying to play the game. Who needs loyalty when you've got an iPhone full of hoes/nikkas that'll be happy af to replace your main right now?
Now take this new style of dating we got, and throw the "outliers" into the mix (the "corny dudes" "no swag dudes" "awkward weirdo nikkas"). How are they supposed to win? Most of them don't even wanna run through puss like that....they just want a good girl that they think is attractive that'll be with them. Should they limit their dating pool to only black women, play the game (talk to chicks who got iphones fulla nikkas waiting to pound they ass) and hopefully win and find that needle in a haystack? Or should they open their dating pool to ALL women, find someone who's got what they want, and find the needle in a haystack with a better set of odds? Obviously if they know what they want out of a relationship, and have tried and can't find a black woman who can give it to em, why castigate them for trying to find it in different races? That shyt is just ignorant.
Now if you're a c00n ass nikka......getting a white chick simply to spite black women or rub it in their faces....you lost...because at the end of the day your actions come from a place of insecurity and a feeling of inadequacy.....not love.
That's where he needs to go.